Intensity can increase or decrease and even wear off with time but what is left is the real Pure Love — Runner Perspective.
When the connection was new to me at the beginning of Twin Flame Awakening and I was confused by my emotions, I felt all kinds of intensity but once I healed myself and grew my own Self-Power, I feel balanced within myself that I am in harmony.
Because I feel balanced, I can feel the love in the connection and in myself growing purer and purer – the more I embark on Surrender to Self-Love. I traded intensity for Pure Love.
Two years ago, feeling the intensity of the connection could bring mood swings and emotional turbulence. It is also because I was in so much in fear believing that if the intensity faded, the love faded which is not true — the pain of physical separation from my Twin Flame took a toll on me.
Intensity has nothing to do with the Pure Love Connection between Twin Flames. The love is a formidable force that grows from inside you like a volcano whether there is intensity or not.
Now I don’t really think of the intensity because I already feel my Twin sitting in me; in essence, in Love, in energy, in emotions, etc.
Even our energy share has improved in quality. There are bliss and peace in the connection and as time progresses, I am gradually forgetting the pain that I experienced at the beginning especially when I was a chaser.
The other day I woke up with a heavy heart in the middle of the night and I sent a message right away wondering if he was okay.
I used to send him random messages every time I could feel his pain right at the beginning of our separation and this increased my chasing mechanisms.
This around, I feel grounded in my own Truth and Authenticity that I have no fear in me. I am doing everything out of Love, and not neediness and fear.
I was very sure of what I was writing about and I knew there was a big chance of no reply but I fearlessly wrote to him. I celebrated myself for such growth and confidence in myself. Acting without fear and with such maturity.
All I am saying is that you may be focusing your power and energy in the wrong direction. Twin Flame Surrender.
The Right direction is towards your own self. Grow your self-power and you will not need to feel the love through heights of intensity. Instead, focus on feeling that love in your heart and keep nurturing it — focus on your Soul Growth Inspirations. Love yourself and you will feel that love purely. You don’t need intensity.
Thank you for this question. ❤️
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