How do I rid myself of chaser energy on the Twin Flame Journey? I feel like energetically I am still longing for him, and hoping for the day he returns-even though I accept his choice to run and technically am letting him go.

From my experience, that is not chaser energy, that is Love that you feel. It will not change or go away, the longing for your Twin Flame only gets more intensified as you learn to embrace the Twin Flame experience.

Yesterday I missed him so much, I cried a little — I tried to block him out of my mind, I distracted myself as much as I could but as soon as I got some downtown, I lost interest in everything else and there I was thinking of his smile, his soothing voice, his loving hugs, those gentle kisses, his laughs, and his EYES. Twin Flame Chaser Pain: Why do Twin Flames Run?

The emotional pain that you feel right now will heal as you keep opening your heart to embrace the aftermath of meeting your Twin Flame. The experience shakes you up, and you completely have a different perspective on life and love.

The pain that you feel from longing for your Twin Flame will weaken your ego so that you finally submit to have Trust and Faith in Love to keep focusing on your Soul Work. I have more self-help tips on how to manage the pain of physical Separation from your Twin Flame.

The connection that you feel from your Twin Flame will push you to learn the most difficult Soul lessons that you will ever learn but at the end of it all, you will feel grateful for the experience. The Twin Flame love lessons you will learn at the end of the journey will all feel like they were worth it because your faith in Love will be tested.

Longing for a Twin Flame never stops and you always feel a love pulling at your heart as a form of affirmation that your Twin Flame is feeling you and also longing to be back with you.

The love that you feel for a Twin Flame makes it impossible to date and love others because you always feel a Soul intimacy with them.

Sometimes if you try to move on from the connection with your Twin Flame and date someone new, it feels like you are cheating on your Twin Flame.

And, if you successfully manage to date someone new and even marries them, you always think of your Twin Flame and you wonder what life would be like if you had chosen them instead of your Karmic partner.

The Twin Flame separation is indeed a Blessing in disguise and an illusion because you never feel separated from a Twin Flame no matter how exotic your disconnection tactics are.

Just know that there is no actual Separation in Twin Flames; Absence makes the heart to grow fonder in this case.

Here is my advice;

Embrace empathy — In whatever feeling that you feel at any given moment, feel empathetic. Even if you are daydreaming about your Twin Flame, send empathy to them.

This trick helped me to shift out the “chaser” mode to Surrender and let go of the fear of being abandoned by my Twin Flame.

Empathy also helped me to easily accept self-love because I focused on forgiving myself and I showed more love towards myself –Surrender to Self-Love like this!

When you keep sending out Empathy in your heart, you are actually growing more empathy within yourself which helps you to grow unconditional feelings of love towards yourself. The more you grow feelings of love within yourself, the more you will become love yourself.

One simple way to embark on Self-Love practices is by starting with honoring your Preferences in any given choice. You begin to acknowledge your own Significance as a human which empowers you to re-discover your True Authentic Self.

Thank you so much for the question – I hope my answer helps.

Are you new to being a Twin Flame? Here is a Simple Self-help Guide for your Awakening — Twin Flame Awakening Guide For Newbies

Stay Blessed! ❤