Whatever you are feeling at every point of your Twin Flame Journey must be felt and experienced. Even if you are feeling as the Chaser, let it be, work with it and keep learning your Soul Lessons.
From my experience, the Chaser energy is when I was obsessed with checking in on my Twin Flame. I wanted to always talk to him every time I missed him and I wanted to always hear back from him. When he took too long to respond when we could text back then, I would feel so frustrated and unappreciated yet it wasn’t personal at all.
I managed to shift out of that energy of Chasing my Twin Flame by doing the following things:
The exhaustion from chasing him wore me out; I was tired, helpless and stressed from waiting on my Twin Flame — I don’t advise you to let this happen to you, instead get in front of this challenge.
- Relax, your Twin is always with you in Spirit, in energy, and in Love! You are always bonded together and you feel it too within yourself that the bond you share with your Twin Flame can’t be Severed.
- Choosing to focus on yourself and finding self-love is for your own benefit. Your Twin Flame will always Love you for who you are but Loving yourself the way your Twin Flame loves you is the most empowering feeling ever. This means that you honor yourself and you know that you deserve to be loved by your Twin Flame.
- I disconnected myself from my Twin Flame’s social media. I realized how insecure I get when I am on social media and stalking my Twin Flame only made me feel worse and abandoned because I could see him post photos of himself happy with other people and it only made me chase him further. I wanted to know that he still cared for me.
- Use the Truth. Your Twin Flame is your Team partner and they will always be your Twin Flame. For me to Surrender Completely, I told him the truth about my Awakening experiences and I showed gratitude to my Twin Flame by thanking him for inspiring me to grow and become a better person. It is the truth that your Twin Flame is the Catalyst to all your Soul Growth.
When I openly told my Twin Flame about my experiences, I also told him about my future plans and aspirations. This freed my Soul, but also it also gave me Freedom to leave my Twin Flame alone. I made sure that he understood how much I care for him, and I finally Surrendered.
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I wish you the best of Luck on your Twin Flame Journey. Everything eventually gets easier as you grow into accepting to embody your Shared Twin Flame Energy.
Blessings to you all!