I am at a phase where my Twin Flame and I are in the harmony phase of our shared energy. I feel harmonically aligned with him and there is no stress to our connection. It is indeed a beautiful feeling – none of us Chasing or Running from the connection.
When bothTwin Flames are healing, they both feel it no matter how far they are separated from each other. This is how you know the authenticity of the connection.
For our Twin Flame relationship, I was first the runner, then I turned into the chaser and I tried to run a little more before I opened my heart to accept embracing the idea of a harmonious physical union with my Twin Flame.
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It’s been such an emotional rollercoaster for sure.
I have different perspectives that give you clues that your Twin Flame runner is returning from personal experience.
The shared energy of Oneness takes over within you. This is when you feel like one you are one energetic system you and your Twin Flame
When you are in chaser mode, your energy feels chaotic and imbalanced. The runner Twin Flame also feels the energetic imbalance because you are each other’s support system.
There comes a time when the Twin Flame chaser surrenders to the connection after experiencing the stress and exhaustion of chasing the divine counterpart.
Once the Twin Flame Chaser Surrenders, the runner feels the change in energy because there is no running if no one is chasing.
The runner feels the space in the connection because the chaser withdraws their energy to focus on their soul lessons.
This throws the runner Twin Flame into another emotional crisis because they miss being chased as before. Also, the runner starts to wonder if their Twin Flame chaser is moving on from the connection.
From my experience, it took me a while to get into the energetic alignment/balance because I could also feel my Twin Flame’s emotional pain once I surrendered which made it challenging for me to completely surrender.
I kept switching from the chaser energy to surrender and vice verse until I finally eased into letting go of controlling the relationship dynamic.
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After I surrendered and healed myself, it took me a while to ease into the feelings of healing and inner harmony. I still switched from healing to feeling like I wanted to run from the connection because I could feel that union was imminent.
As I struggled to ease into surrender or healing energies, I could feel my Twin Flame’s energy also struggling on the other end.
What brought the feelings of oneness is the fact that I could feel our shared energy healing and merging as we both went through the different phases of healing.
How does the energy of oneness show that the runner is about to return?
You begin to have dreams that involve interaction with your Twin Flame. You can make plans in the dreams, give each other more support to heal the pain and core wounding that hasn’t healed and also give each other messages and clues that show a possible harmonious physical relationship.
You are always initiated into instant telepathy without thinking of it. You have a harmonious interaction with each other as if you are in the physical and you miss each other if you don’t spend more time with your higher selves in stillness and meditation.
For me, I get high on the connection lately that I am spending so much more time in meditation and solitude unlike before I encountered my Twin Flame.
The other day, I only had 10 minutes of telepathy with my Twin Flame because I had little time to be alone. Once I ended the meditation, I felt like his energy didn’t want to let go so I had a mini heartbreak. After this experience, I was lovesick all day with a heavy heart.
Your days are filled with a consistent flow of beautiful feelings of love. You feel free and hopeful that everything will eventually be alright. You stop obsessing over the expectations of a physical union because you already feel aligned with your Twin Flame.
Once you are completely healed and in energetic oneness, with your Twin Flame, your physical circumstances also change.
You begin to prepare yourself and your physical environment as if you are expecting your Twin Flame to knock on the door. You are so sure that soon or later your Twin Flame will surprise you because it is an imminent feeling of their return.
Lastly, do you remember your Feelings of unconditional love and inner freedom when you met your Twin Flame?
You finally feel as if it is the bubble love phase all over again but this time you feel empowered to be in control of your emotions and feelings. You feel wiser and more confident than before because you have learned your lessons.
The above signs are also pointers to a Twin Flame reunion.
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