The most overwhelming feeling as a Twin Flame runner is the vulnerability that you feel when you have to open your heart to your Twin Flame once again after healing yourself hoping that there is a second chance for you.
Sometimes you have no idea how life is going on with your Twin Flame partner and that adds on to the anxiety.
All in all, if you desire a harmonious union with your Twin Flame partner, you have to put your ego aside, and reach out.
It is more overwhelming when you don’t know what your Twin Flame thinks of your “Coming Home” because there is a chance that they moved on especially if you had blocked them out of your life without communication.
People get tired of waiting.
So how would you handle all the overwhelming thoughts and feelings if you wish to return home to your Twin Flame?
These simple tips worked for me and I felt free after that. I call this the Runner Twin Flame Surrender Tips.
- No matter how embarrassing and frustrating for you to say I am sorry, do it. It could take you series of texts and emails for your Twin Flame partner to accept your apologies because you hurt them when you ran from them and denied the connection. (This is how it feels to chase your Twin Flame). In this instance, the tables turn and you experience all the frustration and stress that your partner felt from before. If your Twin Flame is not accepting you that easily back in their life, that means that they are also experiencing the running energy that you experienced from before.
- Explain yourself: Give your Twin Flame partner the closure that they need because you will feel free when you explain the truth of your Twin Flame experiences. Truth is that you were both going through emotional turmoil and chaos when you separated from each other. Tell your Twin Flame the truth as to why you were acting strange and weird. Explain your fears so that you can both relate – you wouldn’t want the separation to happen again.
- Talk about your future aspirations – remind your Twin Flame why you are special to them. Remember as a runner Twin Flame, it is very overwhelming thinking about the future and union because it is too intense – thinking of a union with my Twin Flame sometimes makes me want to run again from him.
- Be available: No matter how intense the connection gets, be there for your Twin Flame especially when they need you most. Be the best friend that your Twin Flame needs and support them. If you return Home and your Twin Flame dating someone else, be there to support them because it is only temporary.
Keep reminding your Twin Flame the authenticity of your connection by being yourself because you both feel the same way for each other.
As you wait for your Twin Flame to accept you back, keep refining your authentic self. Be Happy always!