Whatever fears and insecurities that you feel from within are holding you back from Surrender.
What is the greatest fear during the Twin Flame journey that most Twin Flames have?
From my experience, it is Fear of unconditional love: Whether it is showing it to yourself or receiving it from your Twin Flame.
Whatever drives your Fears, it pushes you to either chase or runs from a Twin Flame. Once you dissolve the fears, you feel free to love unconditionally not only for your Twin Flame but for everybody.
Surrender begins with learning to release yourself from your fears and it happened for me in three ways:
- Truth: I knew that I had to tell my Twin Flame exactly how I felt — all the love and the fears. So I wrote to him an honest long letter explaining the series of my experiences since I met him. Once you accept that your Twin Flame knows how you feel, you let go.
- Acceptance: Once you meet a Twin Flame, your life changes completely for the best. But before you find a good change, life becomes chaotic. Accept that your life will never be the same again. Accept how you feel for your Twin Flame. Accept to embrace the change that your Twin Flame experiences bring in your life.
- Gratitude: Whenever an opportunity avails itself, I express to my Twin Flame how grateful I am for having him in my life. I thank him for being the trigger of healing that I Rediscovered my authentic self.
- Forgiveness: I began with forgiving myself first. This released me in so many ways. Forgiving others especially your Twin Flame will release you to Surrender.