Three major lessons:
You are strong on your own; the obsessive need to be comforted by your Twin Flame is a sign that the Chaser is afraid of loneliness.
Being a Twin Flame is such a lonely journey. At some point in your path, friends who don’t understand you or align with your new vibration disappear, you disconnect from family especially if they don’t support you and it is very difficult to confide in anybody who has never been through the experiences.
When I chased my Twin Flame, I was only thinking of myself and my needs. I wanted my Twin Flame to step in and save me from my loneliness.
Physical separation teaches you to search deeper within yourself. You learn to embrace who you are by hugging your inner child.
As you keep rediscovering your authentic self, you finally find your Core strength.
You eventually become your own best friend and you don’t need your Twin Flame to save you.
Facing fear /Ego: (Separation Pain)
Before I met my Twin Flame, I had this unexplainable fear that I could not understand. I was afraid of being showed unconditional love by others and I was also afraid of feeling unconditional love myself.
When I was young, I always felt uneasy, and I never got in anywhere. I was always “the girl behind the tree”.
As I grew older, I learned to mask my fear in different ways. My ego got bigger, and I felt more lost because I learned to put on a fake facade which I became good at.
I became more unhappy from within because I was living a fake personality.
Meeting my Twin Flame takes my ego and going through the Twin Flame Experience has taught me to face myself and my fears.
Phase by phase, I have been unlearning all the fake things about my life and I have also learned new habits and rediscovered my authentic self.
You learn to shed the ego as you progress with your experiences.
Oneness: Always Connected in Soul
Don’t you always feel your Twin Flame energy with you all the time?
At the beginning of the chasing phase, the Chaser is worried that if the Twin Flame partner is out of sight, they are gone forever especially when they are not in communication.
Well, I always feel my Twin Flame’s energy with me whether I am chasing or running.
I wish I had better words to explain this to you because I feel like I share my heart with my Twin Flame. We also talk through the heart.
The Chaser learns that you will never be separated from Twin Flame because the bond is eternal.