Sometimes it is also the fear of hurting the Twin Flame partner that pushes the runner and sometimes it is a mix of both.
From my runner experience, the fear that runners feel is unexplainable because it is always deep-seated from within.
If the runner had lived a life of being hurt before by previous lovers, or if they trusted someone with their and that person broke their trust, it is obvious to be afraid of the real thing.
Now, remember that with Twin Flames, you have no chance to contemplate the connection, and you don’t have to first get to know your Twin Flame to feel the Sacred connection.
Once you meet this special person, you feel compelled to know them because you realize that the connection wasn’t instant but it had existed within you without knowing way before you met.
Meeting your Twin Flame shifts your consciousness to accept that you have been a Twin Flame all along. This is why some parts of your life felt misaligned before because you have always been different.
Let’s talk about the two scenarios of fearing to get hurt by a Twin Flame and also the fear of hurting them.
This fear is a two-way street and it is governed by the fact the Twin Flame runner has no control over how deep the Twin Flame love goes.
Before the runner decides to run away from their Twin Flame, they know it in their soul that there is no one else for them but their divine partner and they also know that soon or later they will have to confront the situation.
Because the runner is so sure of the unconditional love within their heart, there is a resistance to the connection because the mind is still in denial and seeing everything from a point of fear.
The hurting, running and chasing are all signs of fear of letting the unconditional love that both partners feel to consume them.
When I was with my Twin Flame partner at the bubble love phase, everything felt perfect yet unplanned. I was suddenly happy and it didn’t go away after that even after we separated — I have learned to grow more happiness without him.
Meeting your Twin Flame completes the puzzle of your life for you because now you realize that you were not weird or strange – you are special and you were only missing parts of the puzzle that is your Twin Flame to complete the picture.
Without your Twin Flame, you felt like you didn’t fit in with others before but with him or her, you are perfect!
When I am with my Twin Flame, it feels like we are here in our bubble and everybody else is over there!