What helped me to let go was understanding that my twin is me! I needed to give him that space out of respect for myself as his equal energetic partner.
I also reminded myself that if I was in his position because we are the same person, I would be repulsed by somebody breathing down my neck or suffocating me even if it’s smothering me with Love. I would hate that!
I also tried to understand his feelings of confusion and chaos as I was feeling them too. This gave me an empathetic reaction to the Connection knowing that If he is happy, we are all happy!
Most of all, I remembered that we are both parts of one Soul. That means that he is always with me and he is Me in another version. So this made me relax to focus on myself to be worthy of being his Equal Energetic Match. — I opted to use other modes of communication like Meditation and using Empathetic telepathic communication.
This means that I had to invest all my energy in the Connection and I had to consciously stay positive and In Love for him to feel my Love be for him.
I drew all my energy to myself and focused on Loving Me! This was SO challenging at first but as I eased into it, I realized that the more I focused on myself and respected my responsibilities as a Twin Soul, the more I felt his Love.
Once this Started, it led me to an energy Union with him because I finally let go and gave him his space in the Connection which made him have Space to Express his Love for Us!
Remember, it’s not about you or him. It’s for the BOTH of you!
Do your work and Magic will happen.