Two things; Yes, you can Surrender and stop chasing your Twin Flame, and secondly, you can’t make them chase you or want you because you are already bound in unconditional love for eternity. They already love you.
Most people will advise you to find self-love but how do you begin to love yourself if it is a new experience?
Why do you need self-love to let go of your Twin Flame?
The simplest explanation why you need to love yourself is because you are a mirror to your Twin Flame. You are two parts of a soul — and if you love yourself, you are also loving your Twin Flame in essence.
Also, if you know how to love yourself unconditionally, you will be able to accept the love from your Twin Flame. You can’t appreciate love if don’t know it.
As you begin to embrace self-love, you will gradually re-discover your authentic self. This is the person that your Twin Flame feels connected to in the connection and you must live a life of authenticity to enjoy feeling the bliss of the connection.
When you are in chaser mode, you are vibrating from low energy vibes because you feel negative and frustrated about your Twin Flame’s running behavior and this brings about the chaos in your connection. Your Twin Flame can feel the energetic imbalance.
But, once you find the courage to accept things as they are, and you surrender — just letting go of the stress to control the connection brings harmony in the energetic connection.
The more you keep working on yourself and heal your energy, the more you will feel the energy of oneness with your Twin Flame. The shared energy becomes more blissful and you feel yourselves merging into each other.
This is the phase where you stop missing them intensely because you feel them within you: The telepathic communication improves, and you feel them in your dreams. You become more peaceful and faithful to the connection because you are satisfied with the 5D aspect of your experience.
This change within the chaser brings about a change in the energetic dynamic because the Twin Flame who was running feels the growth and improvement.
This is when the runner tries to reconcile because they miss their divine partner.
Therefore, you cant make your Twin Flame want you if you are not ready yourself.
It takes two to tangle.
I hope that my answer helps you.