It took over a year, but our physical separation has lasted over two years and I will be seeing him soon, hopefully for my birthday. Fingers crossed!
Once I got the affirmation of his return, I went into a phase of reverse “soul shock” — it is an opposite feeling to what I felt when we physically separated.
For the “reverse shock,” I was overwhelmed and nervous briefly and then I went into a phase of numbness where all my feelings “escaped” me.
For two years, I craved to be with him. I longed to look in his eyes, and I cried myself to sleep when I desperately missed him but now that he is attempting to return, I was confused by the numbness.
My soul was in shock because I did not expect his return to be as “smooth” as it manifested. It was effortless and no stress to it. Everything feels divinely guided.
I must tell you that Surrender alone does not bring your Twin Flame back. I learned that the following also affect the speed and nature of your Twin Flame reunion:
Healing:
No matter how much you crave to be with your Twin Flame, you must accept every aspect of your Twin Flame experiences and once you submit to learning and growing, you evolve into your authentic self through inner healing. Once you heal, you will appreciate the gifts of being in a Twin Flame connection and or relationship.
There are no shortcuts to Twin Flame healing whether you aspire to be in a harmonious Twin Flame relationship or not. You must accept to heal your energy, and you must accept the shared energetic merge to transform you.
The more you delay your healing, the more painful and irritant your situation will be, and the more your reunion will be dragged.
If you have chances of a temporary reunion with your Twin Flame, you end up triggering each other in cycles of running and chasing until you completely heal your energy.
Your Energetic healing also affects your Twin Flame’s energetic harmony.
Communication:
There are so many reasons why Twin Flames have estranged communication with each other but where there is love, there is always a way of keeping the fire burning.
No matter how chaotic your Twin Flame situation is, Twin Flames always find a way to send a message to each other as a sign of “I am still here” signal.
I always advise fellow Twin Flames to keep a channel of communication physically to your Twin Flame no matter how challenging the situation is because life is short. Make the most out of your experience in every action that you make and use the truth to communicate with your Twin Flame.
No matter how strange you sound to others who don’t understand your Twin Flame situation, your Twin Flame partner is the only person who understands your chaos and the intensity of your connection. You will only feel understood by your Twin Flame.
There are times when I wrote to my Twin Flame long letters expelling my experiences and how I feel. Even though he rarely responded, I felt understood and it accelerated my healing process. I trusted that as long as he knew how I felt, someday he would return.
If you are rude, cold and distant with your Twin Flame, how do you expect them to feel free to return if they don’t feel wanted by you?
Your Twin Flame is your divine partner and eternal best friend.
Appreciation & Gratitude:
Are you frustrated with your Twin Flame because they triggered you into emotional pain and energy cleansing?
Are you infuriated that they initiated a catalytic alchemical change in your life that you have no control over?
Are you angry that your Twin Flame sparked so much pain and chaos in your life?
It is okay and natural to feel this way, and these emotions come to the surface so that they are cleaned out of your system.
But you must also realise that if it wasn’t for your Twin Flame and the encounter, you would never have had the opportunity to experience the invigorating change. You would never have evolved into your authentic self, and you would never have purged the emotional pain that you has in your past.
Every opportunity that you get, tell your Twin Flame how much you appreciate them. Be thankful for having them in your life, and remind them of how special they are to you!
Forgiveness:
Do you realize that one you embrace Forgiveness, you stop feeling guilty for every choice or action that you make?
The Twin Flame process brings all the guilt to the surface. If it is not my Twin Flame’s guilt that I WAS channeling, it was my own guilt that ate me up.
I learned that forgiveness on the Twin Flame journey starts with my Forgiveness. The more I learned to forgive myself, the more I embraced forgiving others.
The more I forgave others, the more healing it brought in my life which increased my happiness and inner harmony.
Faith & Trust:
How can a reunion happen if you don’t have faith in your connection or your journey?
If you don’t trust your Twin Flame to love you as much as you love them, how do you expect the relationship to be authentic?
If you forget how sacred your Twin Flame connection is, how do you expect to appreciate the spiritual gifts of being a Twin Flame?
No matter how much information you absorb about Twin Flames, you must understand that the connection works within you. No one else can affirm to you what you already know and feel. You must know how special your Twin Flame connection is by believing what you already feel.
Practical — Self-discipline:
We all live and function in the physical practical world — so does your Twin Flame. No matter how much you share a sacred bond that cannot be severed, you must align your Twin Flame connection with the physical reality to achieve a reunion with your Twin Flame.
If you choose to have sexual intimacy with others during a physical separation from your Twin Flame, how do you expect your Twin Flame to feel about this?
If you don’t fight for your love no matter the challenging circumstances, how do you expect to have results and success?
If you don’t show commitment to your Twin Flame journey, how do you expect your Twin Flame to stick around? If you choose to hide your feelings behind a new relationship, how do you expect your Twin Flame to know that you still love them?
Divine Timing:
Divine timing is always at play in the lives of Twin Flames and it is important to surrender — let everything be as it is meant to be.
Trust that your Twin Flame is the love of your life. If you are meant to be together, they will gravitate back to you.
TRUST THAT YOU DESERVE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
Stay in Love!
