Haha, it is so funny that you ask this because I have a story to share about this same topic.
We physically separated over two years ago, and since then I have been giving him hints that he is the other “half of my soul” but I don’t think the points hit home. I tried using so many words and phrases over the years by explaining in detail the happenings of my awakening process but nothing seemed to move him.
I did not stop giving him the hints because I have always wanted to understand if my Twin Flame and I are aligning on the same wavelength. I know that every Twin Flame wants to affirm if your Twin Flame feels the same way you do.
I kept doing my soul growth work and committed to becoming the best version of myself as I grew with self-love and acceptance.
Once I finally felt healed completely, I was surprised that it happened faster than I expected. I found happiness, bliss, inner harmony, and personal empowerment. My days became better as I learned to embrace the authentic version of myself that I evolved into.
Nonetheless, I missed my Twin Flame on a daily and it intensified as I healed because the connection became clearer and the love became purer which magnified the longing. I felt healed, and free from pain but I felt hollow as if half of me was physically missing. I could feel my Twin Flame’s essence continuously merge with mine on a daily. I started dreaming of him every night, and the thoughts of him increased.
I felt so bored with everything else because I craved to physically merge with my Twin Flame but I didn’t know how to initiate contact. I felt stuck — I plateaued for over 6 weeks no knowing how to proceed with my Journey.
I had assumed that if I healed myself, it would attract my Twin Flame bacK but there is more to that than I expected.
I also learned that it is okay to feel this way when you finally surrender and heal. This phase of your Twin Flame journey feels stagnated because it is the best time to ask yourself the most important questions of your Twin Flame journey, and you also have the chance to reflect on the lessons and realizations of your Twin Flame experiences.
After I asked myself the most important questions of what I wanted out of my REUNION experiences with my Twin Flame, I realized that I had to initiate contact with him no matter how much it felt uncomfortable to do it.
It is very overwhelming and nerve-wracking to express your vulnerability to your Twin Flame. It is very challenging to find the right words to express the GIANT feelings. I always feel like a weirdo every time I tell my Twin Flame how I feel, and I never have the right words to use. I am always emotionally messy.
But, I found the inner strength and guts to tell him — I spilled my feelings all over the place but I told him the truth of my heart that I am still here waiting for only him all these years.
This moved my Twin Flame, and he got in touch — now we are headed to a reunion.
I don’t intend to lose him again after the reunion and I am going to do my best to stick together because separation is painful.
I hope that my perspective helps you with your question.
Sending you blessings and love.