I don’t know about other Twin Flames but for me, ever since I separated from my Twin Flame physically, I have always felt like I am either dying, hopeless, sad, and blackhole feeling — and these are the good days. On bad days, I feel all the above emotions at once.
I have tried but nothing has come close to feeling the emptiness that I feel in my soul.
The Twin Flame experience challenges you to feel the emptiness so that you can acknowledge the ONENESS that you share with your Twin Flame.
Also, one of the soul lessons that I went through as a newbie was to learn to balance the emotional highs and lows of the experience. You learn to find inner strength and happiness to live with the emptiness of living life without a Twin Flame.
As I earned to embrace my journey, I learned that the “black hole” feeling exists to teach you an important lesson about unconditional love. You must love your Twin Flame completely — therefore you learn to fill the emptiness in your soul with love.
You also learn that once you fill the emptiness with love, you stop feeling disconnected from your Twin Flame. This is when you learn that Twin Flame separation is an illusion.
You are always connected to your Twin Flame.
I used to think that when you heal yourself after separation, the intensity of missing a Twin Flame lessens but I was wrong. You indeed start to feel great about yourself and your life after healing but you always feel as if you have of you is taken from you and nothing can fill the emptiness.