I used to ask myself this exact question when I was struggling with letting go. I was haunted by thoughts and memories of him all the time and the more I tried to surrender, the more it felt difficult.
Truth is that I have never had a break from thinking of my Twin Flame that it feels normal to have him in the back of my mind all the time.
Yes, Surrender seems very difficult at first because you always feel compelled to think of your Twin Flame or check in on them. You feel empty if you feel any disconnection to them.
But I assure you that it gets easier as you learn to surrender, you think of your Twin Flame but you don’t feel fear that they don’t love you. One of the reasons why chasers keep chasing is because they fear that physical separation will change how their Twin Flames feel and the fear of abandonment drives their actions.
Surrender taught me how to embrace peace — the more I learned to free myself of the fear of abandonment, the stronger I felt to feel grounded in my energy.
I still think of my Twin Flame every day but I can manage to still feel peaceful. I have no fear or worry that he would forget me because I feel the connection within growing every day.
At every phase of your Twin Flame journey, you think of your Twin Flame and nothing can stop this.