When I met my Twin Flame, I was married and it has been an emotional rollercoaster dealing with the new change that was initiated by our encounter.
Once we found each other, we knew that we had both been looking for each other and it has been quite an invigorating process of learning and transformation since we separated.
It is until we physically separated that I started to experience alien feelings from feeling intense love to feeling depressed and anxious about our situation.
Since I met my Twin Flame, I knew that my life would change starting with my marriage. I knew that all the unhappiness that existed in me would dissolve because meeting him gave me a new kind of happiness.
Before my Twin Flame walked into my life, I was stuck — my life seemed meaningless and I was losing hope for so many things. I was slowly giving up on my dreams. I was sleepwalking through my life.
We had our marital issues and for 5years, things seemed to be getting worse each year.
I was still holding on too tightly to my already gone marriage because I was afraid of being alone.
Once I met my Twin Flame, I didn’t know that life would bring us to Awakening or to learn soul growth lessons that I did over the past two years.
I didn’t know anything about Twin Flames and each day is a new opportunity to become better and grow.
After we physically separated because we come from different continents, and we never expected to meet, we both had to go back to our normal lives after the intense three weeks of merging into each other.
My Twin Flame and I have a special bond and intense soul intimacy but we were never sexually intimate because we respect my now ex-husband who is still a mutual friend to both of us.
Neither did my husband or Twin Flame know about the Twin Flame Experience — I have never discussed the topic with either.
I graciously dissolved my marriage, and I have been single ever since and celibate.
My ex-husband has also been my closest friend since we separated and I never relapsed into going back to what we used to have. Instead, we have helped each other to adjust to the change, we have managed to handle our issues just the two of us without dragging anyone into the situation.
As time passed by after our separation, we both realized that we are better off as friends than as an estranged married couple.
I will be seeing my Twin Flame soon after two years of transformation and growth.
I don’t have any expectations for his return. I was overwhelmed at first when I heard the news but I got used to the idea after a while that I feel no distinctive feelings.
I had gotten used to living life without my Twin Flame no matter how much I missed him. I became happy in my loneliness.
Having been married before, I don’t know how things will turn out but I am not in a rush to be committed.
The first thing I will tell him that we need to take things slow. We have each other, and it is all that matters.
Twin Flames, you need to stop paying too much attention to separation and instead, focus on what you want to achieve after separation ends because it will.
It is much more overwhelming thinking of the future and what comes after that.
If you want your journey to progress, you must think of your future, and probably plan it truthfully.
I hope that my perspective helps you with your question.