Are you making progress with your healing as a Twin Flame?


STEP 1: Assess your situation & Identify your pain triggers.

If I knew beforehand that being physically separated from my Twin Flame would be chaotic and painful, I would have mentally prepared myself but I was so naive about the Twin Flame experience.

If you want to put an end to your separation cycle, you must understand why you are separated in the first place, and then you can identify the trigger for your separation. 

Is it a geographical problem?

 Is it relationships and family blockages? Or is it energetic dis alignment?

Each separation cycle in Twin Flames is different from each pair and you must be willing to face your truth. 

For us, it is geographical because we come from different continents and I was also still married two years ago.

STEP 2: What plan do you have to overcome physical separation from your Twin Flame?

For me, I promised my Twin Flame that I will clean up my life and free myself so that we could have a change when we got back together.

My Twin Flame suggested that he would go back home and fix his life so that he could come back to me.

There are moments during our physical separation when we had estranged communication — I rarely heard from him and sometimes he would not respond to my messages but I TRUST him with my life and I know that he wants the same thing as I do.

But, as long as you know what you promised each other and you have a plan to get back together, it doesn’t matter how far you from each other, you always end up finding each other.

Always Connected in Soul — The soul intimacy that Twin Flames share with each other makes it impossible to forget each other. You are constantly thinking about each other. This was my running experience.

STEP 3: What is the end goal for your connection?

It is one thing to affirm what you feel for your Twin Flame but what do you want from all this? What is your peace?

For me, I crave and desire to have someone to share my life with and create our world and family. I have always felt alone but after meeting my Twin Flame, I never felt alone after that.

Loving him has taught me happiness, virtue, and faith. I am the happiest woman in the world because of meeting him and allowing him in my heart.

My end goal for this Twin Flame connection is to make peace with him and share the rest of my life with him. I know that I deserve my happiness — this is the reason I persevere and keep faith that everything will eventually work out for us.


Physical separation can go on as long as you allow it to — AND you have control to an extent by having an organization to your chaos.

I have been through the separation phase and I felt like it would never end but it eventually did. Lately, I ask myself why I felt scared of losing my Twin Flame.

He is still the same person that I fell in love with.

I wish you Blessings and Love on your Journey.

Are you making progress with your healing as a Twin Flame?

Blog: My Twin Soul Journal