The inner knowing that your Twin Flame is special and one of a kind gives you hope to persevere through the most challenging of times. Once you find unconditional love, you feel empowered to overcome any obstacle that comes in your way even if it is yourself. This is why Twin Flames are inspired to evolve into the most authentic versions of themselves during physical separation.
After going through this experience, I have learned a few lessons:
Love is real, powerful and the strongest force in the universe. Twin Flames are beings full-on love and this intense explosive soul bond becomes stronger and deeper during physical separation. The love I feel for my Twin Flame has been my solace in my loneliest times, and our connection has been my best friend and comforter especially during the dark days. It has been over almost two and a half years since we last saw each other but I always feel connected to him. The intensity of the connection varies — some days are more chaotic than others.
There is always a pattern to a separation cycle depending on the particular Twin Flame pair. It is much easier if you understand your relationship dynamic, identify the triggers and work on them. Therefore, you must learn to assess your situation, make a plan to get over the triggers and then have an end goal to your pain.
This is how it worked for me:
STEPS TO ENDING THE TWIN FLAME CYCLE.
STEP 1: Assess your situation & Identify your triggers.
If I knew beforehand that being physically separated from my Twin Flame would be chaotic and painful, I would have mentally prepared myself but I was so naive about the Twin Flame experience.
If you want to put an end to your separation cycle, you must understand why you are separated in the first place, and then you can identify the trigger for your separation. Is it a geographical problem? Is it relationships and family blockages? Or is it energetic dis alignment?
Each separation cycle in Twin Flames is different from each pair and you must be willing to face your truth. For us, it is geographical because we come from different continents and I was also still married two years ago.
STEP 2: What plan do you have to overcome physical separation from your Twin Flame?
For me, I promised my Twin Flame that I will clean up my life and free myself so that we could have a change when we got back together.
My Twin Flame suggested that he would go back home and fix his life so that he could come back to me.
There are moments during our physical separation when we had estranged communication — I rarely heard from him and sometimes he would not respond to my messages but I TRUST him with my life and I know that he wants the same thing as I do.
But, as long as you know what you promised each other and you have a plan to get back together, it doesn’t matter how far you from each other, you always end up finding each other.
STEP 3: What is the end goal for your connection?
It is one thing to affirm what you feel for your Twin Flame but what do you want from all this? What is your peace?
For me, I crave and desire to have someone to share my life with and create our world and family. I have always felt alone but after meeting my Twin Flame, I never felt alone after that.
Loving him has taught me happiness, virtue, and faith. I am the happiest woman in the world because of meeting him and allowing him in my heart.
My end goal for this Twin Flame connection is to make peace with him and share the rest of my life with him. I know that I deserve my happiness — this is the reason I persevere and keep faith that everything will eventually work out for us.
Physical separation can go on as long as you allow it to — AND you have control to an extent by having an organization to your chaos.
I have been through the separation phase and I felt like it would never end but it eventually did. Lately, I ask myself why I felt scared of losing my Twin Flame.
He is still the same person that I fell in love with.
I hope that my perspective helps you.