It happens naturally — you get exhausted from chasing. You get to a point where all your tactics of chasing don’t work anymore. You get frustrated, and you surrender all your efforts to the universe to lead the way. You let of the need to control the relationship. You free yourself of the constant need to control your Twin Flame and the relationship.
Once you accept the fact that your Twin Flame will return or not, you realise you had no control over your relationship in the first place.
Separation anxiety pushes most chasers to fear that the Twin Flame runner will never return but it is an illusion. You feel your Twin Flame in your heart and with you all the time. You are never separated because you always feel the oneness. It is as if you share a mind and heart whether you are in physical separation or not.
Let yourself feel however you feel. If you still feel stressed out about being a chaser Twin Flame, it is okay to feel that way because your reaction to your connection pushes the runner to grow as they keep running.
The more the runner runs from his divine partner, the more lonely they feel — and it reminds them of their divine partner.
Whatever you do, trust that everything will all right. The way your Twin Flame found you, is the way they will drift back to you.