It changes the relationship dynamic when you choose to focus on yourself instead of obsessing about controlling your Twin Flame dynamic.
It can take some time for the physical reality to change — but it all starts with the change in perspective by both Twin Flames.
The runner misses the chase; you cannot run if nothing is chasing you and the runner realizes that the Chaser is moving on once they Surrender.
When the Chaser feels empowered to focus on themselves and Surrender, it brings harmony within themselves which affects the energetic merge.
The runner Twin Flame feels the energetic harmony in the connection as well which accelerates their healing and soul growth.
The chasing and running phase of Twin Flames is a temporary situation and Twin Flames easily overcome it by confronting their fears that trigger them into running or chasing.