I was also married when I met my Twin Flame and it was the most challenging obstacle to overcome but I eventually found healing and inner peace even though we have been separated for 3 years now; I am now single and celibate because I will not give up on our Sacred bond.
The unconditional love that I feel for him fills me up with happiness and inner harmony and I am very grateful everyday for finding my Twin Flame and the lessons that I have learned ever since he triggered me to Spiritually Awaken and find Enlightenment. I had never imagined that I would be this happy in this lifetime. If you need an inspiration to find Inner Union & Harmony, I learned these lessons of unconditional love.
Having gone through our separation phase initially as the runner and then the chaser later, I learned that there are both external factors and internal reasons why your Twin Flame “ghosts” you without any justifiable reason.
For our Twin Flame relationship, I knew right away that it would take change and a lot of hard work for us to be together in a harmonious relationship because I was the married one when I met my Twin Flame.
The journey to our reunion has been gradual, and life-changing because of the transformational Soul lessons that I have learned and the invigoration Soul Awakening experiences. I feel like I have been granted to live life once again with a fresh perspective.
Thinking of the change to come in my life after I met my Twin Flame was a very overwhelming feeling that I thought that if I tried to physically block him out of my life, it would ease the pain of missing him and it would also make the connection fade so that I could forget about him.
The problem was with not with my Twin Flame but rather, I was afraid of feeling unconditionally loved by him and I was also afraid of what people would think if I left my marriage for my Twin Flame.
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I was afraid to change my friends, and losing the connection to my husband’s family. I was afraid to be scorned upon and I also afraid of being alone because my Twin Flame lives on a separate continent.
Fear was my greatest obstacle to overcome and it took me a series of running from my Twin Flame and blocking him out of my life to understand that I had to face myself to confront the personal fears and core wounding that brought me so much pain and unhappiness. Here are some tips to Overcome Twin Flame Obstacles that are standing in the way of a reunion.
Twin Flame healing empowers you to transform and evolve into the authentic version of yourself; there is no way around the Twin Flame journey and you must experience all the pain and frustration of purging that past pain that is lodged within you. This is one of the quickest way that I used to help me find soul healing and I finally felt free and happy.
It takes tremendous courage and faith to trust that your Twin Flame will eventually come back to you. Sometimes you worry that your Twin Flame will not return because of the prolonged phase of separation but I know from experience that your Twin Flame has nowhere else to be but with you and they will eventually realise that you cannot escape unconditional love no matter where run to.
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Everything about the unconditional love that I felt for my Twin Flame felt right from the start yet the physical circumstances in which we found each other were more complicated and the obstacles that stood between us seemed unsurmountable.
Embracing self-love was one of the most challenging experiences as a Twin Flame and it took series of change and transformation for me to find my authentic self; I had to learn to show unconditional love to myself and I had to face parts of myself that I thought were unlovable before.
On the other hand, when I sabotaged our friendship by trying to run from him, he felt uncomfortable and hurt by my actions that he suggested that things would be better off for “everyone” if we did not talk to each other.
Even though he said that we should not talk to each other, he has been lurking in the background for the past three years, and sometimes he physically makes contact to make sure that I am still here.
We both have a magnetic attraction towards each other that is uncontrollable and compulsive that we end up finding ways to check in on each other.
I also randomly kept texting him about the updates of my life even though he never wrote back and over the past three years, he would get in touch especially when he could not control the compulsions to stay away from me.Silvia-Moon’s Twin Flame Journey
We currently both know about each other’s wellbeing and we always have each other’s backs no matter where we are in the world; we always protect each other and most of all, no matter how weird or awkward the situation is, we always tell each other the truth.
It is impossible to sever the Twin Flame bond because the connection is Soul deep and every day after you meet your Twin Flame becomes about you and your Twin Flame.
No matter how estranged your relationship is with your Twin Flame, you feel unconditional love for them and your heart is always open to receive their love.
Furthermore, you always feel unconditional empathy and forgiveness for your Twin Flame that it is very difficult to stay mad at them for long.
Keep having the faith in your Twin Flame connection and remember to love yourself unconditionally because you are your Twin Flame in essence.
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