I was the married one and my Twin Flame had just broken up with his girlfriend right before we met. The Twin Flame experience is very unexpected and I would say that it affects both Twin Flames in different ways.
Before I speak for my perspective, I also watched how antagonizing it was for my Twin Flame to see me with someone else even if it was my husband.
He could show it and tell me that he was unhappy seeing me get cozy with someone else.
I also believe that my Twin Flame realized that I am the reason why he hadn’t found what he was looking for in previous relationships — it is amazing how Twin Flames get entitled to their divine partner — he has this natural response to always wanting to protect me. He naturally is drawn to keeping me safe — and he does.
The easy aspect on my part was the fact that I knew right away that I love my Twin Flame unconditionally because I had the contrast with my marriage.
I thought that I loved my husband then, I thought that I knew what true love is, but I was wrong. It is until I met the Twin Flame that I realized that I was naive about what unconditional love means.
I told my Twin Flame how imperfect I am at being “married”, he replied saying, “You don’t see me married.”
I responded saying, “At least I tried.”
However Twin Flames meet each other, it is difficult and painful to not be together at that moment.