You have to embrace the changes that come your way as a Twin Flame. It does not matter if you accept your Twin Flame connection or not. Transformation takes over your life.
From my experiences, I went through the following changes:
The Twin Flame transformation happens to you mentally, psychologically, energetically, and emotionally.
The first sign of meeting a Twin Flame is the spiritual transformation that you go through. The spiritual changes that you go through change your energetic vibrations. You feel a rise in your energetic frequency because you experience an energetic merging.
Your dreams change. You think of him or her 24/7. You feel their essence hovering over you.
Apart from feeling your Twin Flame’s essence with you all the time, you also go through an awakening. You wake up to your life situation. You pursue a life of authenticity.
The spiritual awakening that you go through is your first step to surrendering. You allow yourself to break down so that you can build yourself up.
You shed your ego. You go into yourself to hug your inner child. You embrace your core wounding.
When you face your inner pain, you realize that you have the inner strength to heal. You feel empowered to face your fears so that you can feel free.
The main reason why I ran from my Twin Flame was that I was scared of feeling unconditional love. I was not used to feeling disarmed and vulnerable.
I had so much pain that was buried within me. I went through cycles of energetic cleansing. I had to shed my energy.
After the spiritual awakening process, I became enlightened. The spiritual growth experience brought light into my life. I learned to simplify everything I do. I work towards creating more happiness in my life.
Also, the runner goes through emotional changes. You feel the shift in your consciousness; your paradigm changes.
Coupled with spiritual growth and enlightenment, your view of the world changes. Because of the unconditional love that you feel for your Twin Flame, you embark on finding a life mission that impacts the human collective.