When you dive into the process of dissolving your marriage, you also experience deeper fears that arise out of the minute changes that you need to make. For example, you feel afraid of changing your family ties. If you desire a harmonious physical reunion with your Twin Flame, you must make it your daily goal to pursue it. Work hard to fix your life so that you feel ready to be together with your Twin Flame.
You know that if you separate from your husband or wife, you separate from your extended family and friends. You will have to form new ties and relationships. If you invested so much in your previous friendships and relationships, you fear that you might not meet good friends again.
For me, I lost my old friends and my business that I had built with my husband for over five years. I had to allow myself to change. My life turned upside down; It first crashed before it became better. Karmic Partners: How do you focus on yourself when you know that your Twin Flame is married to someone else?
Life became miserable for me. I was alone with my Twin Flame experiences. I could not tell my friends why I was making all the changes in my life because I was afraid of being judged or scorned upon. I was afraid that I would be judged for choosing my Twin Flame experiences over my previous life.
I did not have a choice. Change became the only constant in my life therefore I had to submit. I was very naive about the nature of the Twin Flame experiences. I trusted divine timing to guide me through all the changes.
Every lesson that I have learned along the Twin Flame journey has been through experiences first. I first learned the lesson and then discovered a solution to my problems. Twin Flame Awakening; What are the Authentic Signs of meeting a Twin Flame?
The physical separation phase has been a test for the feelings for my Twin Flame. I had to dig deeper within myself to know myself — To find inner harmony and happiness.
The Twin Flame experience is not about just romance and roses. If you want to reunite with a Twin Flame to have a harmonious union, you must open your heart fully to embrace the overwhelming changes. The Bubble Love Phase: How do you feel when you meet your Twin Flame initially?
You cannot have your Twin Flame in your life if you have obstacles standing in the way.
You have to do the necessary work; physically, psychologically, spiritually, and emotionally to be ready for a happy future.