How can a twin flame have self-love while at the same time feel that they aren’t in union with their twin flame because they are lacking spiritual growth?


You must accept yourself to change because if you put up an inner resistance, it will only bring to you frustration and pain. Soon or later, you have to change because the Twin Flame experience only stands to change you and your life situation. Surrender: How to free your Soul

Change is very difficult to embrace at the beginning of the separation phase but you eventually learn to go with the flow and trust the divine course of your journey. It starts with accepting yourself and who you are from within. Runner Return Signs: A Reunion Guide Back to The Chaser

Embracing change is the first challenge of the Twin Flame experience because you go deep within yourself to dig out all the past pain and core wounding that was lodged within you. You must acknowledge every broken part of you and you are tasked to love parts of yourself that you thought were unlovable.


When you experience the unconditional love for your Twin Flame, you are inspired to grow the inner strength to accept and acknowledge yourself. This is why your Twin Flame is your mirror because they love you unconditionally and you are inspired to do the same for yourself. Understanding Twin Flame Separation: A Guide For Healing

If you are not used to feeling unconditional love for yourself, you are challenged to submit to self-love.

Self-love is authentic and very difficult to embrace at first but the first step is the most difficult one and the journey gets easier as you accept the different parts of yourself that you thought were unlovable. Does the Twin Flame Runner miss you and love you as much as you love them?

You cannot love someone else if you do not know how to love yourself and you cannot appreciate the love from someone else if you do not know what it feels like to love from within you.

The Twin Flame separation phase is a blessing in disguise because it challenges you to face yourself by going through a Spiritual Awakening process.

Once you go through the Spiritual Awakening process, you become aware of yourself and you get to know every part of your soul. Enlightenment brings peace into your life and you wake up to your life situation; you realize your deepest needs and desires and what needs to be done to create meaningful change in your life. 20 Signs A Twin Flame Misses You

Remember that you are always craving to be with your Twin Flame physically and the compulsion to be in the vicinity of your Twin Flame is a natural desire. This is why you are constantly thinking of your Twin Flame every day after your first encounter. Twin Flame Union 11:11: A Preparation Guide For Beginners

During the physical separation phase, you are challenged to first embrace the unconditional love for yourself before you show it to your Twin Flame. You are challenged to feel love for yourself first before you try to express it to another. How do you move the obstacles on your Twin Flame journey to reunite?

This is a very emotionally challenging situation because you first experience the confusion and frustration that change brings to you and into your life.

You know deep down in your soul that for you to become the authentic version of yourself, you must first change the different aspects of yourself and your life.

There is no shortcut to the Twin Flame journey because your Soul is constantly calling you to change so that you can embrace the newfound Twin Flame energy.

If you resist the change that needs to be done in your life, you feel restless and helpless daily because you can not hide from how you feel within.

Even though you try to go into a new relationship with someone else so that you can distract yourself, you are constantly craving to check in on your Twin Flame because it is a natural compulsion.

Even though you distance yourself from your Twin Flame in the physical, you cannot switch off thoughts of them because your Soul keeps reminding you of the Oneness that you feel.

You will eventually submit to the Twin Flame connection no matter how long it takes to acknowledge and accept how you feel.

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