This is sweet and sad at the same time — finding each other while you are both committed to others in a relation or when either of you is married. I know the feeling — it was my situation four years ago.
We both agreed that it was best For everyone if we stopped talking to each other. I hated the idea of not talking to him and I chased him for over a year. He was more grounded within himself than I am in me that he managed to block me.
More often than not, he would feel compelled to check in on me — we have mutual friends. He would always call home for hours asking for updates about me. If I went too quiet, he would send a simple email or a direct message in some form. I believe that he worries that I would forget about our connection.
The goal is to find happiness and thrive in any life situation that you find yourself in because the Twin Flame process keeps going whether you both choose each other or not.
The best-case scenario is to finally be together if you eventually figure out to end your ties with your spouses — dissolving karmic ties must be done with respect and unconditional love with everyone involved.
Separation from a Karmic partner has to be amicable. Everyone you have a relationship with in this lifetime is there for a reason. Do not underestimate the value of any connection that you have with anyone.