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How can I stop chasing my twin flame and let him chase me?

Two things; Yes, you can Surrender and stop chasing your Twin Flame, and secondly, you can’t make them chase you or want you because you are already bound in unconditional love for eternity. They already love you.

How To Surrender To Self-Love 11:11: Healthy Energy & Self-care Habits
Most people will advise you to find self-love but how do you begin to love yourself if it is a new experience?
Why do you need self-love to let go of your Twin Flame?
The simplest explanation for why you need to love yourself is because you are a mirror to your Twin Flame. You are two parts of a soul — and if you love yourself, you are also loving your Twin Flame in essence.

Twin Flame Chaser Surrender: Learning to Let Go to Heal
Also, if you know how to love yourself unconditionally, you will be able to accept the love from your Twin Flame. You can’t appreciate love if don’t know it.
As you begin to embrace self-love, you will gradually re-discover your authentic self. This is the person that your Twin Flame feels connected to in the connection and you must live a life of authenticity to enjoy feeling the bliss of the connection.

Managing Separation Pain: How to recover and heal your pain and Soul Shock.

When you are in chaser mode, you are vibrating from low energy vibes because you feel negative and frustrated about your Twin Flame’s running behavior and this brings about the chaos in your connection. Your Twin Flame can feel the energetic imbalance.

If you need simple tips on how to manage the pain of separation from your Twin Flame, try this.
But, once you find the courage to accept things as they are, and you surrender — just letting go of the stress to control the connection brings harmony to the energetic connection.

The more you keep working on yourself and heal your energy, the more you will feel the energy of oneness with your Twin Flame. The shared energy becomes more blissful and you feel yourselves merging into each other.
This is the phase where you stop missing them intensely because you feel them within you: The telepathic communication improves, and you feel them in your dreams. You become more peaceful and faithful to the connection because you are satisfied with the 5D aspect of your experience.

Twin Flame Chaser Pain: Why do Twin Flames Run? It is very painful trying to keep up with a Twin Flame runner.
This change within the chaser brings about a change in the energetic dynamic because the Twin Flame who was running feels the growth and improvement.

This is when the runner tries to reconcile because they miss their divine partner.
Therefore, you cant make your Twin Flame want you if you are not ready yourself.
It takes two to tangle.
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I’ve been trying to move on from my “twin flame”, but when I had sex with someone else it felt so wrong and I wanted to cry. Why can’t I find happiness with another person?

It is because you have Soul INTIMACY with your Twin Flame. You have a sacred bond that goes beyond what the mind can comprehend.

Always Connected in Soul: You can’t escape your Twin Flame.

Because of Soul intimacy, you feel like you are cheating on your Twin Flame whenever you have sex with someone else.

I gave up on pursuing other relationships. I stopped deluding myself that I will feel happy with someone else. I am enjoying being single, as I prepare myself to reunite with my Twin Flame.

How To Surrender To Self-Love 11:11: Healthy Energy & Self-care Habits

Whether Twin Flames like to accept the truth or not, having sex with other people as you Awaken to your Twin Flame connection is a blockage of your shared energy with your partner.

When you are purging emotional pain or if you are dealing with healing your core wounds, you want to stay away from tainting your energy. You need space and solitude to heal first.

The infamous Twin Flame Separation Phase: A blessing in disguise.
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What do I do if I am feeling stuck again on my twin flame journey?

This is normal to feel this way. But, even if nothing seems to be working on the Twin Flame journey, there is always some progress going on. This is why it is very important to let yourself feel every emotion that you feel.

Separation from a Twin Flame brings all sorts of feelings to the surface. What simple tips are you using to manage your situation?

Here are some things that I did to move from feeling stuck:

Are you resisting a certain aspect of your journey? You could be resisting channeling certain feelings your Twin Flame sends your way. You could be resisting thinking of them. Free yourself from my acceptance to embrace your feelings.

How To Surrender To Self-Love 11:11: Healthy Energy & Self-care Habits

 • How is your quiet time like? It could be that you are spending your energy around those who are in low energetic vibes. Having quality time replenishes your energy — solitude is a blessing on the Twin Flame journey because it allows you to focus on yourself.

 • Do you meditate? — Meditation is as simple as taking time to quiet your thoughts. The more you quiet your thoughts, the more you will feel connected to your Twin Flame within. Having clear energetic contact with your Twin Flame improves your telepathic communication. Once you have clear, understandable telepathy with your Twin Flame, you stop feeling alone.

Awakening — The Twin Flame journey is an accelerated energy purging process. How do you keep in a Positive energetic vibration?

 • Surround yourself with positivity — since the Twin Flame journey is about rediscovering your authenticity, focus on accumulating positivity, and happiness in your life. You start with self-love, and then you will progress into living an authentic life.

 • SET GOALS — What would you desire to achieve after everything goes back to harmony? If you desire to have a healthy physical relationship, will it be temporary or forever? What do you picture your perfect life scenario as? Who would you love to be when you are together in a union? How do you picture your responsibilities as being in a union?

Karmic Partners: How do you focus on yourself when you know that your Twin Flame is married to someone else?

Setting goals will not only give you HOPE to keep going with your Twin Flame journey but you will work on yourself every day having the end in mind.

Having the end in mind will empower you to focus on the big picture. You will not feel doubtful of your connection, and you will occupy your daily routine with meaningful goals that work in alignment with your desires.
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Does the runner twin flame feel the chaser surrender?

What changes how the runner Twin Flame feels are the actions of the chaser because the chasing activities lessen, and the chaser sometimes gives up completely to obsess about the connection.

Twin Flame Chaser Surrender: Learning to Let Go to Heal — These are simple tips for a beginner.

If the Chaser Twin Flame was using social media to give messages to the runner — the runner is always checking the partner’s social media even if in hiding because this is how they keep track. Sometimes they create fake accounts to hide because they don’t want to miss out.

The simplest way the runner realizes that the chaser is moving on is that the times you post on social media decrease and when you do, it is about you i.e Self-love posts. This gets them panicking because they wonder if you are forgetting them.

Managing Separation Pain: How to recover and heal your pain and Soul Shock.

Twin Flame Chaser Pain: How to Recover from Separation. How do you focus on your life instead of trying to control the relationship?

In my case, I de-activated my social media altogether — I went quiet and he noticed. The first post I put up after reactivating my account, he was the first one to like it.

Apart from social media, once the actions of the chaser lessen, the runner starts to feel emptiness because they miss being chased. There is no runner without a chaser.

This pushes the runner into panic mode because they wonder if they are losing the game.

Does the Runner Twin Flame feel how you feel? Do they miss you as much as you miss them?

The runner enters the 3rd phase of grief called bargaining.

Because of the panic and fear of losing their Twin Flame, the runner starts to wonder what they could have done to make the situation better.

They start to think of “What ifs.”

If that is not enough, they can choose to mask their feelings behind a new relationship to deny feeling anything real for their chaser. They start to wonder if the connection was real or not.

This is also the “Awakening” phase of the Twin Flame runner because all the confusion and questions throw them into a phase of Soul searching to understand why they can’t move on from the chaser no matter how many other people they try to date.

A chaser’s surrender is a runner’s Awakening: TWIN FLAME REUNION: The Beginning Of Forever: These simple Tips helped me to initiate a reunion with my Twin Flame.

My runner experience was lonely – I missed him all the time. I was infuriated by the fact that I was still living in a space of fear. Eventually, I healed myself and reconnected with him after two years.
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How do you send love to your Twin Flame when in Separation?

When you think of your Twin Flame, you feel the bliss within yourself — the fear of not being good enough, the fear of abandonment, and personal insecurities are healed within yourself. Therefore, instead of having feelings of running away from your Twin Flame, you feel an attraction towards them instead. 

This trick worked for me but I had to first learn my soul lessons and my responsibilities as a divine partner in our connection for effectiveness.

The first thing you have to remember is that no matter what way your twin soul runner is separated from you, it is essential to stay grounded in yourself and your soul Truth because you can not influence them physically, they will only run further from you.

Staying in your Energy and sending them love will quicken their healing and love realization that you have been with them all along as they are with you.

Remember, sometimes your twin may know how special your love is them but still ignore your messages or ghost you completely.

You can not control how they respond to your love and the connection because personal healing works at its own pace and time.

What do you do to help with the situation?

Respect their Space

This is difficult to do. So challenging because you are connected heart to heart and no matter how much your Twin pushes you away, they love you unconditionally and you can feel it. 

It beats human thinking because what they physically do to run can not compare to how the Connection feels.

You can choose to limit how much time you stalk them on social media and invest it in something that helps you with accelerating your soul growth. You can dive into an art class or choose to study a new skill altogether.

Send them love

When you are thinking about them or feeling their emotions, send love back in your thoughts.
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Signs that your runner Twin Flame still loves you unconditionally?

I will draw examples from my own life experience of being ghosted by my divine partner. Different reasons lead to separation between twin Souls and when it happens, you need to focus on your healing which is quite challenging because of the shared energy and the unconditional love between you and your twin that keeps pulling at you towards them. You feel half of your soul missing.

For me, I was obsessed with Constantly checking his social media and texts just to feel that live connection. I could text him and just pour out my feelings which pushed him further away. I was naive about how it all works. I thought that I had done something wrong to push him away.

What is excruciating is the fact that sometimes your twin may ignore you by not responding to your calls, emails, and texts and can even block you on social media without you doing anything major. It is an emotional reaction to you and the Connection because they can not handle the intensity of their feelings for you.

I have also learned that if you embody negative feelings and thoughts of separation and abandonment, your Twin can also automatically repel you. Remember they feel your pain too.

How do you know that even if they don’t talk to you, your Twin still cares and loves you as they love themselves?

Energy Share:

When in moments of sorrow or sadness, your Twin is right there with you! Even in moments of joy and happiness too! Sometimes they can send you feelings of love through sexual feelings and intimacy. You can feel their energy embracing you and comforting you. Sometimes it feels like you are having mental conversations together.

They keep in touch through other means

My twin keeps updating my close mutual friends every time I write to him. He messages or calls with a full detailed update in response to my texts. He also knows that I will receive the information in a certain way so he says our code words that we use or gives me hints of what he means. Even if he does not respond directly, he cares to show that he reads my messages.

Once in a blue moon, he can text me a few brief words usually if he is in s very Thankful mood.

I know you must have your way of communication with your Twin but you know that they never leave you always.

They are always with you in energy and spirit. I learned this after I faced my past pain and dark emotions that were clogging our connection. After Surrender and healing, I always acknowledge my twin Soul with me. In my thoughts and feelings and he is always inspiring me for the best.

Separation is an illusion. Time and Space make us believe that we are alone but energy is always merging.

You will understand this after you focus on healing your energy. You will feel empowered and complete.

I wish you the best of Luck and Blessings on your Journey.

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Should I reach out to my Twin Flame when I miss them?

It is very challenging to stay grounded in the connection when your divine partner is ghosting you. To find peace, harmony, and balance one must be rooted and balanced in their energy.

The intensity of missing your twin soul can leave you feeling helpless and emotionally frustrated because you are linked together in love.

Just focus on you! What is the sign saying to you if you did not know about Twin Flames? Apart from feeling your Twin’s emotions, what do your own emotions say in that same instant?

There are so many numbers I have seen and I still see on this journey. And many other odd circumstances happen but I have learned one thing, don’t focus on the outside happenings and circumstances. our “Power” is limited in the Physical. Energy on the other hand is a much more helpful Resource when it comes to this journey.

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Your Twin will miss you all the time and sometimes much more intensely that you will not think about it but get in touch right away! Sometimes you will see signs and feel them strongly at the same time and maybe even text each other at the same time.

But all this Physical work does not help. It is draining and exhausting like crazy! More so, It will not give you the answers and satisfaction that you are looking for! To connect with your Twin, only energy works.

For me, sometimes I make some personal growth and focus on myself but then I am compelled to check in on them but this usually delays my Inner work and my progress. My emotions become chaotic in case they don’t respond or fulfill my expectations at the moment I text them.

All the time when I do this, I feel like I just made 3 steps backward with my inner Work. Then I get anxious and it drives me more confused and more pain. Still, I feel them continuously.

If you focus on working on your inner self, no matter how slow or fast you go backward, your healing even quickens Faster once you catch up with your growth again. Once a Pain is healed, it does not come back but you have to stop focusing on your Twin. 

You need that Energy for yourself! It is one or the other.

Clean your energy up and you will not need numbers and signs to communicate with your Twin! You won’t even need a phone!
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What are the signs that your Twin Flame is thinking of you?

Being a Twin Flame feels like you live inside each other because you feel your Twin Flame in energy. You are both one energy operating system, and it affects the aspects of your physical life and the embodiment of your emotions.

Now, I wake up to the feelings in my heart everyday Single day since I met him. There are times when I go to sleep thinking of him, feel him when I’m dreaming, wake up wanting him, and then back to thinking of him throughout the day. Constantly.

I’m trying my best. At some point, I thought that it’s best to think that they “Hate” Me and everything we experienced was a lie so that I can go back to Living my previous old normal Life before meeting him.

My old life was “boring” but I felt like I had control to some degree. Life was more manageable but now I am constantly thinking of him and feeling chaotic emotions that I can not fully control.

Sometimes it’s pure Bliss and Joy especially after having good dreams about him. I can feel like my heart is expanding infinitely with love and joy. And then sometimes it’s just sadness, longing, and helplessness. Sometimes it’s a mix of my Feelings and his going through me at the same time as a hurricane.

I guess there is nothing normal out of all of this Twin Flame experience. Every day has its kind of process.

No matter how challenging this gets, this is the happiest that I have ever been! I feel right at home in myself and I am authentically Me right from the core of my soul. So much change has happened in my life and I am so grateful for who I am.

Now that I’m headed to the physical Union after working on myself through constant surrender, my healing has brought me to a place of harmony and balance within myself. I feel complete and at peace with my beloved.

I surrendered to unconditional love. I gave up feeling needy and attached to the connection with my Twin. I stopped being obsessed with our relationship and focused all that energy on recreating the Authentic life that I deserve.

I no longer wait for my beloved to save me, I am my warrior. I am so happy to say that I am right now living my life in line with my life mission and goals.
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What makes the Twin Flame love so Unique?

From my experience, two things Twin Flame loves are very Unique and Special.

  • It inspires you to embrace and hug your inner child:

You know that deep down in your Soul if you have a hurting inner child, you feel no peace. You know that something within you is broken or needs to be fixed. You know that all the emotional frustration that you feel is because you are ignoring yourself and your core wounding. 

It is until you face the pain and find ways to heal, that the core wounding that you face sometimes manifests in your physical life situations through anger outbursts, feelings of neglect and abandonment, fear of being alone, unexplainable insecurities, and also feelings of not being good enough.

It is a ripple effect when it comes to how emotional pain manifests in our lives and sometimes the effect of feeling the negative feelings can affect your life in negative various ways.


For example; You could have intense mood swings and you have no idea why. Sometimes you can get angry without a serious reason and you can also channel your anger into inflicting pain and misery on others through domestic violence, and emotional and psychological abuse. It can be as extreme as emotional manipulation.

If your Inner Child feels abandoned, it means that you never had the opportunity as a child to experience real love the way you deserved which affects how you relate with other people and how you appreciate the love in your life.

For me, my inner child was suffering before I met my Twin Flame. I did not know that I had an inner child but as I was getting older, I missed the child in me. I missed the fearlessness, the innocence, the child-like spirit, and passion. Life felt empty and meaningless because I did not feel like I had a center. I felt like I needed to find myself but I did not know where to begin. 

I also had an unexplainable fear and I did not know the root cause. I also felt insecure and fearful of the future. I felt like I was walking on eggshells when I was around others and I was exhausted from doing everything for them so that I could feel appreciated or accepted. I was exhausted from feeling not good enough when I was around other people. I felt lost and life was meaningless to me because I did not feel like I had a purpose.
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What side of your body do you feel your Twin Flame energetically?

I thought that I was going crazy when I experienced the energetic merge with my Twin Flame. Every emotion felt very strong, intense, and confusing. 

The emotional chaos happened because I was confused as to why I was feeling my Twin Flame’s energy merging with mine all the time.

When I was new to understanding the dynamics of the Twin Flame energetic merge, I could feel my Twin Flame’s energy taking over the left side of my body.

I thought that it was very strange that I felt that way.

The energetic merging did not stop and it changed my feelings, thoughts, and emotions. I felt like my essence was merging with my Twin Flame’s essence continuously.

And, I now know that my Twin Flame’s energy did not only take over the right side of my body but as we kept merging energetically, the shared energy took over.

When the shared energy of Oneness took me over, I stopped feeling as if I am a singular person and I started to feel as if we are two people living in one body.

I always feel my Twin Flame’s energy but now I do not feel any distinction between his energy and mine. 

I always feel like I am him. 

Twin Flames are One in the Soul and Essence.