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How do you know if it’s not your twin flame but just a soulmate?

11:11: The Ultimate Twin Flame Guide For Newbies

You cannot escape Twin Flame Soul intimacy: You feel oneness. You feel like you are disappearing into each other when you are together. To love a Twin Flame unconditionally, you have to share the love with him or her without losing yourself in the process. (Simple Self-love Tips)

This is quite challenging because you keep melting into each other in every aspect. Psychologically, Physically, Psychologically, and Spiritually. We all Twin Flames suffer and struggle with the pain of physical separation when it happens. The feelings of abandonment and isolation keep you in limbo.

You have no idea how to reconcile the chaotic emotions that take over you. You feel lost, helpless, and hopeless. A Twin Flame encounter indeed changes your life forever. It destabilizes what you thought was the norm. It gives you a paradigm shift about yourself and the world around you.

Meeting a Twin Flame brings alchemical transformations into your life. When you are with a Twin Flame you both feel each other. You believe in your connection. You are in harmonious energetic vibration. You both see into each other’s Souls. Meanwhile, when the separation occurs, you have endless creeping doubts. You wonder if your partner misses you as much as you miss him or her. If you have not yet dealt with your inner issues, then the running and chasing phase is prolonged. (Managing Separation Pain: How to recover and heal your pain and Soul Shock.)

During the phase of running and chasing, all your abandonment issues come to the surface to be dealt with.

Stay Blessed!

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What do you do if you meet your Twin Flame when they are single but he or she chooses to marry someone else?

Karmic Partners: How do you focus on yourself when you know that your Twin Flame is married to someone else?

You can never choose to meet a Twin Flame and the events that unfold after your initial encounter are all beyond your control. You can meet a Twin Flame when you are both single but not ready to confront your feelings for each other which can cause a temporary separation. One of the reasons why a Twin Flame would choose to marry someone else over you is because they could be afraid of feeling vulnerable when they are around you. It is not your fault.

A Twin Flame would deny themselves the blessings of a union with you because he or she does not feel worthy of pure love. It could be that the overwhelming feelings they have for you trigger so much pain within themselves that they had buried within themselves. Not every Twin Flame is ready to confront the chaotic Twin Flame emotions.

Not everyone that has met a Twin Flame is willing to change their life situation to pursue a union. The changes that we Twin Flames go through are accelerated, unexpected, and not in our power to control the nature of the process of change. A Twin Flame would therefore choose to run into marriage with someone else because it feels easier and safe.

Fearing the changes & uncertainty when you meet a Twin Flame, it is not always roses and peaches. You go through excruciating chaotic emotions. Your dreams change. Your emotional well-being is destabilized. You go through a series of energetic cleansing. You are forced to make a change to align yourself with the new Twin Flame shared energy.

When I was new to the Twin Flame experiences, I did not admit that I was a Twin Flame. I did not want to go through scary experiences. Societal pressure some Twin Flames are forced to marry someone else because of the pressure from family and friends. In cases of arranged marriages, you cannot intervene if your Twin Flame family has the power to choose. The wrong match for relationships even though you share a bond with your Twin Flame, it is not a guarantee that you are a perfect match for a relationship.

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How do you let your Twin Flame go if they are in a relationship?

Karmic Partners: How do you focus on yourself when you know that your Twin Flame is married to someone else?

This is the most difficult part of the Twin Flame journey; finding the inner strength to give your Twin Flame the space they need if they are still committed in a relationship. Since the Twin Flame encounter is unplanned, you have no expectations when you meet your Twin Flame and you never know that after you separate, they will be the most important person in your life forever.

The most difficult part of letting go is the first step of separation; you can physically distance yourself from your Twin Flame and stop communicating with them. If you block your Twin Flame out of your life completely, you will always miss them terribly but if you dearly love the, you know that you both deserve some time apart to confront the nature of your Twin Flame relationship. The physical separation is healthy especially if your Twin Flame is married because for the following reasons: (Surrender Tips for beginners)

You do not want to get involved in your Twin Flame’s karmic issues because they have to learn their Soul lessons so that they can transform and grow.

Also, if you are constantly in your Twin Flame’s life, you become a distraction which delays the process of dissolving their karmic ties to have a chance to be with you.

You also do not want to make your Twin Flame cheat on their karmic partner with you – if they have marital obligations to fulfill, you need to give them the space that they need.

All in all, trust that if your Twin Flame loves you, they will do anything in their power to free themselves so that they can be with you. Nothing can ever sever the Twin Flame bond.

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How long does it take to reunite with a Twin Flame after Surrender?

If you desire a harmonious physical reunion with your Twin Flame, you must make it your daily goal to pursue it. Work hard to fix your life so that you feel ready to be together with your Twin Flame.

Every Twin Flame whether you are a chaser or runner, you have a dream to finally reunite with your Twin Flame eventually after the physical separation phase. It is very antagonizing and heart-wrenching when the communication between you and your Twin Flame becomes estranged and this happens for various reasons.

Also when the physical separation phase prolongs, you begin to worry that your Twin Flame would never return which increases your doubts about your Twin Flame experiences because sometimes you wonder if you are being delusional having faith in the connection that you feel within. Here are some facts that you have to face at any stage of your Twin Flame journey:

You do not know when the separation will end. When you initially separate from a Twin Flame, you believe that you would see your Twin Flame soon but it never turns out to be that way because you realize that the changes happening in your life are divinely guided and for your good. You also realize that your connection to your Twin Flame is sacred because you feel connected to them nonetheless and the Spiritual awakening that you go through brings enlightenment into your life.

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What are the Twin Flame’s physical obstacles?

When you are clearing the physical obstacles, you are making space for something new. Do you feel cluttered emotionally, psychologically, or energetically? You must maintain feeling unblocked in everything that you do. How is your living situation? Is your household groaning under the weight of too much clutter? — unwanted papers, worn-out clothes, unused toys, forgotten personal effects, and broken items. Free your living space from the burden of clutter. When you clear out the old, you make room for something new.

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If there is something new that you want in your life, you have to make room for it both psychologically and physically. When you do not purge your life, your house, your friends, and your relationships, it seems as if you do not trust the ability to manifest the necessary abundance to achieve your blessings. Karmic relationships and blockages: It is normal to meet a Twin Flame while you are both in relationships and or married to their partners.

The situation becomes very complicated if you have a family or a joint business with your karmic partner because it takes a longer time to dissolve all the karmic ties so that you can free yourself to be with a Twin Flame. If your Twin Flame is single and you are married, nothing is stopping them from dating if the physical separation phase takes longer than expected. A Twin Flame can also run into another relationship during the separation phase for various reasons; it is because they have more soul lessons to learn.

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Do you ever feel your Twin Flame’s Pain?

You know what, let’s face it and acknowledge how emotionally chaotic being a Twin Flame is. Sometimes I feel lovesick all day because the intensity of the connection gets so strong and I feel helpless without focus on anything important. Apart from channeling their bliss, you also channel their longing for you. It is a weird feeling to know when someone is missing you because you feel unexplainable sexual and love pull towards them. Love is true and real when you don’t force it —- you open your heart completely to experience the intense chaotic euphoric feelings. Lately, I feel healed and ready to move on and live my life I hope that I find happiness as I journey on through life. I am focusing on creating meaning and joy in everything I do. I Surrender to the Universe.

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Stay Blessed!

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Why does the runner Twin Flame run?

The infamous Twin Flame Separation Phase: A blessing in disguise.

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The truth is that we are all going to die. Life is fragile and unpredictable. Your chaser can get exhausted from waiting. Put your fears and insecurities aside and follow your heart. Authentic Signs of Encountering a Twin Flame The runner tries to keep their cool but they burst out in phases of anger and frustration. He or she can make random contact with their Twin Flame chaser partner because it becomes too much to bear to conceal their love. 11:11: The Ultimate Twin Flame Guide For NewbiesRunners are so afraid of absorbing unconditional love that it drives them to do extreme things to conceal how they feel. Some runners end up in meaningless relationships. Sometimes they get into quick marriages to escape confronting the intense feelings. Are you asking any of these questions about the Twin Flame Chaser?

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No matter how far and fast the runner goes, the leash to the source of the Twin Flame love pulls you back to the convergence point with their Twin Flame partner. For me, I got to a point where I have been able to submit to this Twin Flame love. I had to accept my feelings and their intensity. I accept both the highs and lows of feeling this Twin Flame connection which eased my process. Karmic Partners: How do you focus on yourself when you know that your Twin Flame is married to someone else? Now that I went through healing, I have no fear or insecurities to hide behind. My soul feels open to my Twin Flame as it did at the beginning of our encounter without resistance.

I know that everything is pointing me towards my Twin Flame and can’t control it. I have happiness and excitement that my dreams are coming true.

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Is it bad to leave your wife or husband for a Twin Flame?

I believe that meeting a Twin Flame while you are in a relationship or marriage is the most complicated situation. Your heart and Soul desire to merge with your Twin Flame. You feel his or her energy growing within you without your control. You feel yourself changing because of your encounter. Life is never the same after you meet your Twin Flame.

I was also married when I met my Twin Flame. We lived together day and night for almost a month. We did not expect to be Twin Flames. We knew each other through mutual friends for five years before we met. We heard stories from each other. Two years before we saw each other, we were both invited for lunch but I skipped it. I was exhausted that day.

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When we met, I relaxed as if I arrived home. I felt free to be myself because he is my perfect reflection. I could see all my desires in him. I could also see my greatest fears. He challenged me to face parts of myself that I had hidden away from myself and the world. I felt free of fear. Suddenly meeting him washed away my pain and stress. I instantly felt inspired to be the best version of myself. For the first time, I felt happy all the time without any outside validation.

One day, I stood in the mirror. I looked at my reflection; I could see an uncanny familiarity that I share with my Twin Flame. I felt like I was him and he was me. My heartbeat changed. Every time he walked into a room, my heart would start racing faster. When I was away from him, I could not stop thinking of him. I also felt the energetic merging all the time. You feel magical when a Twin Flame looks in your eyes. You feel acknowledged, understood, and appreciated. Twin Flame love originates from the shared Soul.

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You understand each other completely by seeing each other. You have empathy for each other. You are always protective of a Twin Flame. You also quickly find forgiveness for each other. The physical separation phase is a blessing in disguise; You allow each other to have the space to understand your Twin Flame separation. If you are a married Twin Flame, you are challenged to embrace your situation. I learned the following lessons as a married Twin Flame: Change is not easy — Your inner strength will be tested.

Your faith in love will be disintegrated. Sometimes, You will wish that you never met a Twin Flame. You will be judged by relatives, friends, and family members for leaving your marriage. Leaving your husband or wife for a Twin Flame seems impulsive and obsessive. You seem to have lost your mind if you choose a Twin Flame over stability and convenience. If your finances are intertwined with your Twin Flame, you fear that your life situation will change for the worst. Sometimes you wonder if it is worth it embracing the changes that a Twin Flame triggers in your life. When you are separated from a Twin Flame: If you live on separate continents or in different cities — Communication is a challenge.

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Finding the right time to spend time together on the phone becomes complicated if you have different timezones. More so, if your Twin Flame is running from you; If he or she is overwhelmed by the connection. You feel discouraged to embrace the changes happening in your life. You doubt if the stress of chasing a Twin Flame is worth it. When I initially separated from my Twin Flame three years ago, I was tempted to stay with my husband temporarily. I did not know then that I was going through the Twin Flame experience.

I felt overwhelmed by my feelings. I was scared of separating from the mutual friends that I share with my husband. I also had no guarantee that my Twin Flame would wait for me to dissolve the obstacles between us. As you progress further along your journey, you learn that the Twin Flame process happens for you, and within you. It is a battle that you have to win within yourself without the physical interference of your divine partner. 

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What are the signs that a twin flame connection is real?

When you meet a Twin Flame for the first time, you experience an energetic merging. You feel the energetic download — You feel a transfer of conscience. When you energetically merge with your Twin Flame, you feel his or her essence with you all the time. The energetic merging also boosts your energetic vibration. You feel the rise in the energetic frequency.

When you finally find energetic harmony with a Twin Flame, you learn how your Twin Flame dynamic works. You feel energetic oneness with each other. You easily send love to each other using your heart space. You feel an energetic singularity with him or her. Twin Flames operate as a Single Energetic Unit. You are your Twin Flame — You are two sides of a coin. You are one in the Soul.

Since you operate as a Single Energetic Unit with your Twin Flame, you have a unique means of communication called; Telepathic communication. You can feel what your Twin Flame is feeling. You can also guess what he or she is thinking. You feel as if you live inside each other.

It is almost impossible to match up to the Twin Flame connection. You cannot forge a bond with anyone else even though you try. You feel the connection growing within you. You feel an inner transformation. Your Twin Flame is in your blood. You cannot get rid of the connection. Your Souls are bound to each other eternally.

When a Twin Flame is thinking of you, you feel your heart space beaming up with intense love emotions. You feel your heart area warming up with euphoric feelings of love.

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You feel consumed with blissful love feelings. You choke on the joy that you feel. Every time I feel my heart area warming up with euphoric feelings of love, I smile. It is an affirmation that we are connected. I feel the authenticity of our connection. Sometimes when I have one of those days when I feel energetically low, I automatically boost my energetic vibration when I feel my Twin Flame’s energy.

When your Twin Flame is missing you, you feel the energy pulling at your heart. You feel a heavy cloud of emotional pain coiling around your heart. You know for sure that he or she is longing for you. Your Twin Flame’s energetic vibration affects you. It affects your emotional status. You also oscillate between feelings of joy and sadness. It is a process to learn to balance the shared energy within yourself. You learn to embrace your Twin Flame shared energy as part of your new life situation. When my Twin Flame is experiencing emotional pain, I instantly feel a change in my energetic vibration. I feel lovesick. I get restless. I start missing him right away.


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How are twin flames able to recognize each other?

When you meet a Twin Flame, it is at a point in your life when you need a fresh perspective on your life situation. You feel exhausted from your daily routines. You crave changes in your life. You feel lost and alone even though you are surrounded by many people. The time a Twin Flame finds you, it is a moment in your life when you feel disconnected from everyone around you. You feel weary and exhausted from chasing meaningless relationships.

You get to a place within yourself where you crave a deeper connection. You realised that even though you date many people, there is someone special made for you. When you meet your Twin Flame, you do not realize that your search is over until you look into his or her eyes. You feel drawn to your Twin Flame. You wonder how you know them in a past life.

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You relax when you acknowledge each other. You feel blessed to finally find what your soul was searching for. You know that you would do anything to be with your Twin Flame. You want to take care of him or her. You want to protect them. You feel happy when you see a Twin Flame smile.

Feeling connected to a Twin Flame feels like you are connected to the source of happiness. You feel peaceful. You feel energized and empowered to explore yourself. When you find each other, you realize why previous relationships that you have had before did not work out. You understand why you never felt content with your previous relationships.

Stay Blessed!