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Do you leave your unhappy marriage for your twin flame? I was struggling to keep the marriage, but finding out my twin flame turned my world upside down.

There is no guarantee that once you leave your marriage, you will end up with your Twin Flame. Everything is a process, and it takes time for the results to happen.

When I left my marriage, some people who don’t understand what Twin Flames are assumed that I was just obsessed with a love spark outside my marriage yet it was always an intense spiritual connection with my Twin Flame.

I am now single and I am realizing the meaning of happiness without needing to feel connected to my Twin Flame.

If you are leaving your marriage, don’t do it for your Twin Flame because if any of your expectations don’t go as planned, you will blame it on your Twin Flame.

I understand how complicated the situation gets when you are married by the time you meet your Twin Flame. Sometimes you doubt how you feel wondering if you are using your Twin Flame experiences to justify your actions.

Use your integrity and let your intuition guide you through make making your choices. Do everything for yourself!

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Is it wise to tell your spouse that you met a Twin Flame?

I do not advise you to discuss the topic of being a Twin Flame with anybody else before you go through the experiences. You will never affirm that you are a Twin Flame except if you have undergone some changes.

It is also very challenging to make another person understand the Twin Flame experience if he or she has never met a Twin Flame. You sound delusional if you try to explain the phenomenon.

When it comes to telling your spouse or karmic partner, you will sound like you are emotionally cheating on your husband or wife. Also, you will make your spouse jealous; he or she will not trust you. They will assume that at some point, you will choose your Twin Flame.

Your husband or wife will start analyzing your behaviors and actions. You will regret telling him or her about your Twin Flame experiences.

Also, while we are still on this topic, do not discuss the Twin Flame experiences with your Twin Flame either. You will scare them off. You will sound crazy. You will make him or her uncomfortable.

When it comes to communicating with a Twin Flame, it is best to describe your experiences other than explain what the Twin Flame experience is. Your Twin Flame will have to go through specific experiences to awaken.

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Can being ignored by a Twin Flame cause depression?

When your Twin Flame blocks you, you become manic. You feel helpless. You go through a deep blue funk phase. You feel the grief of losing a Twin Flame. You feel like you are missing a limb. 

When a Twin Flame ignores you, you feel like you are stuck in a dark tunnel. You have no idea how to get yourself out of the depression. You feel emotional pain. You feel physical pains. You are psychologically challenged. Every step of the depression phase is unbearable and traumatizing.

The depression phase is the most dreaded because you miss your Twin Flame all the time. You feel energetically tethered to each other. You feel the energetic merging whether you are awake or asleep.

While going through the depression phase, I was also experiencing the night of the soul. I lost the taste for food. This was the loneliest time for me as a Twin Flame. I was very confused about why his silence triggered me into a Spiritual Awakening. Every time I reached out to him and he ignored me, I was quickly thrown into another phase of Soul-searching. 

His silence triggered unexplainable fears; I was afraid of losing him. I was desperate for his affirmation that he felt the same way. I learned that I had to face my fears. I had to find the root cause of the pain that I felt. 

The first time I attempted Surrender, I wrote a six-page letter to him. I explained to him all the stress I went through every time he ignored my messages or calls. I told him how grateful I am for meeting him. 

When I told him the details of my experiences, I was hoping that at some point in the Twin Flame journey, he would understand that our encounter was not coincidental. I also knew that whether my Twin Flame acknowledged our connection or not, he would resonate with some of my experiences.

At the beginning of the depression phase, I was pretty hostile toward him. Some of my chasing behaviors seemed obsessive. There are days when I felt anger and frustration — I became mean towards him. Those are the moments when I regretted meeting him. I felt cursed with love.

When I learned to embrace my experiences with an open heart, I realized that all the pain that I was feeling was buried within me. It had nothing to do with my Twin Flame. I repressed parts of myself that I did not want to face.

I grew the inner strength to face my pain. I went through a series of energetic cleanses; I was also healing my core wounding. 

Halfway through my healing phase, I wrote another letter to my Twin Flame asking for forgiveness for my hostility towards him when I was depressed. I also told him that I always appreciate him. Every time he ignored me, I grew the inner strength to face my pain. 

I also told him how I rediscovered the authentic version of myself by learning to embrace self-love. I also thanked him for inspiring me to get to know myself.

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Can a Twin Flame Runner move on from the connection and marry someone else?

Your Twin Flame runner can find someone else, marry them, and even make a family with them after you are physically separated. 

You have no control over your Twin Flame’s behavior. More so, you have no control over the process of your Twin Flame journey.

It is very sad when some Twin Flames meet in this life. They are not meant to have a physical relationship because not every Twin Flame couple is meant to have a physical relationship. 

In this instance when Twin Flames are not destined to end up together in a relationship as romantic partners, your Twin Flame triggers you to awaken to yourself. You go through the invigorating Spiritual transformation process.

For some Twin Flames who are meant to be romantic partners in this lifetime, no matter how much difficulty they face during their physical separation phase, they always find a way back to each other.

Other Twin Flames who are afraid of embracing the change that Twin Flame encounter brings to grow and transform into their authentic selves, always end up going through endless cycles of running and chasing. You go through prolonged phases of physical separation until both partners embrace every aspect of their journey.

Your Twin Flame runner can choose to ignore you, resist the connection, and move on with their life in a new relationship with someone else. Nothing can change the unconditional love they feel for you. 

Resisting the Twin Flame love is the most excruciating moment of your life because no matter what you both do, nothing changes the intensity of the love connection that you feel for each other in your hearts.

 As a Twin Flame chaser, you always assume that your Twin Flame runner is happy with someone else because they seem to have found happiness in a new relationship. That is not the case.

Your Twin Flame is also haunted by thoughts of you daily and they have a deep desire to be close to you.

From my experience of being temporarily a runner in Twin Flame, you never stop thinking of your Twin Flame every second of the day, if you block out thoughts of them, you feel the connection eating at you because of the Soul intimacy that you share.

You always feel your Twin Flame sending you feelings of love when they are thinking of you and when they miss you, you feel your Twin Flame’s longing for you in form of heartache or emotional pain. 

The Twin Flame runner always feels the connection as much as the Twin Flame chaser does.

Sometimes you get physical heartaches because of the intense shared energy of Oneness and if you try to ignore the connection within, the process of the energetic share with your Twin Flame interferes with your emotional state which affects your mood swings and emotional well-being. 

Your emotional state affects how you relate with the people around you and it also affects those who rely on you for emotional support like your new karmic relationship and family members if you have children.

The Twin Flame runner suffers the most during the physical separation phase because of the tendency to deny unconditional love and the Twin Flame connection altogether. 

The inner resistance that you feel like a runner in Twin Flame is very challenging to deal with because you are constantly thinking of how to block the connection and ignore your Twin Flame instead of focusing on how to move on with your life.

If your Twin Flame partner is chasing you, you are constantly finding clever ways to avoid them. This means that you are constantly thinking of them because the Twin Flame experience takes over your life once you acknowledge each other.

Sometimes memories of the initial encounter catch you by surprise and you start reminiscing about the fun time that you had while you were together during the bubble love phase.

You also keep comparing your new karmic partner’s behavior to how your Twin Flame treated you during your initial encounter. This is because no love is as authentic as Twin Flame love, and it is only your Twin Flame who can reciprocate it and fill the void that you feel.

Your dreams are filled with your Twin Flame because the souls do not understand the physical separation. You dream of your Twin Flame whether you like it or not and the energetic share is always intensely felt.

When you encounter your Twin Flame, you are triggered into a Soul Awakening phase where you feel the energetic merge with them. You continuously feel the energy of Oneness with your Twin Flame until you learn to balance yourself from within to feel and act as one single energetic unit.

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Why does my twin flame avoid meeting me in person? We have constant chat, telephone, and video contact.

My dear, be thankful that at least you communicate with each other. It is indeed a blessing to have some sort of contact with him or her.
Here are some of the reasons why a Twin Flame is afraid to meet you in person:
Insecurities —
A Twin Flame will avoid you at all costs because you are the trigger of all his or her frustration. Do not take this personally though. He or she has issues to deal with. You are not the source of their pain.

I advise you to be open and honest with your Twin Flame; call him or her out if they are hiding from their pain. It is best for both of you to be grounded in your authentic selves — it will save you so much frustration.

Your separation cycles will continue if you are unwilling to confront the nature of your Twin Flame dynamic.

Self-rediscovery is a process

When a Twin Flame is dealing with his or her issues, they need that space to find themselves at his or her pace.

A Twin Flame does not want to inflict his pain on you. It is best to deal with his or he issues in private.

You are also another excuse for them to delay the progress of their healing journey. A Twin Flame can hide behind you or blame you for their issues.
Respect their need for space.

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What happens when the Twin Flame runner becomes the chaser instead?

As a former chaser, you completely surrender and trust divine timing that everything will be all right. You also grow more empathy for your Twin Flame because you know how it feels to chase your Twin Flame and the stress associated with it. You also understand how it feels to be a runner or chaser — this makes you understand the meaning of Twin Flame Oneness. There is no distinction between a chaser and a runner. You are one in essence.

If it is a harmonious relationship that you desire with your Twin Flame, you can choose to not run from them once the energetic roles switch. If they start chasing you, you can choose to confront your situation to have closure so that you can stay in a harmonious Union. You can choose to move forward on your journey instead of being triggered into another cycle of running and chasing.

Sometimes when the runner becomes the chaser, it could trigger more healing between the Twin Flames because of the shared energy of Oneness. Twin Flames are a Single Energetic Unit; therefore you feel each other’s energetic vibration. If one Twin Flame needs more healing, they tend to bounce back into each other’s lives to be triggered into another phase of energetic cleansing.

The worst situation is when the runner returns but when their Twin Flame partner had already moved on with their lives because you eventually get exhausted from chasing your Twin Flame. You get tired of unrequited love and you choose to move on. It is frustrating to the runner Twin Flame if they return but when their partner has a new karmic partner who cares for them and makes them happy. Sometimes the runner Twin Flame loses their true love if they run for too long.

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What does the twin flame runner think when the chaser finally gives up? Does it occur to the runner that the chase may be over for good?

The first thing that comes to your mind is fear that the chaser found someone new who makes them feel the way you feel. Then you panic wondering if the behaviors of running were necessary or not. If you had blocked your Twin Flame, you immediately unblock them so that you can talk.

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If the Twin Flame chaser chooses to block you back, you get angry, guilty, anxious, and overwhelmed that you messed up a good thing.

I went into a phase of depression when I realized that running from my Twin Flame was a bad idea. I wondered if I had pushed him into the arms of other lovers and I kept thinking of the worst-case scenarios of every situation possible if my Twin Flame was dating other people.

I wrote to him, texted, and called but it had started seeming as if it was an obsessive behavior.

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How does a reunion with a twin flame feel? Does anyone have that bliss?

I am going to use the simplest examples to explain this feeling of healing, inner harmony, balance, and bliss. It is a euphoric and heavenly feeling when you get to this phase of your Twin Flame journey.

Awakening guide for newbies: Once you find healing within, it manifests in everything that you do.

Sometimes I feel like I am having a “Spiritual Orgasm” with my own life. (I know this doesn’t make sense but I feel it).

Once you find healing, the bliss feels constant and continuous. The fear that you felt before and the emotional pain is replaced with feelings of harmony. It feels heavenly when you are in energetic harmony with a Twin Flame.

It feels heavenly once you find healing. You are initiated into another phase of learning to embrace bliss and unconditional love.

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Once I healed myself, I went into a phase of asking myself the important questions:

“I have healed and I feel happy but now what is next?”

“Why isn’t my Twin Flame attempting to reconcile yet I feel the energetic harmony?”

“How do I initiate a reunion with my Twin Flame?”

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I was stuck in this phase for a while because I did not know what to do next.

Therefore, I realized that I had to tell him how I feel — that I am ready for the next phase of the reunion.

I wrote him a letter, and he responded positively.

What would you do if you meet your Twin Flame when you are already in a relationship?

Now I am only waiting to see him again because I feel that our energetic vibration is at the same frequency as the initial encounter.

You must tell your Twin Flame how you feel because they do not read minds no matter how efficient your 5D communication is.

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Does having sex with others slow down twin flame reunions?

Yes of course! Look, you either choose your Twin Flame or you don’t but you can’t have it both ways.

Karmic Partners: When I met m Twin Flame, I lost interest in dating others. I have been celibate for over two years since I met him.

The same applies to normal relationships; You either commit or not and there is a difference in whatever choice that you make.

Imagine if you are a Twin Flame and your partner is sleeping with others, would you rush to be with them? — No! — You would assume that they moved on.

Physical separation is the test of Twin Flame’s unconditional love. Here is why?

You will have doubts as to whether they are your divine partner or not. You will also trust them less if they don’t have the patience to wait for you.

Secondly, I believe that sleeping with others while you are going through a Twin Flame connection bogs down your energy in the connection.

Imagine waking up in someone else’s bed when you are tormented by your Twin Flame’s energy? It will complicate the situation for you.

Twin Flame Awakening is a SACRED experience — you are transformed for the best.

From my past experiences, having sex with others entangles your auras with others. Every time you have sex with someone, you take some kind of energy from them.

The Twin Flame connection is about clearing energy and karma — I believe that sleeping with others only taints your energy which slows down your healing.

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