From my experiences, it is not a choice to ignore a Twin Flame but usually, it is because the situation is not right or because there is an obstacle in the way of the relationship so the Twin Flame Runner decides to back off.
It is also out of fear and insecurity that the runner keeps running from their partner until they heal the core wounding within.
The runner Twin Flame is always haunted by the unconditional love connection and they experience the agony of being physically separated from their fellow Twin Flame partner.
The runner Twin Flame also goes through an intense spiritual awakening and they experience the energetic cleansing phases of the night of the soul.
The runner Twin Flame learns all the complicated love lessons; they are challenged to grow and evolve into their authentic selves as time progresses.
In essence, the runner feels the same way as the Chaser and you always feel the oneness within no matter how far you drift from each other.
Surrender is all about finding peace and inner healing.
You enjoy the Twin Flame journey once you find peace and inner healing. Surrender is the process of finding inner harmony to allow yourself the freedom to enjoy your Twin Flame experience without stressing about your Twin Flame’s behavior.
The Twin Flame journey is a personal process of rediscovering the authentic version of yourself.
Once you find inner balance, you realize that your journey is not as difficult as you thought. You realize that happiness sprouts from within and your Twin Flame cannot give it to you.
If a relationship with your Twin Flame is meant to be it will be: when I found my Twin Flame, I realized that I did not know that I was looking for true love until he found me.
You must believe that you met your Twin Flame for a reason and if you desire to have a harmonious relationship with them, you must openly show it and work towards achieving your heart’s desires.
Prepare yourself for a union and always send love to your Twin Flame all the time in your heart.
The chaser Twin Flame struggles with surrendering while the runner Twin Flame struggles with accepting love.
The runner Twin Flame has barriers within themselves that build again love. They feel an inner resistance to receiving unconditional love.
Due to previous heartbreaks, and disappointments from previous relationships, the runner is always scared to risk having heartbroken. He or she knows that a Twin Flame disarms you. It is best to stay away from feeling vulnerable.
It takes physical separation from a Twin for the runner to understand that the love connection is authentic and genuine.
Before the runner returns, he or she goes through different lessons about love. You have to learn to love yourself. Accept every part of you.
The runner has to first feel love within themselves. If he or she has abandonment issues, they have to confront their pain.
When a Twin Flame is running, they are running towards themselves.
No matter how far you travel and leave your Twin Flame, you feel like half of yourself is occupied by your Twin Flame’s energy. The physical aspect of the Twin Flame relationship does not define the essence of the Twin Flame Connection but rather, it is how you feel within that dictates the progression of your experiences.
As a Twin Flame, feeling inner peace and happiness is vital to your well-being because the Twin Flame Experience gets stressful sometimes because of the complicated nature of the spiritual experiences.
But that being said, there comes a time when you start to ease into your experiences by surrendering to the divine; you choose to let go of stressing about your experiences, and instead, you accept to embrace your journey.
You find happiness along the Twin Flame journey by opening your heart to embrace unconditional love and you choose to give unconditional love to yourself through the actions of self-love. When you embrace unconditional love in your heart, it not only heals you but also changes your perspective of the experience.
You realize that you will always feel connected to your Twin Flame and focusing on healing yourself brings you inner harmony and balance.
You also accept that soon or later, the universe will bring your Twin Flame back. Trusting the unconditional love that you feel for your Twin Flame brings you more joy than stress.
If you choose to go through the Twin Flame experiences with an open heart full of love and faith, every phase becomes easier.
If you feel an inner resistance to the connection and the love emotions, you feel like the obstacles that you encounter during the separation phase are insurmountable.
Feeling an inner resistance to love makes every situation dire and miserable. You have no sense of direction or purpose. You feel isolated from everyone around you. You generally are unhappy.
Finding happiness as a Twin Flame is the epitome of inner freedom. To feel happy, you must find balance within. You have to accept who you are. You must embrace your Twin Flame connection and your experiences.
You must accept the changes that you go through. Your life will never be the same again after you meet a Twin Flame.
Sometimes I wonder if I was living life before I met him. After three years of our initial encounter, I feel different from who I used to be. I feel grounded within myself. I accept who I am. I am happy to live my truth. I am happy in my little corner of the world.
I was woken up by intense energy pulling at my heart yesterday. I smiled when I opened my eyes because it feels good to feel the euphoric feelings that the connection brings to me. It was at 4 am.
Since we live on separate continents, the separation has been difficult for both of us. I feel him every second of the day. He lives inside me. It is not easy to explain to anyone who is not a Twin Flame. It is not easy to explain how Twin Flame love feels.
Ever since the connection was triggered by our initial encounter three years ago, life has not been the same for me. Most of the love lessons have been challenging because I initially denied my feelings. I ran from him.
I sabotaged our friendship by blocking him. I was naive about the Twin Flame experiences.
When you embrace your Twin Flame experiences with an open heart, your life will transform for the best. You will rediscover the authentic version of yourself. Your life will become purposeful. The Twin Flame energy inspires you to embrace the necessary changes that you need to make in your life.
The new changes in your life will cultivate more happiness. You will start to unlock your blessings. Your connection to your Twin Flame will feel real and magical. You will know bliss and happiness.
Today is progressing blissfully. I feel connected to my Twin Flame naturally. Sometimes I forget that he is not here; I whisper words to myself like I am chatting to him. The telepathic connection is effortless — I feel connected to his soul.
I always remember how I feel when I look into his eyes. I feel overwhelmed and overjoyed at the same time. The love feeling for a Twin Flame is bigger than me — I feel like the universe is exploding in my heart.
When I am with him, I do not say much. I never find the right words; I stammer. Mumble words incoherently. I feel inept. My emotions go through the roof.
During the separation phase, I miss the feeling of comfort when he is in the room. I feel safe when he talks to me. He sees me for who I am. I feel understood.
I used to feel weird and different from others before I met him. But now, I feel safe to be myself. He sees parts of myself that I had hidden from the world. He is my home.
I feel ready to see him again. I have no fears or insecurities. I broke down the walls within me that I had built against love. I feel free to be consumed by unconditional love. I feel ready to embrace the future with my Twin Flame.
When a reunion with a Twin Flame is near, you feel it. You know it. You believe it. It is an imminent feeling of truth. You have an inner knowing that you will see him or her again.
Twin Flame love is beautiful. When you are in the same room, you feel a magnetic attraction toward each other. It is not an issue if there are people around you or not. You share an energetic bubble. You have your way of communicating without saying words.
The Twin Flame eye contact says it all. When you look in your Twin Flame’s eyes, you know the truth. You see each other. You feel each other. And, you understand each other. Twin Flames have a unique way of understanding each other’s needs. When you are around a Twin Flame, you feel safe.
You feel accepted. A Twin Flame is a home to the soul.
Every aspect of the Twin Flame process is divinely guided. You can only understand this when you progress further along. You cannot resist the changes that life will throw at you. You can’t change your Twin Flame’s behavior if he or she is not ready to confront the nature of your Twin Flame experiences. You will go through lessons of love. You will be challenged to accept and love yourself.
All this will happen without the help of your Twin Flame. There are some days when you wish that you never met him or her. Sometimes you worry that you are deluding yourself into believing that you met a Twin Flame. Sometimes you will feel very doubtful of your feelings and the love connection that you feel. The Twin Flame experience is bigger than you. Love is bigger than everything.
Last night, I had a great evening doing all the things that make me happy. I had quality me-time and I barely felt compelled to think of my Twin Flame.
I have a friend who is trying to be close to me and we both have so much in common but I cannot see past the Twin Flame connection.
When I woke up, I felt like a part of me was missing because it felt like I was ignoring my Twin Flame connection since I tended to ignore thoughts of him. I missed feeling the intense connection and I instantly started thinking of him right away.
When I try to resist the connection or block thoughts of my Twin Flame, I feel disconnected from within. The Twin Flame connection is a natural aspect of me that his essence merges with mine all the time.
This is a Twin Flame dilemma because it is not easy to suppress the urges when you feel compelled to reach out to your Twin Flame even though they don’t want to talk to you.
For me, when I get the urge to reach out to him, I do not resist the compulsion because every aspect of the Twin Flame journey is divinely guided.
Every time you feel the compulsion to reach out to your Twin Flame, there is an important reason why the universe is always trying to align you with your Twin Flame.
After going through the Twin Flame journey for almost three years, I now understand that there will never be perfect timing for anything to happen especially the fact you have no control over how events unfold during your journey.
What matters the most is the kind of message that you intend to send to your Twin Flame when you reach out to them.
Also don’t have any expectations of how your Twin Flame will respond to your message because you have no control over their actions.
If you send love to your Twin Flame all the time, it yields positive results and it also improves your relationship as you progress further on your journey.
Life is short and unpredictable so do what makes you happy all the time.
As a Twin Flame, you have the same energetic Signature as your partner and you both vibrate at the same energetic frequency.
If your Twin Flame is struggling with their energy; if your Twin Flame has a low energetic vibe, it affects your energy too.
The Twin Flame journey teaches you to accept change in every aspect of your life.
When you meet your Twin Flame for the first time, you feel a shift in your energy. Your Twin Flame encounter triggers an energetic merge and you both feel as if you both downloaded your energy into each other.
Being a Twin Flame requires you to accept the energetic merging so that you can balance the energetic oneness with your Twin Flame.
When you run from your Twin Flame, it means that you deny feeling the energetic merging and you choose to physically block your Twin Flame assuming that it would make you stop feeling the connection.
If you are a Chaser Twin Flame, it means that you are denying yourself to embrace the energetic merging because instead of embracing the connection from your heart, you physically focus on chasing your Twin Flame partner.
To find the energetic balance between you and your Twin Flame, you go through a series of energetic purging processes to purify your energy.
When you feel energetically cleansed, your Twin Flame feels it too, and the more you heal your core wounding, the more blissful you both feel.
Once your energy merges with your Twin Flame completely, you feel the energetic Oneness that already exists from the source of the shared soul.
You are always one with your Twin Flame but it takes love lessons to learn to embrace how you feel.
In essence, your Twin Flame is you because you are one in the soul.
Twin Flame Union is when you feel the Oneness with your Twin Flame no matter how far you are physically separated from each other.
To feel the Oneness with your Twin Flame is only achieved if you accept to submit to the soul lessons that you experience during your Twin Flame journey so that you can transform into your authentic self.
A runner Twin Flame also goes through the challenging soul lessons, the spiritual awakening processes like the night of the soul, enlightenment, spiritual growth, self-rediscovery, and self-transformation.
Nothing can stop the unconditional love that Twin Flames feel for each other. This is why you are constantly remembering each other wherever you are in the world.
No matter what your Twin Flame does to run from you, the love you feel for them heals you from within. you let it overflow to everything and everyone around you.
After you find healing along the Twin Flame journey, you feel like you have a light to you — your energetic vibration is positive. You attract love into your life.
You also attract friends who vibrate at the same energetic wavelength as you. You create meaningful relationships in your life.
The Twin Flame love inspires you to feel optimistic about life whether you are in the phase of physical separation or not: You feel like you can achieve your wildest dreams because you feel the Oneness within.
You feel that your shared energy is magical because you feel the power from within to create a meaningful life by focusing on your passions and talents.
The journey to self-rediscovery not only transforms you into your authentic self but also empowers you to embrace self-love.
Loving yourself is indeed the greatest Revolution. Self-love is true love forever.