Category: connections

When you think of your Twin Flame, you feel the bliss within yourself — the fear of not being good enough, the fear of abandonment, and personal insecurities are healed within yourself. Therefore, instead of having feelings of running away from your Twin Flame, you feel an attraction towards them instead. 

This trick worked for me but I had to first learn my soul lessons and my responsibilities as a divine partner in our connection for effectiveness.

The first thing you have to remember is that no matter what way your twin soul runner is separated from you, it is essential to stay grounded in yourself and your soul Truth because you can not influence them physically, they will only run further from you.

Staying in your Energy and sending them love will quicken their healing and love realization that you have been with them all along as they are with you.

Remember, sometimes your twin may know how special your love is them but still ignore your messages or ghost you completely.

You can not control how they respond to your love and the connection because personal healing works at its own pace and time.

What do you do to help with the situation?

Respect their Space

This is difficult to do. So challenging because you are connected heart to heart and no matter how much your Twin pushes you away, they love you unconditionally and you can feel it. 

It beats human thinking because what they physically do to run can not compare to how the Connection feels.

You can choose to limit how much time you stalk them on social media and invest it in something that helps you with accelerating your soul growth. You can dive into an art class or choose to study a new skill altogether.

Send them love

When you are thinking about them or feeling their emotions, send love back in your thoughts.

I will draw examples from my own life experience of being ghosted by my divine partner. Different reasons lead to separation between twin Souls and when it happens, you need to focus on your healing which is quite challenging because of the shared energy and the unconditional love between you and your twin that keeps pulling at you towards them. You feel half of your soul missing.

For me, I was obsessed with Constantly checking his social media and texts just to feel that live connection. I could text him and just pour out my feelings which pushed him further away. I was naive about how it all works. I thought that I had done something wrong to push him away.

What is excruciating is the fact that sometimes your twin may ignore you by not responding to your calls, emails, and texts and can even block you on social media without you doing anything major. It is an emotional reaction to you and the Connection because they can not handle the intensity of their feelings for you.

I have also learned that if you embody negative feelings and thoughts of separation and abandonment, your Twin can also automatically repel you. Remember they feel your pain too.

How do you know that even if they don’t talk to you, your Twin still cares and loves you as they love themselves?

Energy Share:

When in moments of sorrow or sadness, your Twin is right there with you! Even in moments of joy and happiness too! Sometimes they can send you feelings of love through sexual feelings and intimacy. You can feel their energy embracing you and comforting you. Sometimes it feels like you are having mental conversations together.

They keep in touch through other means

My twin keeps updating my close mutual friends every time I write to him. He messages or calls with a full detailed update in response to my texts. He also knows that I will receive the information in a certain way so he says our code words that we use or gives me hints of what he means. Even if he does not respond directly, he cares to show that he reads my messages.

Once in a blue moon, he can text me a few brief words usually if he is in s very Thankful mood.

I know you must have your way of communication with your Twin but you know that they never leave you always.

They are always with you in energy and spirit. I learned this after I faced my past pain and dark emotions that were clogging our connection. After Surrender and healing, I always acknowledge my twin Soul with me. In my thoughts and feelings and he is always inspiring me for the best.

Separation is an illusion. Time and Space make us believe that we are alone but energy is always merging.

You will understand this after you focus on healing your energy. You will feel empowered and complete.

I wish you the best of Luck and Blessings on your Journey.

Being a Twin Flame feels like you live inside each other because you feel your Twin Flame in energy. You are both one energy operating system, and it affects the aspects of your physical life and the embodiment of your emotions.

Now, I wake up to the feelings in my heart everyday Single day since I met him. There are times when I go to sleep thinking of him, feel him when I’m dreaming, wake up wanting him, and then back to thinking of him throughout the day. Constantly.

I’m trying my best. At some point, I thought that it’s best to think that they “Hate” Me and everything we experienced was a lie so that I can go back to Living my previous old normal Life before meeting him.

My old life was “boring” but I felt like I had control to some degree. Life was more manageable but now I am constantly thinking of him and feeling chaotic emotions that I can not fully control.

Sometimes it’s pure Bliss and Joy especially after having good dreams about him. I can feel like my heart is expanding infinitely with love and joy. And then sometimes it’s just sadness, longing, and helplessness. Sometimes it’s a mix of my Feelings and his going through me at the same time as a hurricane.

I guess there is nothing normal out of all of this Twin Flame experience. Every day has its kind of process.

No matter how challenging this gets, this is the happiest that I have ever been! I feel right at home in myself and I am authentically Me right from the core of my soul. So much change has happened in my life and I am so grateful for who I am.

Now that I’m headed to the physical Union after working on myself through constant surrender, my healing has brought me to a place of harmony and balance within myself. I feel complete and at peace with my beloved.

I surrendered to unconditional love. I gave up feeling needy and attached to the connection with my Twin. I stopped being obsessed with our relationship and focused all that energy on recreating the Authentic life that I deserve.

I no longer wait for my beloved to save me, I am my warrior. I am so happy to say that I am right now living my life in line with my life mission and goals.

From my experience, two things Twin Flame loves are very Unique and Special.

• It inspires you to embrace and hug your inner child:

You know that deep down in your Soul if you have a hurting inner child, you feel no peace. You know that something within you is broken or needs to be fixed. You know that all the emotional frustration that you feel is because you are ignoring yourself and your core wounding. 

It is until you face the pain and find ways to heal, that the core wounding that you face sometimes manifests in your physical life situations through anger outbursts, feelings of neglect and abandonment, fear of being alone, unexplainable insecurities, and also feelings of not being good enough.

It is a ripple effect when it comes to how emotional pain manifests in our lives and sometimes the effect of feeling the negative feelings can affect your life in negative various ways.

For example; You could have intense mood swings and you have no idea why. Sometimes you can get angry without a serious reason and you can also channel your anger into inflicting pain and misery on others through domestic violence, and emotional and psychological abuse. It can be as extreme as emotional manipulation.

If your Inner Child feels abandoned, it means that you never had the opportunity as a child to experience real love the way you deserved which affects how you relate with other people and how you appreciate the love in your life.

For me, my inner child was suffering before I met my Twin Flame. I did not know that I had an inner child but as I was getting older, I missed the child in me. I missed the fearlessness, the innocence, the child-like spirit, and passion. Life felt empty and meaningless because I did not feel like I had a center. I felt like I needed to find myself but I did not know where to begin. 

I also had an unexplainable fear and I did not know the root cause. I also felt insecure and fearful of the future. I felt like I was walking on eggshells when I was around others and I was exhausted from doing everything for them so that I could feel appreciated or accepted. I was exhausted from feeling not good enough when I was around other people. I felt lost and life was meaningless to me because I did not feel like I had a purpose.

I thought that I was going crazy when I experienced the energetic merge with my Twin Flame. Every emotion felt very strong, intense, and confusing. 

The emotional chaos happened because I was confused as to why I was feeling my Twin Flame’s energy merging with mine all the time.

When I was new to understanding the dynamics of the Twin Flame energetic merge, I could feel my Twin Flame’s energy taking over the left side of my body.

I thought that it was very strange that I felt that way.

The energetic merging did not stop and it changed my feelings, thoughts, and emotions. I felt like my essence was merging with my Twin Flame’s essence continuously.

And, I now know that my Twin Flame’s energy did not only take over the right side of my body but as we kept merging energetically, the shared energy took over.

When the shared energy of Oneness took me over, I stopped feeling as if I am a singular person and I started to feel as if we are two people living in one body.

I always feel my Twin Flame’s energy but now I do not feel any distinction between his energy and mine. 

I always feel like I am him. 

Twin Flames are One in the Soul and Essence.

I blocked him at first because I was jealous; he seemed happy without me. Immediately after I blocked him, I regretted it and followed him again. He follows me but I do not follow him.

I am happy that I do not see their social media because it would drive me crazy. I used to always be on social media before I met my Twin Flame.
I was one of the influencers.

Once I met my Twin Flame, the meaning of my life changed. I started to crave a life of meaning and authenticity.
I realized that I was very exposed to the internet. Since the Twin Flame process has taught me how to love myself, I learned that I did not love feeling exposed to the internet.

The Spiritual awakening phase also taught me how to embrace solitude: I always wanted to be alone to either meditate or sit in a quiet corner and feel the Twin Flame shared energy.
I have learned to get to know myself better ever since I deleted my Facebook account. I have diverted the energy towards finding a fulfilling life purpose that involves helping other Twin Flames.

]When I was still connected with my Twin Flame over social media, I was always checking to see what he was doing.
Sometimes I would stalk the girls whose photos he liked. I felt like a stalker. I did not enjoy feeling insecure.
I realized that social media is not the right channel for us to keep in touch. I find it superficial and unrealistic.
I could not keep up with the emotional stress that comes from trying to please everyone. I could not match my expectations.

This is my perspective. What is yours?
Stay Blessed!