One thing for sure about a twin flame is that whether you are aware of it or not, the sense of incompleteness is always with you in everything you do before you meet a twin flame. You don’t feel delighted whether it is making connections with other people or accepting who you are. You always feel like something is missing within — like nothing is completely enough.
Then when you meet a twin flame, you feel complete automatically. All the broken pieces within start coming together to make you whole. You start to feel a realignment with your natural authentic self. You feel alive for the first time. You feel content no matter whatever situation that you find yourself in.
One important note: When it comes to twin flames, when you know, you know. You have no doubts about the connection. The connection drives you to seek more understanding of what is happening to you. It is so natural that you find it unbelievable that such an experience could ever happen to you. It is until you find other people who have similar experiences that you can relate to that it all starts to make sense to you.
If you are saying that you experienced events that imply the aspects of a twin flame and night of the soul — try to examine the situation with an honest perspective.
The truth is that you can not just wish to have a twin flame or choose him or her. They just are your twin flame and nothing you can do can change that truth.
If you genuinely believe that you are going through a twin flame experience, just don’t worry about it. Everything will just happen to you without any of your control. The changes that turn your life upside down are unmistakable. And you will not miss out on the intensity of the chaotic emotions that the twin flame connection brings.
I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!