Category: sacred love

Almost every Twin Flame has been through this phase. You never expect the situation to get complicated the way it does. No matter how much you try to control the chaos that follows suit, your efforts are fruitless.

The Twin Flame journey takes its course with uncontrollable changes that transform each Twin Flame forever.

The running or chasing behavior exists to expose the fears and pain that exist within each Twin Flame.

If you are the chaser, you feel consumed by the love connection; you obsessively need to be in close contact with your divine partner.

At the same time, your partner is irritated by your actions. They try different ways to avoid you because you trigger uncomfortable feelings within them.

The similarity is that both Twin Flames are inhibiting fears of different sorts. The fears repel each other in so many different ways:

Ever wonder why small fights are exaggerated with your Twin Flame? Why do you feel explosive feelings when you are with them?

When you are around your Twin Flame, they provoke the inner fears and insecurities within. You feel like you are walking on eggshells. You feel a sense of vulnerability all the time.

Sometimes you feel afraid to scare them off but you eventually do. The more you fear losing someone, the then you end up doing the exact thing.

Remember that being a runner or chaser from a relationship view is only a matter of perspective — From my experience, since Twin Flames are one in the soul, there is no distinction to the inflow of their energy because of the shared energy vibration but if you look at it from the physical perspective, it may seem like one is either a runner or a chaser.

I believe that the roles of being a chaser or a runner in Twin Flame can flip flop depending on the energy dynamics of the Twin Flames. 

Even if you believe that you are the chaser, you still feel your Twin Flame’s energy within you so that means that you also have an idea of what it means to be a runner. Also, the energy easily changes back and forth from being a runner to being a chaser.

When I ran from him at the beginning of our separation, I was chasing him with my mind and my energy because I was obsessed with thinking of him and I kept wondering what he thought of me when I ran from him. 

When he said that I make him “uncomfortable” and it was best if we did not talk, I grew feelings of chasing because that triggered my insecurities of abandonment and the fear of losing him.

Even if he was not responding to my texts, I wrote him a very long letter explaining my awakening, and I thanked him for Ignoring me and hiding from me because it made me stronger to focus on healing myself. I told him about my future aspirations, my goals, and my dreams to simplify my life and also focus on my life mission to help others like I always dreamed of.

Opening up myself like this to him gave me so much inner freedom because I knew that he knows that I am not upset with him for ignoring me, and he knows that I am going to keep myself happy without him being physically present in my life.

After I opened up to him, it opened me up completely to embrace my healing to keep living my life — slowly as I settled into surrender, I started to have the inner freedom to not obsess about my Twin Flame.

I don’t know what you would call this but after two years of being physically separated, I went through so much pain and I am now happy on my own without the help of my Twin Flame.

I have been thinking of this lately. I remember when I first ran from my Twin Flame. I did not know then that it was a Twin Flame experience. I was very overwhelmed by the intense Twin Flame feelings.

I tried to talk to my friends about my situation; but no one understood me. It sounded very complicated to anyone who is not a Twin Flame.

I would never have transformed, grown, and evolved into my authentic self if I did not run from him. 

Before I disconnected from him, I knew deep in my soul that the connection is real. I also knew that if he felt the same, we would eventually run into each other again.

When you meet a Twin Flame; you acknowledge the connection, you have no fear of losing them.

You also acknowledge how sacred the bond is. 

The runner goes through a series of regrets when they miss the presence of their divine Twin Flame partner. 

This is the most blissful stage of the Twin Flame journey. You finally surrender and let the universe guide you.

If you were the driver of your process, you hand the steering wheel to the universe. You become a passenger.

After you give up the stress of stalking your Twin Flame; the obsession and mind control tactics, you become free of fear.

Interestingly, your Twin Flame recognizes the changes in your energetic vibrations. They feel your energy being withdrawn. The energetic withdrawal creates a void within the runner Twin Flame.

When you physically stop chasing your Twin Flame, they also realize the changes in your behaviors.

Since you cannot run if nothing is chasing you, the runner Twin Flame learns that the chaser was the trigger for their running behaviors.

The runner starts to have realizations that perhaps the chaser’s love is genuine.

Apart from learning that the connection is authentic, the runner misses the Twin Flame deeply.

The love connection grows strongly once the chaser stops chasing. Chaos also takes over the runner’s life because the chaser’s behaviors trigger them into an accelerated spiritual awakening phase.

Even though the chaser finds healing and inner harmony, you miss your Twin Flame as much as they miss you.

Missing a Twin Flame can compel you to reach out to them, or you both contact each other at the same time.

If the runner Twin Flame is still hurting within themselves, you cannot influence their actions in any way. You have to give them the space they need to heal.

Sometimes the runner starts chasing; it is a typical sign that they still have issues to deal with.

When your Twin Flame starts chasing you, you feel uneasy. It also gives you closure to understand why you chased them previously.

If also still have inner issues to deal with, you start running from your Twin Flame.

You are capable of being a Twin Flame runner as much as your Twin Flame partner.

The energetic dance continues until you both heal. The separation cycle can be prolonged as much as you keep chasing and running from each other.