Because of Soul intimacy, you feel like you are cheating on your Twin Flame whenever you have sex with someone else.
I gave up on pursuing other relationships. I stopped deluding myself that I will feel happy with someone else. I am enjoying being single, as I prepare myself to reunite with my Twin Flame.
Whether Twin Flames like to accept the truth or not, having sex with other people as you Awaken to your Twin Flame connection is a blockage of your shared energy with your partner.
When you are purging emotional pain or if you are dealing with healing your core wounds, you want to stay away from tainting your energy. You need space and solitude to heal first.
This is normal to feel this way. But, even if nothing seems to be working on the Twin Flame journey, there is always some progress going on. This is why it is very important to let yourself feel every emotion that you feel.
Here are some things that I did to move from feeling stuck:
Are you resisting a certain aspect of your journey? You could be resisting channeling certain feelings your Twin Flame sends your way. You could be resisting thinking of them. Free yourself my accepting to embrace your feelings.
• How is your quiet time like? It could be that you are spending your energy around those who are in low energetic vibes. Having quality time replenishes your energy — solitude is a blessing on the Twin Flame journey because it allows you to focus on yourself.
• Do you meditate? — Meditation is as simple as taking time to quiet your thoughts. The more you quiet your thoughts, the more you will feel connected to your Twin Flame within. Having clear energetic contact with your Twin Flame improves your telepathic communication. Once you have clear, understandable telepathy with your Twin Flame, you stop feeling alone.
• Surround yourself with positivity — since the Twin Flame journey is about rediscovering your authenticity, focus on accumulating positivity and happiness in your life. You start with self-love, and then you will progress into living an authentic life.
• SET GOALS — What would you desire to achieve after everything goes back to harmony? If you desire to have a healthy physical relationship, will it be temporary or forever? What do you picture your perfect life scenario as? Who would you love to be when you are together in a union? What do you picture your responsibilities to be in a union?
Setting goals will not only give you HOPE to keep going with your Twin Flame journey but you will work on yourself every day having the end in mind.
Having the end in mind will empower you to focus on the big picture. You will not feel doubtful of your connection, and you will occupy your daily routine with meaningful goals that work in alignment with your desires.
If that is not enough, they can choose to mask their feelings behind a new relationship to deny feeling anything real for their chaser. They start to wonder if the connection was real or not.
This is also the “Awakening” phase of the Twin Flame runner because all the confusion and questions throw them into a phase of Soul searching to understand why they can’t move on from the chaser no matter how many other people they try to date.
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My runner experience was lonely – I missed him all the time. I was infuriated by the fact that I was still living from a space of fear. Eventually, I healed myself and reconnected with him after two years.
What changes how the runner Twin Flame feels are the actions of the chaser because the chasing activities lessen, and the chaser sometimes gives up completely to obsess about the connection.
If the Chaser Twin Flame was using social media to give messages to the runner — the runner is always checking the partner’s social media even if in hiding because this is how they keep track. Sometimes they create fake accounts to hide because they don’t want to miss out.
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The simplest way the runner realizes that the chaser is moving on is that the times you post on social media decrease and when you do, it is about you i.e Self-love posts. This gets them panicking because they wonder if you are forgetting them.
In my case, I de-activated my social media altogether — I went quiet and he noticed. The first post I put up after reactivated my account, he was the first one to like it.
Apart from social media, once the actions of the chaser lessen, the runner starts to feel the emptiness because they miss being chased. There is no runner without a chaser.
If you are not used to feeling loved unconditionally, you get overwhelmed by the intense Twin Flame feelings and you have fear of being rejected or abandoned if you accept to feel the connection.
The runner Twin Flame anticipates that their Twin Flame partner will abandon them in the future — this is because they have past pain from being abandoned before.
Instead of being rejected in the future, the runner chooses to disconnect as a safety measure to protect themselves from a future heartbreak but this quick solution never works because the connection keeps growing within them.
Accepting to feel the intense feelings of unconditional love for the Twin Flame takes time; the runner goes through simultaneous love lessons and they gradually learn to open their heart completely to embrace unconditional love.
I have been a runner a Twin Flame and even though I feel healed and ready to embrace the Twin Flame Connection, the possibilities of a physical reunion with my Twin Flame still scare me.
The Runner Twin Flame indeed suffers a lot from self-fear and inner insecurities.