What changes how the runner Twin Flame feels are the actions of the chaser because the chasing activities lessen, and the chaser sometimes gives up completely to obsess about the connection.
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If the Chaser Twin Flame was using social media to give messages to the runner — the runner is always checking the partner’s social media even if in hiding because this is how they keep track. Sometimes they create fake accounts to hide because they don’t want to miss out.
The simplest way the runner realizes that the chaser is moving on is that the times you post on social media decrease and when you do, it is about you i.e Self-love posts. This gets them panicking because they wonder if you are forgetting them.
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In my case, I de-activated my social media altogether — I went quiet and he noticed. The first post I put up after reactivating my account, he was the first one to like it.
Apart from social media, once the actions of the chaser lessen, the runner starts to feel emptiness because they miss being chased. There is no runner without a chaser.
This pushes the runner into panic mode because they wonder if they are losing the game.
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The runner enters the 3rd phase of grief called bargaining.
Because of the panic and fear of losing their Twin Flame, the runner starts to wonder what they could have done to make the situation better.
They start to think of “What ifs.”
If that is not enough, they can choose to mask their feelings behind a new relationship to deny feeling anything real for their chaser. They start to wonder if the connection was real or not.
This is also the “Awakening” phase of the Twin Flame runner because all the confusion and questions throw them into a phase of Soul searching to understand why they can’t move on from the chaser no matter how many other people they try to date.
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My runner experience was lonely – I missed him all the time. I was infuriated by the fact that I was still living in a space of fear. Eventually, I healed myself and reconnected with him after two years.