Almost every Twin Flame has been through this phase. You never expect the situation to get complicated the way it does. No matter how much you try to control the chaos that follows suit, your efforts are fruitless.
The journey takes its course with uncontrollable changes that transform each Twin Flame forever.
The running or chasing behavior exists to expose the fears and pain that exist within each Twin Flame.
If you are the chaser, you feel consumed by the love connection; you obsessively need to be in close contact with your divine partner.
At the same time, your partner is irritated by your actions. They try different ways to avoid you because you trigger uncomfortable feelings within them.
The similarity is that both Twin Flames are inhibiting fears of different sorts. The fears repel each other in so many different ways: Ever wonder why small fights are exaggerated with your Twin Flame? Why do you feel explosive feelings when you are with them?
When you are around your Twin Flame, they provoke the inner fears and insecurities within. You feel like you are walking on eggshells. You feel a sense of vulnerability all the time.
Sometimes you feel afraid to scare them off but you eventually do. The more you fear losing someone, the then you end up doing the exact thing.