I believe that meeting a Twin Flame while you are in a relationship or marriage is the most complicated situation. Your heart and Soul desire to merge with your Twin Flame. You feel his or her energy growing within you without your control. You feel yourself changing because of your encounter. Life is never the same after you meet your Twin Flame.
I was also married when I met my Twin Flame. We lived together day and night for almost a month. We did not expect to be Twin Flames. We knew each other through mutual friends for five years before we met. We heard stories from each other. Two years before we saw each other, we were both invited for lunch but I skipped it. I was exhausted that day.
When we met, I relaxed as if I arrived home. I felt free to be myself because he is my perfect reflection. I could see all my desires in him. I could also see my greatest fears. He challenged me to face parts of myself that I had hidden away from myself and the world. I felt free of fear. Suddenly meeting him washed away my pain and stress. I instantly felt inspired to be the best version of myself. For the first time, I felt happy all the time without any outside validation.
One day, I stood in the mirror. I looked at my reflection; I could see an uncanny familiarity that I share with my Twin Flame. I felt like I was him and he was me. My heartbeat changed. Every time he walked into a room, my heart would start racing faster. When I was away from him, I could not stop thinking of him. I also felt the energetic merging all the time. You feel magical when a Twin Flame looks in your eyes. You feel acknowledged, understood, and appreciated. Twin Flame love originates from the shared Soul.
You understand each other completely by seeing each other. You have empathy for each other. You are always protective of a Twin Flame. You also quickly find forgiveness for each other. The physical separation phase is a blessing in disguise; You allow each other to have the space to understand your Twin Flame separation. If you are a married Twin Flame, you are challenged to embrace your situation. I learned the following lessons as a married Twin Flame: Change is not easy — Your inner strength will be tested.
Your faith in love will be disintegrated. Sometimes, You will wish that you never met a Twin Flame. You will be judged by relatives, friends, and family members for leaving your marriage. Leaving your husband or wife for a Twin Flame seems impulsive and obsessive. You seem to have lost your mind if you choose a Twin Flame over stability and convenience. If your finances are intertwined with your Twin Flame, you fear that your life situation will change for the worst. Sometimes you wonder if it is worth it embracing the changes that a Twin Flame triggers in your life. When you are separated from a Twin Flame: If you live on separate continents or in different cities — Communication is a challenge.
Finding the right time to spend time together on the phone becomes complicated if you have different timezones. More so, if your Twin Flame is running from you; If he or she is overwhelmed by the connection. You feel discouraged to embrace the changes happening in your life. You doubt if the stress of chasing a Twin Flame is worth it. When I initially separated from my Twin Flame three years ago, I was tempted to stay with my husband temporarily. I did not know then that I was going through the Twin Flame experience.
I felt overwhelmed by my feelings. I was scared of separating from the mutual friends that I share with my husband. I also had no guarantee that my Twin Flame would wait for me to dissolve the obstacles between us. As you progress further along your journey, you learn that the Twin Flame process happens for you, and within you. It is a battle that you have to win within yourself without the physical interference of your divine partner.