Is it normal that your twin flame doesn’t care about your birthday? We are in separation right now. And before we were in separation he wished me on my birthday. I was so hurt by this. After that, we still don’t have contact.


You have to stop stressing about what your Twin Flame is not doing for you and focus on making yourself happy because life is short — every moment that you live, you must embrace it with an open heart whether your Twin Flame is talking to you or not.

More blessings come with the Twin Flame journey and inner happiness is one of them but you have to train yourself to achieve the inner balance.

I also stopped categorizing my Twin Flame experiences like the everyday relationship drama; you choose either to believe the connection that you feel or focus on what your mind keeps telling you.

From my experiences, I used to always wish him a happy birthday for two years but he never texted, emailed, or called me and I used to feel infuriated by his inaction once I stopped stressing about his behaviors, I learned that every year a week before my birthday, he would call a mutual friend who is closest to me so that he would know every detail about my birthday plans.

This year, I was very compelled to reach out to him and say happy birthday and I restrained myself every time I got the urge to send a text message or email.

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But, the Twin Flame journey is divinely guided and no matter how much you try to resist what your Soul craves, you end up doing it anyway but not in the way you expect — All the happenings on my Twin Flame journey have been beyond my expectations.

5 days after his birthday, I still had the urge to talk to him to know if he had a special day and I wanted him to know that I think of him.

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An event happened to a mutual friend of ours and I was suddenly triggered to write a quick email to him which ended up being over 10 paragraphs of just talking to him and asking him if he had a great birthday!

He did not reply but he ended up calling home a day later for 3 hours just talking about his life and asking about mine.

Once you meet your Twin Flame, you have to accept change but also you have to give up any expectations out of your connection and focus on enjoying your blessings.

Stay Blessed!

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By Silvia Moon

About the author I am happy when I relate with you through my experiences and also inspire you to feel better about yourself and your twin flame situation to stay in love. The Twin Flame experience has inspired me to develop incredible inner strength; I feel the impetus to achieve my wildest dreams. I have learned to align my spiritual gifts with my physical needs. Embracing the Twin Flame's unconditional love has taught me different ways to embrace transcendental experiences like beauty, connection, exploration, flow, purpose, and gratitude. I used to have unmet spiritual needs or desires; the Twin Flame journey has taught me the different ways of adapting to change to feel whole and enlightened. I had to dig deeper within myself to face my suffering. I had to integrate the broken parts within: I learned to embrace self-love. The Twin Flame journey is a battle within myself; I had to stare within to penetrate my being to experience the full richness of my existence. I have transformed to reach the heights of my humanity and potential: I am creative, authentic, accepting, independent, and brave. After I went through the invigorating Twin Flame Spiritual Awakening process and reflected on my old life, I began to understand why I felt deeply unsatisfied. I felt isolated from the world as I knew it. I also realized that no matter my social status and level of success: money, power, greatness, and some level of happiness still left me deeply unsatisfied. I yearned for a deeper connection between myself and the world around me. I previously inhibited negative patterns and behaviors that hindered my growth. I rediscovered the authentic humanistic qualities that define me: creativity, freedom, forgiveness, awareness, acceptance, independence, and bravery. Once I found my authentic version as a Twin Flame, I gained more respect and acknowledgment of the uniqueness and sacredness of my humanity. I hope to inspire you to feel better about yourself to find easy solutions to your twin flame situation. It makes me the happiest person in the world. While you read my books, I hope to relate with you as a twin flame and beyond. Always here to share Love and Light. Yours in love, Silvia Moon. Stay Blessed!

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