It is very excruciating and frustrating as well because you have no control over the situation. It is more saddening if your twin flame seems unphased by the connection you share — when he or she seems happy with a karmic partner on social media and in person. In reality, a twin flame can also have a loving partner who also cares for them. Sometimes he or she might have children and be happily married. Karmic relationships can also be happy relationships.
If you meet your twin flame while they are married or in a relationship, there is not much that you can do because you wish them to be happy at the end of the day. Your happiness is their happiness at the end of the day. Therefore, you wish your twin flame well even though you envy their karmic partner: You never stop wondering what life would be like if you were in their shoes. You always wish you could end up with your twin flame someday.
The other scenario is when you find your twin flame while they are single but he or she ends up running into a new relationship during the separation phase. It could be that you had a misunderstanding that led to both of your egos butting heads. You end up blocking each other to no end. This denial phase is quite emotionally chaotic — when all the sharp knives come out — when you are purging all the anger and emotional issues within you. It always feels like the stage of grief after denial. Purging emotional pain.
This phase of separation is the most trying phase of all — it tests your faith in love, the connection, and your twin flame. It also tests your faith in everything that you believe about your twin flame experiences. And also, your patience is tested.
You wonder if your twin flame is thinking of you at all. You wonder if your connection is only an obsession felt by only you. You wonder if they will ever come back especially if he or she seems to have moved on. Once you sink to the lowest of your misery, you begin to build yourself up because you realize that the twin flame connection will never go away. You submit: You choose to surrender to let the divine guide you through your journey.