The twin flame connection is not an excuse to leave a marriage or a good relationship. Neither is it fair to use it to hurt those in your life, especially your spouse.
Even though you stay friends with a twin flame while you are in a relationship, you feel as if you are emotionally cheating.
You must respect your marriage: If a twin flame is meant to be in a harmonious relationship with you, it will be because nothing can stop it. Events will unfold naturally. Your marriage will dissolve amicably. (I am best friends with my ex-husband. We realized that we are better as friends than as lovers.) Your life will dramatically change to realign with your reunion.
Meanwhile, your karmic lessons have to be learned. You must not let your twin flame relationship interfere with your growth process.
I have learned that indeed patience is a virtual when it comes to the twin flame journey. You also have to learn to respect the process — trust the journey and also learn to enjoy it.
Wherever you are on your journey, you are learning, growing, and transforming. So, be there. Accept the nature of your situation and work towards making it better. As long as you keep moving forward— as long as you stay grounded within yourself while you trust your inner knowing. As long as you believe that you are indeed going through the twin flame experiences, life will soon become better for you.
You eventually learn to figure out how to manage yourself and your twin flame situation.
Always seek to heal not harm. The unconditional love connection you feel for your twin flame must be contagiously overflowing in the lives of those around you. Share it with the world too.
Enjoy this interesting book coming from a previously married Twin Flame. I hope that my perspective is helpful to you during your twin flame process. I wish you more blessings and love. Stay blessed!