Healing others, and making sure that others are doing okay is part of who an empathetic person is. It is built in the fabric of the makeup of his or her DNA. You cannot change this. That being said, trying to always be the savior is a double-edged sword. It is a human trait that pulls them towards narcissists, psychopaths, the emotionally broken, and many who seem to need saving.
When an empath is in a relationship with anyone who seems to need saving, he or she is blind to the negative traits that a person could have. You always seem to forgive quickly — you always give the benefit of the doubt. You seem not to let bad people go out of your life. You feel like no matter what he or she does to hurt you, they will someday magically change and become better.
You find yourself sacrificing everything that you are to save this person. Empaths always end up being the unhappiest in this kind of relationship. You end up missing out on living your life. You always regret giving up living your life because you wanted to save someone else.
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