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What does it feel like when your twin flame connection is fading?

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It does feel like it is fading sometimes. It goes dormant. You feel numb — like you cannot feel your shared energetic vibrations. Sometimes it just does not feel like you are not receiving as much as you are giving. It feels one-sided.

Here are some easy reasons why:

  • It could be that you have inner resistance to the connection without even realizing it. When I feel detachments within, I do a self-check. I know that I am not present or mindful. Sometimes I intentionally block out my Twin Flame’s thoughts. I try to not feel the connection especially if I am distracted by circumstances in my life situation. Sometimes I feel overburdened by the nature of the connection.
  • Sometimes I feel like the connection is fading when I have inner blockages. When I haven’t done the necessary inner work. For me, jams happen Spiritually, Emotionally, physically, and Psychologically. Sometimes I sulk thinking that my Twin Flame is moved on. Sometimes it just feels like I am being delusional— I get moments of doubt. It is normal to feel this way.
  • The other times I don’t feel the connection is when I know my Twin Flame is telepathically blocking me. You know right away your Twin Flame is also putting up an inner resistance to the relationship. The Twin Flame shared energy is an ebb and flow. It goes back and forth and you are both equal participants.

I hope that my answer helps you.

Stay Blessed!

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What are some ways to work through twin flame runner fears?

Being open with your insecurities paradoxically makes you more confident and charismatic around others. The pain of honest confrontation is what generates the greatest trust and respect in your relationships. Suffering from your fears and insecurities is what allows you to build courage and perseverance.

Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempts to escape the negative, to avoid it or squash it or silence it, only backfire. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is struggle. The denial of failure is a failure. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame.

Pain is an inextricable thread in the fabric of life, and to tear it out is not only impossible but destructive. Attempting to tear it out unravels everything else with it. If you are brave enough not to avoid pain, you are unstoppable.

To achieve healing is to water down life’s most terrifying and difficult challenges and still take action.

You have to learn how to focus and prioritize your thoughts effectively. Learn how to pick and choose what does and what does not matter to you by honoring your choices and preferences. You have finely honed personal values to achieve results.

It takes a lifetime of practice and declines to achieve the results. You will regularly fail. But it is perhaps the most worthy struggle one can undertake in one’s life. Perhaps it is the only struggle.

When you are struggling, you will see every adversity as an injustice, every challenge as a failure, every inconvenience as a personal slight, and every disagreement as a betrayal. You will be confined to your own petty, skull-sized hell. Burning with entitlement and bluster. Running in circles in circles of your feedback loop from hell. In constant motion yet arriving nowhere.

Be comfortable with being different — the journey always goes on. You hide your emotional pain, you create a world of despair. You feel indifferent to the world and yourself. You hide in a gray, emotionless pit of your own making. You always feel self-pity perpetually distracting yourself from living life to the fullest.

I hope that my perspective helps you with your journey. Stay Blessed!


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How can a chaser twin flame tell the difference between ghosting from an actual real twin flame runner from being stonewalled or given the silent treatment by a narcissist?

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I have experienced both situations — I have known a narcissist ghosting me and I also know how it feels to chase a runner twin flame.

From my experience, it all comes down to the connection.

A Narcissistic Relationship…

When it comes to chasing a narcissist, it’s not fun. You feel bruised all the time. It is because, to a narcissist, it is a game. It is all orchestrated by them because he or she is obsessed with being in control of the situation and themselves. In this game, they hold all the cards. At the end of the day, you always lose — the narcissist has to always win.

Secondly, they don’t have any respect for you. It is always one-sided and you must always bend to their will. Even though you want to quit, it is impossible because you have no power in the play. You are blind to the exit options. You feel stuck.

But, Twin Flame Running and Chasing …

When you chase a Twin Flame, it is another playing field. You know within you that you have the power to stop. You feel that you are the same — twin flames are two sides of the same coin. You don’t feel the distinction in your energetic vibration. You have the same energetic signature or blueprint.

In essence, chasing a twin flame is a healing process as much as running. You learn various love lessons. You rediscover yourself. Chasing a twin flame puts you in the space of vulnerability. You open yourself up to your twin flame and the journey itself. You let your twin flame know how you feel. You express your love in the rawest form. The more you do this, the more healing you achieve.

It is indeed true that twin-flame love breaks your heart open. It is indeed true that it is through the wound that light enters.

In brief, a narcissistic relationship bruise you while a Twin Flame chasing or running heals you in the process.

I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!


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How do you know for sure that you are even a twin? For the past year, I’ve been having events implying the idea of the dark night and TwinFlame. But I don’t know if it even applies to me. I just know 1 thing I have always felt incomplete.

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One thing for sure about a twin flame is that whether you are aware of it or not, the sense of incompleteness is always with you in everything you do before you meet a twin flame. You don’t feel delighted whether it is making connections with other people or accepting who you are. You always feel like something is missing within — like nothing is completely enough.

Then when you meet a twin flame, you feel complete automatically. All the broken pieces within start coming together to make you whole. You start to feel a realignment with your natural authentic self. You feel alive for the first time. You feel content no matter whatever situation that you find yourself in.

One important note: When it comes to twin flames, when you know, you know. You have no doubts about the connection. The connection drives you to seek more understanding of what is happening to you. It is so natural that you find it unbelievable that such an experience could ever happen to you. It is until you find other people who have similar experiences that you can relate to that it all starts to make sense to you.

If you are saying that you experienced events that imply the aspects of a twin flame and night of the soul — try to examine the situation with an honest perspective.

The truth is that you can not just wish to have a twin flame or choose him or her. They just are your twin flame and nothing you can do can change that truth.

If you genuinely believe that you are going through a twin flame experience, just don’t worry about it. Everything will just happen to you without any of your control. The changes that turn your life upside down are unmistakable. And you will not miss out on the intensity of the chaotic emotions that the twin flame connection brings.

I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!


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Why am I being more positive about each twin flame separation in dealing with it in a more positive manner?

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Well, this is the ultimate feeling for every twin flame to aspire to. That positive energetic vibration. Feeling negative about the twin flame situation takes as much energy as feeling positive. There is no downside to feeling positive. You only rise higher if you choose to feel optimistic and hopeful as you progress further.

Every twin flame must know that there is nothing good that comes out of a negative attitude. You have to choose right from the beginning of your journey to either embrace every aspect in a positive manner or dig yourself deeper into negativity and doubts.

The main reason why you feel positive about separation is that the journey has taught you how to trust the divine. You trust your connection and the truth of your intuition. You also understand that there is no aspect of your journey that you can control but yourself. You have also learned by this stage that separation from a twin flame is an illusion. You don’t feel separated at all — you feel his or her essence with you all the time. Their essence is always merging with yours.

I hope that my perspective helps you with answering your question.

Stay Blessed!