When you meet a Twin Flame for the first time, you experience an energetic merging. You feel the energetic download — You feel a transfer of conscience. When you energetically merge with your Twin Flame, you feel his or her essence with you all the time. The energetic merging also boosts your energetic vibration. You feel the rise in the energetic frequency.
When you finally find energetic harmony with a Twin Flame, you learn how your Twin Flame dynamic works. You feel energetic oneness with each other. You easily send love to each other using your heart space. You feel an energetic singularity with him or her.
Twin Flames operate as a Single Energetic Unit. You are your Twin Flame — You are two sides of a coin. You are one in the Soul. Since you operate as a Single Energetic Unit with your Twin Flame, you have a unique means of communication called; Telepathic communication. You can feel what your Twin Flame is feeling. You can also guess what he or she is thinking. You feel as if you live inside each other.
The separation phase can be a blessing in disguise. You sometimes both need a breather. A neutral space to figure out what is going on. At least that is how I like to see it.
When a Twin Flame has an aversion towards you, it seems as if he or she does not want anything to do with you but it is not the case. We all have different ways to handle stress especially the chaos that follows suit after the initial encounter.
I too felt frustrated when my Twin Flame ghosted me. I could not believe that someone who I thought completely knew me suddenly and instantly grew cold overnight. I could not wrap my mind around the whole drama.
As time passed, I realized that I was my own problem as much as he is his own. We both had to figure out what was wrong within us.
We both got scared of the connection. For me, I had deeper issues to confront. Why meeting him revealed all the demons within myself that I had hidden from for so long. I blocked him thinking that all the pain he had uncovered would go away too. His absence only reminded me of what I had encountered. A Twin Flame.
I wished there was a spell to bring him back. To fix us. I prayed to God to make him realize that we have a special connection. Hoping that he would come to his senses but his returns were unpredictable and scarce.
Well, your Twin Flame’s running behavior is because they have inner issues within themselves that they need to sort out. No matter how much you try to fix your relationship so that you can be together, nothing will work if your Twin Flame is hurting within himself.
Also, I advise anyone who believes that you are going through an authentic Twin Flame journey to trust your inner knowing as a guide or a compass to help you navigate your Twin Flame process.
No one can give you the right answers to the questions that you have on your journey, and you must understand that every advice that you receive from other Twin Flames is only from the experiences that they have learned from the subjective lessons during their journey.
No one can tell you how to feel; only you can know the truth of your connection by listening to your inner knowing. You cannot fake an authentic Twin Flame connection because apart from feeling like your life finally makes it to you, you feel inspired to achieve your wildest dreams. Twin Flame love invigorates your energy; all the changes that happen in your life refine you so that you evolve into your authentic self whether your Twin Flame accepts the connection or not.
A friend asked me out for a date in the next two days. I feel overwhelmed to say yes. I do not feel ready to let anyone else in like I do with my Twin Flame. I am scared to spend time with him. He is a really lovely person — I know that he likes me more. I am scared of letting him on.
At the same time, I feel like giving him a chance to see where it goes. My soul resists the thoughts of me saying yes. I know that I love my Twin Flame. I will never stop loving him. We live on separate continents.
Another friend also wrote to me last night. He said that he misses my company. We are in different countries.
He said that he has been thinking of me lately. His message made me happy — I wished that it was my Twin Flame though. Before I fell asleep, I was thinking of all these wonderful men in my life who appreciate me. I felt happy that other men are giving me attention. I was not as happy as my Twin Flame makes me but I felt blessed.
When I woke up in the morning, I was pulled in by thoughts of him. My Twin Flame’s energy hovered over me. I smiled because it felt nice to wake up to a heart pulling from him.
The intense feeling of longing coupled with sadness has stuck with me all day. I know that it is him pulling me in. I am guessing he noticed energetically that I am feeling happy because of other people.
This is a great question. From my experience, the running and chasing is only a phase when Twin Flames are learning to embrace their shared energy of oneness.
The Twin Flame experience triggers you into a Spiritual Awakening and if you are not used to the intense energetic share, you feel confused and frustrated that you block your Twin Flame temporarily.
But also, once your energy improves and grows, you feel the energetic harmony with your Twin Flame.
Once I learned to embrace the shared energy of oneness with my Twin Flame, I completely left him alone and we started to talk every once in a while. I feel the maturity of my energy and I am more content with feeling the connection that obsessively chasing him to communicate with him.
I believe that once you start feeling the connection from the heart space, you relax and enjoy your bliss because it feels very authentic.
For me, the running and chasing phase taught me lessons that I needed to grow and advance further on the journey.
It was a trigger for the intense Spiritual Awakening phase and once I evolved into my authentic self, I felt happier than before and I started appreciating the blessings of the Twin Flame experience.
From my experience, the love keeps becoming purer and purer as the more both my Twin Flame, and I keep learning and growing from our Soul Lessons.
When we had first separated physically, it was total emotional turmoil because of the intensity of the feelings and emotions. As time has gone on for two years now, I have healed within myself, therefore, I feel the love connection strongly more than before.
This process of change that I have gone through has transformed me into a being who has the self-power to embody that unconditional love with my Twin Flame. I can freely embody our Twin Flame shared energy without fear. I am free and ready to embody unconditional love.
The love in our connection grows better every day into being unconditional, and overflowing infinitely. There is no stopping the love on this journey; it has been the driving force for all my healing.
Matter of fact, love is becoming uncontainable even if I have not physically been in the company of my Twin Flame for two years. I love my Twin Flame every day since the day I found him.
If I got a dollar for every time I have said goodbye to my Twin Flame and blocked them out of my life, I would be so rich. There is this one time I wrote to him about something sensitive and I opened my heart up to him and he was unresponsive — I fired him another stressed out message saying that he should stop following me on Instagram because I had already blocked him.
I wrote another final text saying the final goodbye to him that it was the end of us. It took me two months to stay away from him, and one day he liked one of my Instagram posts which made me realize that he was still following me even when I had asked him not to.
Once I saw his like, I immediately tried to unblock him. I tried to text him to say thanks for acknowledging that I saw his like.
Suddenly, all the love that I was resisting to feel broke open, and my heart was back to gushing love for him. It is difficult moving on from a Twin Flame.
One of the reasons why I ran from my Twin Flame was because I was overwhelmed by the intense feelings that the connection brought when we physically separated. I was constantly thinking of him and change became the only constant in my life.
Before I blocked him, I told him that I love him without any expectations and I was overwhelmed by the chaotic feelings that had come over me because my mind could not understand what my heart was feeling.
Even though I asked him not to talk to me, I was thinking of him daily and I could also have mental conversations with him in mind and sometimes I felt like our souls were whispering to each other.
Every time I closed my eyes, I could see his face, and my dreams were always filled with him.
I could not hide from the Twin Flame connection even though I was running from my Twin Flame and I was confused why the energetic merging escalated in intensity. I had to let the Twin Flame connection consume me as I accepted the new life that my Twin Flame encounter brought in my life and I accepted that I will always feel connected to him.
Once I accepted my Twin Flame, I embraced the constant mental conversations and the unending telepathic communication. I never feel alone even though we have been separated for three years, and I trust that he feels the same way because I can hear his thoughts.