When you are chasing a Twin Flame, your energy feels chaotic. You also think blocked. Since you are in the same energetic system, your Twin Flame partner feels emotional chaos. If they are also going through an energy purging phase, your chaotic emotions apply to her emotional pain. You are Yin and Yang to each other. When you finally Surrender and let your Twin Flame have his or her space, you feel the change in your shared energetic vibration. Your Twin Flame runner feels it too.
If nothing is chasing you, there is no reason to run. When you stop chasing, your divine partner realizes it too. When I blocked my Twin Flame, I was running from him. Then he seemed calm. I became nervous. I panicked. My running from him did not seem to bother him. It threw me into a series of agony and frustration. I started chasing him. My Twin Flame seemed happy and fine without me. He focused his energy on himself when I ran away from him. I was antagonized by his calmness. I thought that he was forgetting me. I missed him every day. I felt a void within me. I felt guilty for sabotaging our communication. I was naive about the Twin Flame experiences.
When you meet a Twin Flame, you have an imminent feeling that he or she is yours and you are theirs no matter what separates you. You see each other in a way that nobody else does. The more I ran from my Twin Flame, the more I was hit by the truth that soon or later, I will have to confront him and our uncomfortable situation. I also partly blocked him because I was still married. All in all a Twin Flame is like a beautiful curse; you live inside each other and you cannot escape the beautiful love connection no matter what you do to deny how you feel. You are the missing piece of the puzzle to each other.
There is a unique person created just for you. You have a perfect partner that is your equal match. A unique person that satisfies all your desires. Your Twin Flame is the one; your perfect mirror. When you meet a Twin Flame, you have an imminent knowing that you are destined to be together. You also feel a sacred eternal bond that affirms that you are meant to spend a lifetime in deep, passionate, everlasting love. After you meet a Twin Flame, you realize that they fill the void that you previously felt. You feel complete; you feel the energetic oneness. Your Twin Flame also is your perfect companion, lover, partner, best friend, guardian, and protector. You feel safe when you are around them. You trust the love connection even though you are physically separated. This book will guide you through the chaotic initial stages of the Twin Flame Awakening phase.
You fall in love many times with different people in life before you meet your Twin Flame. You even think that you have met the one true love of your life before you meet. You choose to settle; get married, have children, and build a life together. You believe that you have settled. You feel grateful for your life. You believe that the future will only get better. You work hard every day to achieve your dreams. You genuinely believe that you are happy. You believe that you know what you want from life. You believe in your upbringing, culture, traditions, and norms. You love your family and friends. You have big goals for the future.
One fateful day you wake. Everything seems normal; you have your day figured out as usual. You run into this person; you could have known them for a while – you never cared to know them. It could also be a stranger that you meet on the bus. You become inseparable forever. A Twin Flame encounter is surprising, shocking, and refreshing. Wherever you meet this person or however you meet, the initial encounter leaves you in awe! You feel thrilled to see the person again because there is something so refreshing about them. A Twin Flame friendship needs gratifying indeed. You feel the connection right away. It is more than just a spark — it is an inner knowing that you have arrived home. You feel like you were looking for a way back home. Your Twin Flame is your Home. When you meet a Twin Flame, you feel so eager to tell them everything about your life. You feel like you want to catch up from where you previously left off even though it is your first encounter in this lifetime. You feel an invigoration of your energy when you meet because you feel an energetic boost. You feel completed by their presence. You feel them occupy the empty side of your soul. You feel whole and content. A Twin Flame is the missing puzzle of your life.
I know that I will be back. This is not the first time I said goodbye to you and it is not the last. I know that I will be back. This is only temporary.
Every time I run from you, I learn different love lessons about myself and the world around me. I feel like there is meaning in my running actions; I discover parts of myself that I am running from. I need more time to face myself.
I hope that you will be here when I return — this is only temporary.
I know that there is nowhere else to run to; I have to find myself before I find you again. You are my home. I know that I can only be myself with you. You are my resting place.
You will always miss your Twin Flame because you are One in the soul and it takes time to get used to living life without them during the Separation phase.
You have to find ways to accumulate happiness and joy in your life so that you can keep living your life.
Find friends who are experiencing the Twin Flame journey to inspire you to stay positive. Talking to friends helps to release any stress that you are feeling and you will feel understood by them because they know how you feel.
Channel the Twin Flame love that you feel into something meaningful. When you finally heal and become your authentic self, you start vibrating at a high frequency energetically and you feel unconditional love within you. Use your talents and skills to channel the unconditional love into something that can uplift and heal the human collective.
Embrace Solitude: Always reserve moments of Quality time throughout the day so that you can get to know yourself. Learn to feel happy without Twin Flame because happiness grows within you. Embracing Solitude allows you time to meditate and feel your Twin Flame’s love through the heart space.
Do physical exercise whenever you feel energetically bogged. It can be as simple as taking walks in nature or going to the gym. You can also teach yourself how to do yoga and other home exercises using an app or by joining free online sessions.
Journal your feelings — writing about how you feel is a therapeutic experience because you release all the stress.
To a degree, you have experienced the dark night of the soul experience to some degree at a certain point in your life whether you have been triggered into the Twin Flame Awakening process or not. We are all Spiritual Beings going through a Human Experience.
If you have not yet experienced it, you will one day get triggered by an incident in your life: In extreme cases, some people are triggered by dear death experiences — you start to question your life situation and the nature of your wellbeing. You embark on a journey of enlightenment; you crave to align yourself with things and people who vibrate at a higher positive energetic vibration.
When you go through a Spiritual Awakening of any kind, you seek peace, authenticity, truth, and happiness. You wake up to your life situation — you seek a life of purpose. You feel like you have a chance to relive your life. You explore the universe within you.
My life is filled with simple joys, I have learned to take care of myself. For once, I prompted myself to go dancing and I had so much fun last night.
It has been an amazing journey rediscovering my authentic self. The more I invite happiness in my life, the more I feel the energy merge with my Twin Flame. Our shared energy is soothing to me that I feel euphoric feelings of bliss.
Once you energetically merge with your Twin Flame, they never leave you. It is up to you to learn to deal with the oneness. You feel bound together for eternity.
Now I realize that when I was running from my Twin Flame, I was resisting the oneness. I was afraid of what I would feel — I was afraid of accepting the connection.
Should Twin Flames interact with each other if both are married? I struggle to resist sending him a message or even calling him up. We do not meet and have never touched each other. And never will.
I can relate to your situation because I was the married one when I encountered my Twin Flame. We instantly became best friends with my Twin Flame, and I felt this uncanny feeling of familiarity — it was like I had met him from another life before. The bond that we share became deeper and stronger every day and the energy shares with my Twin Flame is mind-blowing.
For us, we hugged and kissed on the cheek but nothing sexually intimate but having my Twin Flame in my life filled me up with so much joy and happiness that originated from the soul.
My Twin Flame respected my marriage and his friend that I had been married for over 5 years. It is strange how my Twin Flame had been in the background of my life since I met my husband but we had never met yet we both heard stories about each other in passing.
After we physically separated, my Twin Flame wanted us to talk whenever we wanted but I was experiencing all sorts of chaotic emotions within myself. I was consumed by the unconditional love that I feel for him and I missed him so much yet we couldn’t be together at that time since I was still married. I was also feeling guilty for having such a deep bond with my Twin Flame yet I didn’t feel it for my husband.
I had to tell him how I feel about him — when I told him about my feelings, I also asked him to stay away from me because I was overwhelmed by my feelings for him.
He felt uncomfortable as well by what I told him because it was a complicated situation for both of us to love each other unconditionally yet we had so many blockages between us that would hinder any possibilities of being together.
My Twin Flame said that it was best for everybody if we didn’t talk and this blew a hole in my heart.
The truth is that my Twin Flame never denied our feelings for each other — I already know how he feels for me because of the way we look deep into each other’s eyes.
Physical separation and not being able to talk to my Twin Flame has been the most challenging experience of my life. I think of him every second of the day, I dream of him every night since I found him and I am always remembering the memories that we shared during our initial encounter.
I see his eyes when I close my eyes and his essence embraces me every day — We have been in physical separation for over two years without seeing each other but I love him more and more every day. I feel the energy merge with my Twin Flame.
Physical separation has also been a blessing to me because I have had the time to face myself and heal the inner wounds within myself. I have found self-love and my authentic self.
I divorced my husband right after I physically separated from my Twin Flame and I didn’t tell him about it until I had found peace and harmony within myself. I wrote to him a very long letter to explain the awakening and healing that I went through.
My advice, you have free will to choose to either stay in your marriage or embark on changing your life so that you can free yourself to be with your Twin Flame. None of these choices is easy because either way, you will still experience the Spiritual aspect of the Twin Flame journey and you will go through all the phases of change within yourself because once you encounter your Twin Flame, you know right from the start that your life will change.
I hope that my perspective helps you with your question.
I have been through the runner/chaser phase and I was the runner at first and I have also experienced the Surrender phase as well — I was also married too when I met my Twin Flame.
I understand you completely when you say that you need a break from communication because that is what happened to me as well. I was so exhausted from the long-distance Twin Flame relationship and I needed to also fix my marriage situation.
It is okay to feel like you are running from the connection with your Twin Flame because the truth is that there is nowhere to hide from the connection that you feel because you will always feel connected to your Twin Flame.
From my experience, you are neither running or surrendering yet because those experiences are completely two different things.
For someone who met their Twin Flame when I was married, I felt like I was emotionally cheating on my husband if I continued to talk to my Twin Flame during physical separation.
I ran away from the connection and blocked my Twin Flame because I had inner wounds and insecurities to work on within myself.
I encourage you to first separate your Twin Flame relationship from your marriage — and this means making the hardest decisions of either separating from your marriage to have a life with your Twin Flame or keep your Twin Flame out of your marriage to keep your marriage going.
If you don’t want to feel like a runner, talk to your Twin Flame about it and also ask him to give you the space that you need. You are already best friends with your Twin Flame and that means you are able to talk freely with each other.
The bond that you share with your Twin Flame will still be intact whether you are separated from each other or not because I have been through physical separation too for over two years.
When I went through this, I had underlying core wounding, past pain, and personal fear that my Twin Flame reflected me which caused a repulsion between us because he had his issues to work through. – 11:11 – Awakening.
I completely understand how you feel but the good news is that that phase passes as you work on healing whatever issues you need to work on.
My self-fears caused me to put up a resistance against the love that I feel for my Twin Flame and I ended up running away from the connection but of course, running doesn’t work because it only intensifies the pain, fears, and separation anxiety.
Just because you encounter your Twin Flame, it doesn’t mean that you will Accept everything about your experience.
Since everything happens so fast, and intensely, it is okay to take a step back to analyze your situation. It takes some time to absorb the chaos involved in the Twin Flame process because everything about it is disruptive.
For you to Surrendercompletely end let everything flow as it is supposed to, you must accept your Twin Flame partner, your Twin Flame experience, and yourself. Once you accept, you stop resisting your connection and the Twin Flame’s love and vice versa.
Twin Flame Fears I hope that my experience helps you with your question. Blessings!
