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How do you cope with the pain of physical separation from your Twin Flame then?

Soothe yourself with all the beautiful memories that you remember about yourself and your Twin Flame. For me, I remember every moment that I shared with my Twin Flame when I feel lonely.

When you meet your Twin Flame for the first time during the bubble love phase, 

What helps with remembering these beautiful memories is when I remember the “bubble love” phase which was our initial encounter, the energy, the passion, the intensity of our bond, and the acts of kindness and empathy that we do for each other, I feel happy instantly no matter how depressing the current mood is.

Having said all that, it is not easy to stay immersed in these memories because self-doubt will creep in all the time, and this is why I gave you those two perspectives above for you to have an idea of what self-doubt does to me.

You will go back and forth between having hope, and having doubt until you learn to purge all the fears within yourself that keep you in a low-energy vibe. Sometimes you may think that you are healed but it is okay to be triggered into feeling fear and pain again because all that pain has to be healed.

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How is the attraction between you and your Twin Flame?

Twin Flame love is effortless, and the attraction is natural because of soul intimacy and energetic oneness.

When you meet your Twin Flame for the first time, you feel an uncanny familiarity because of the eternal bond.

When you are in the same room with your Twin Flame, you cannot take your eyes off each other, and the energetic merging that you both feel intensifies the attraction.

It is more than a physical attraction between the Twin Flames because you feel connected energetically, and emotionally and the love connection gets deeper the more you get to know each other.

When you hug your Twin Flame, bliss washes over you and you feel all the inner pain dissipate.

Twin Flame love brings you endless joy, bliss, and inner harmony.

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Can an existing person be your twin flame if they are married or in another committed relationship?

Yes. I feel bad for my twin flame. He walked into my life while I was still married. Oh, God! It was so much torture for him for we both did not know what was going on between us. We could not understand why we couldn’t stay away from each other. If we were not in the same room, we were always texting each other.

Do not get me wrong, we were not sexually intimate or anything. Our connection was more sacred than just physical sexual satisfaction. I feel like a twin flame has nothing to do with sexual intimacy — Anyone can do that with you.

Meeting a twin flame is like meeting yourself in another person. Your mirror — this person shows you your weaknesses. Your faults, fears, and, insecurities. At the same time, a twin flame also shows you the best parts of yourself and that you are inspired to become that person. Your highest best possible self. Your authentic version.

When a twin flame is married, they think of you as much as you think of him or her. It feels like emotional cheating — this is one of the reasons why a married twin flame runs or cuts you off.

You have to respect their need for space. When you respect your twin flame situation and you choose to focus on yourself, your life transforms magically. Also, your married twin flame goes through so many changes as well.

Soon or later, there will be a time for reconciliation.

I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed!

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HOW DOES A TWIN FLAME CHASER FEEL?

Almost every Twin Flame has been through this phase. You never expect the situation to get complicated the way it does. No matter how much you try to control the chaos that follows suit, your efforts are fruitless.

The journey takes its course with uncontrollable changes that transform each Twin Flame forever.

The running or chasing behavior exists to expose the fears and pain that exist within each Twin Flame.

If you are the chaser, you feel consumed by the love connection; you obsessively need to be in close contact with your divine partner.

At the same time, your partner is irritated by your actions. They try different ways to avoid you because you trigger uncomfortable feelings within them.

The similarity is that both Twin Flames are inhibiting fears of different sorts. The fears repel each other in so many different ways: Ever wonder why small fights are exaggerated with your Twin Flame? Why do you feel explosive feelings when you are with them?

When you are around your Twin Flame, they provoke inner fears and insecurities within. You feel like you are walking on eggshells. You feel a sense of vulnerability all the time.

Sometimes you feel afraid to scare them off but you eventually do. The more you fear losing someone, the then you end up doing the exact thing.

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What side of your body do you feel your Twin Flame energetically?

I thought that I was going crazy when I experienced the energetic merge with my Twin Flame. Every emotion felt very strong, intense, and confusing. 

The emotional chaos happened because I was confused as to why I was feeling my Twin Flame’s energy merging with mine all the time.

When I was new to understanding the dynamics of the Twin Flame energetic merge, I could feel my Twin Flame’s energy taking over the left side of my body.

I thought that it was very strange that I felt that way.

The energetic merging did not stop and it changed my feelings, thoughts, and emotions. I felt like my essence was merging with my Twin Flame’s essence continuously.

And, I now know that my Twin Flame’s energy did not only take over the right side of my body but as we kept merging energetically, the shared energy took over.

When the shared energy of Oneness took me over, I stopped feeling as if I am a singular person and I started to feel as if we are two people living in one body.

I always feel my Twin Flame’s energy but now I do not feel any distinction between his energy and mine. 

I always feel like I am him. 

Twin Flames are One in the Soul and Essence.

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Is it normal that your twin flame doesn’t care about your birthday? We are in separation right now. And before we were in separation he wished me on my birthday. I was so hurt by this. After that, we still don’t have contact.

You have to stop stressing about what your Twin Flame is not doing for you and focus on making yourself happy because life is short — every moment that you live, you must embrace it with an open heart whether your Twin Flame is talking to you or not.

More blessings come with the Twin Flame journey and inner happiness is one of them but you have to train yourself to achieve the inner balance.

I also stopped categorizing my Twin Flame experiences like the everyday relationship drama; you choose either to believe the connection that you feel or focus on what your mind keeps telling you.

From my experiences, I used to always wish him a happy birthday for two years but he never texted, emailed, or called me and I used to feel infuriated by his inaction once I stopped stressing about his behaviors, I learned that every year a week before my birthday, he would call a mutual friend who is closest to me so that he would know every detail about my birthday plans.

This year, I was very compelled to reach out to him and say happy birthday and I restrained myself every time I got the urge to send a text message or email.

But, the Twin Flame journey is divinely guided and no matter how much you try to resist what your Soul craves, you end up doing it anyway but not in the way you expect — All the happenings on my Twin Flame journey have been beyond my expectations.

5 days after his birthday, I still had the urge to talk to him to know if he had a special day and I wanted him to know that I think of him.

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An event happened to a mutual friend of ours and I was suddenly triggered to write a quick email to him which ended up being over 10 paragraphs of just talking to him and asking him if he had a great birthday!

He did not reply but he ended up calling home a day later for 3 hours just talking about his life and asking about mine.

Once you meet your Twin Flame, you have to accept change but also you have to give up any expectations out of your connection and focus on enjoying your blessings.

Stay Blessed!

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What is the one way to stay Positive with high energetic vibrations when your mind goes in disbelief of how special you are to feel the Twin Flame Connection especially when your heart and mind conflict with each other during separation?

Also, the Twin Flame journey is not about knowing how your Twin Flame feels for you but rather, it is about you knowing how happy you make your Twin Flame.

Every time I look at my Twin Flame, I smile because he is happy with how I make him feel. We always end up creating positive vibrations and we heal each other’s pain by doing acts of kindness to each other.

We are so empathetic with each other that we end up anticipating each other’s needs; meeting a Twin Flame is like meeting a Forever best friend tethered to your Soul.

I miss my Twin especially because I crave the peace and bliss we bring to each other —— finally my Soul said; “Yes, I am Home!”

We always whispered to each other; Thank you for being here! Thank you for being you!

You are love bound with your Twin Flame. and it is the reason why you must keep your energy positive and in high vibrations because it affects your Twin Flame as well whether you are together or separated physically.

Always remember how happy, energetically vibrant, and free you make your Twin Flame.

When you get low in energy and doubtful of your Twin Flame’s love, just focus on knowing that you are the best thing that ever happened to them and they appreciate feeling happy because of meeting you.

Your Twin Flame misses you because of how you accept and acknowledge their love.

Stay Blessed!

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How do you enjoy the twin flame separation phase?

The first phase of physical separation is the toughest. You do not think that you will get through it but you eventually do. You go through phases of emotional pain night and day. Crying your pain out of your system seems to be the only thing that can help you to feel better.

During the good days, you channel the connection. You acknowledge the bliss that you feel when you think of him or her. You indeed believe how you feel.

During your bad days, you cry like a baby because nothing seems to ease the pain of missing a Twin Flame. You wish you never met him or her.

During your worst days, you try to find exotic ways to disconnect from how you feel. You block your Twin Flame. You try to run into new relationships. You try to adopt habits like drinking just to forget how you feel.

The good news is that this phase is very chaotic but it initiates your healing phase. You reach a point when you want the pain that you feel to go away. It does not go away. You get used to feeling the chaotic emotions.

My advice is simple: This helped me to feel better.

  • You are your own best friend

If you have been chasing your Twin Flame, you know that no matter how much you contact him or her, the pain does not go away. You have to accept that whatever chaotic emotions you are feeling are because of the pain that you carry within. You have to first fix yourself. There is a good reason why being separated from Twin Flames hurts you. Love exists to heal you and not to make you frustrated. You have to break down all the walls that you have built against love.

  • Embrace a life of solitude

Every authentic Twin Flame will tell you that a Twin Flame encounter is not all about having a physical relationship. It is much deeper than that. Matter of fact, once you separate from a Twin Flame, your perspective of love, relationships, sex, and intimacy changes. You gain a new appreciation for falling in love. Your Twin Flame also spoils having connections with a non-Twin Flame.

Being celibate after meeting a Twin Flame is not by choice. It just happens to you. So, embrace it!

  • Do not look for outside validation

It is okay to research your Twin Flame condition. It is not okay to try to make other people justify how you feel. You already know how you feel within.

Be guided by your intuition — trust the connection that you feel. Believe in the bond that you share. Believe in the authenticity of your connection because only you understand what is going on.

It is worse when you look for answers from people who are not going through the Twin Flame experiences. You will be regarded as obsessive. Crazy. Unhinged. Desperate. Etc.

  • Last but not least — Ground yourself in your Twin Flame energy

This was the most difficult thing for me to do but once I got a hang of it, my life changed magically.

Grounding in your energy begins with accepting how you feel. Your old life will never come back — you will forever be changed alchemically.

The encounter changes you psychologically, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

One truth that is common to every Twin Flame is that you feel a rise in your energetic vibrations once you merge. You feel like your energy is not yours — like you downloaded into each other.

You must learn to preserve your energy: surround yourself with positive vibes. Spend time alone to meditate. Meditating heals you. Bring inner harmony to you. Meditation also improves your telepathic abilities.

I hope that this simple book helps you with your Twin Flame journey.

Stay Blessed!

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Does the runner twin flame feel the chaser surrender? 

Yes, the runner Twin Flame feels it when the chaser Surrenders; A simple example happened to me almost a month ago.

I hadn’t heard from him in over 6 months and usually, he keeps in touch somehow to signal me that he still exists.

I know my Twin Flame the way I know myself — when I go quiet, he worries that I have abandoned him. He has major abandonment issues to work on.

Sometimes he misses me chasing him; he is doing it lately.

A mutual friend says that he has been calling lately asking about my new life situation. I am happy; I feel safe within myself. I am not stressed about him at all.

I have been practicing staying grounded in my energy when I miss him. I meditate instead of feeling sad. I feel happier embracing our connection with an open heart instead of resisting the feelings.

Ever since I focused on healing my energy and minding my own business, my Twin Flame keeps popping back into my life.

Two years ago when he popped back, I would be triggered into another Chasing cycle.

I am now happy without him and I know that he feels it because our connection feels more intense than before; I feel him constantly pulling me into the connection.

The other day, I wrote him a warm simple message for his birthday. I feel so proud of myself because I don’t feel obsessed with him yet I love him with all my heart.

The runner definitely feels the chaser Surrender!

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Why would a reunion with a twin flame seem impossible?

From my experience, a reunion is impossible due to some of the following reasons:

  • Refusal to change and grow — I struggled with accepting the changes that my Twin Flame had triggered in my life. Life became worse before it became before. I experienced so much emotional chaos. It manifested in my physical life situation and I could not see how easily I would surmount the obstacles especially since I was married. I felt overpowered by my pain. I was afraid of what my friends would think if I abruptly left my marriage. I was afraid of being judged by my choices. I cared so much about what society would think that I was crippled with fear.
  • Feeling stuck in dysfunctional Karmic relationships — Every time I tried to figure out how to amicably dissolve my karmic ties, I was always pulled back into the estranged dysfunctional relationship. I felt like I was going in circles without a way out. I felt caught up in my mind. I almost gave up on leaving my marriage especially when my Twin Flame stopped talking to me. I was afraid of ending up alone in case my Twin Flame found someone else.

It takes courage and inner strength to have faith in your Twin Flame process. You have to keep an open heart. Trust love. Trust your Twin Flame and believe in your blessings.

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