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In the twin flame journey, how do I focus on myself? How do I align with my soul? Does it mean start doing things in the 3D that make me feel complete/fulfilled, things that I’m drawn to doing but never dared to do?

Self-Love is the process of growing your own Personal Power at your core to stay stable, strong, and grounded in yourself; your energy, emotions, thoughts, and feelings.

As you work on staying grounded in your Personal Power, the process of self-love will lead you to discover your true authentic self. Self Love is a process that also empowers you to redefine your life by setting healthy boundaries to what makes you happy and what does not.

Everything you create and discover in this Twin Flame process is all about you as an individual; the other half of the soul. The Twin Flame Journey takes place inside the individual Twin Flames whose shared energy must come to a place of balance and harmony within both partners.

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Having personal power grows your emotional immunity to stay balanced in harmony and peace within. The more you ground your energy at the core the more you are stable enough to keep your emotions, feelings, and thoughts at bay. Once you master how to take care of yourself from within, the benefits will manifest physically in your life.

Your self-esteem and personal confidence go through the roof. Once you discover who you truly are and what you are capable of, you realize that you are so capable of so much more than you thought before.

You acknowledge your responsibility as an individual and you start working towards a meaningful life goal or mission. This is because you discover that you have so much love within yourself to share with the whole human collective.

Self Love also opens your heart to experience love by being open to loving others and you accept being loved back in return. Here, you can accept unconditional love in yourself and express it to others and vice versa.

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When a Twin Flame runner has sex with other people, does it change how they feel for you?

I am the Twin Flame runner and I will not deny that sometimes you get lonely, and you just want some action in your life.

It is natural to crave intimacy and it relieves the stress of missing a Twin Flame temporarily.

But, that being said, nothing can change how you feel for a Twin Flame and the more you stay separated, the more you wonder if the pain of missing a Twin Flame will ever dissipate. 

The more you make love to other people, the more nostalgic you get and you feel numb to other people.

Dating other people feels meaningless because of the soul intimacy that you share with your Twin Flame.

You also do not get sexually satisfied if you choose to be intimate with other people and the more you do it, the more helpless you feel because it reminds you of the void that you feel because of missing a Twin Flame.

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When you meet your Twin Flame, your life not only changes but also changes how you feel about everything.

It is easy to find someone to mate with but it is not easy to replace the Twin Flame connection.

Also, since you feel the astral sexual intimacy with your Twin Flame, it fills you up and satisfies you more than just the physical intimacy with someone else.

Every time you make love to someone new, you wonder how great it will feel with your Twin Flame, and every time you are with someone who is not your Twin Flame, you feel very lonely.

I choose to stay away from relationships with other people for now.

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How does the runner in the twin flame realize the connection if not aware of it?

The runner Twin Flame is always aware of the connection and they feel it deeply. During the initial encounter, both Twin Flames acknowledge that what they are experiencing is something unique. They both realize how important they are to each other and they acknowledge how deep the bond is.

Always Connected in Soul: When I was running from him, I FELT everything! From energetic attacks to channeling my Twin Flame’s fears. I was hurting on a daily.

It is the aftermath of the encounter that pushes the Twin Flames to wake up to the reality of the connection that it is not something ordinary but rather a love that is unconditional and bigger than them.

Even if both Twin Flames have no idea what Twin Flames are, it does not matter who is labeled as the chaser or the runner — whoever is ready to learn more about the encounter is braver than the other.

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If a Twin Flame like me did not grow up in a setting of love — I ran from my Twin Flame because I felt vulnerable, overwhelmed, and scared of feeling such intense unconditional love.

I was used to being in control of my life but my Twin Flame encounters got me by surprise without any warning; I let him into my heart unconditionally and he broke down all my walls of fear, pain, and insecurity.

Separation from my Twin Flame allowed me to transform my life for the best even though I missed him all the time, and I craved to be next to him.

I needed a time-out from my Twin Flame so that I could assess my condition. I told him first that I love him because I trust that we both feel the same way about each other.

Some people mistake having awareness about the Twin Flame experience with having acknowledgment of the Twin Flame connection.

Twin Flames acknowledge their Sacred bond once they understand how important they are to each other even though they have no idea what the Twin Flame phenomenon is.

Twin Flame Chaser Pain: Why do Twin Flames Run? It is very painful trying to keep up with a Twin Flame runner.

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Does having sex with others slow down twin flame reunions?

Yes of course! Look, you either choose your Twin Flame or you don’t but you can’t have it both ways.

Karmic Partners: When I met m Twin Flame, I lost interest in dating others. I have been celibate for over two years since I met him.

The same applies to normal relationships; You either commit or not and there is a difference in whatever choice that you make.

Imagine if you are a Twin Flame and your partner sleeps with others, would you rush to be with them? — No! — You would assume that they moved on.

Physical separation is the test of Twin Flame’s unconditional love. Here is why?

You will have doubts as to whether they are your divine partner or not. You will also trust them less if they don’t have the patience to wait for you.

Secondly, I believe that sleeping with others while you are going through a Twin Flame connection bogs down your energy in the connection.

Imagine waking up in someone else’s bed when you are tormented by your Twin Flame’s energy? It will complicate the situation for you.

Twin Flame Awakening is a SACRED experience — you are transformed for the best.

From my past experiences, having sex with others entangles your auras with others. Every time you have sex with someone, you take energy from them.

The Twin Flame connection is about clearing energy and karma — I believe that sleeping with others only taints your point which slows down your healing.

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How does a twin flame feel when they have a long-term partner? 

The moment you meet your Twin Flame, you gain a paradigm shift: Automatically, you realize that there are many levels of loving someone.

My Twin Flame asked me one day during our deep conversations; he said, “Do you love your husband?” I responded, “Yes. But, there are many types of love.”

I know for sure how complicated it gets if you have a joint business with your life partner. The obstacles seem insurmountable if you have children involved. I understand why some Twin Flames choose a Karmic partner over their divine lover because you go through very excruciating situations to clear the path to a harmonious reunion.

I told my Twin Flame that I was going to separate from my husband because I was unhappy. I had been unhappy for a long time over 3 years. I could not recognize the man I married — he gave up on himself and his dreams — I realized that he didn’t have any dreams at all!

When my Twin Flame walked into my life, he shed light on all my problems. It is like I had gotten a new set of fresh eyes and I could see myself and my situation from a fresh perspective.

I realized that I was holding onto a marriage that did not exist anymore. I was living a facade life pretending to all my friends and family members that I was perfect. I was dying inside; I cried myself to sleep almost every night.

When my Twin Flame walked into my life, I knew right away that I had found a home but I also knew that it would take me a while to fix my issues if I wanted to have a chance with him.

I was not in any rush to be with him; I felt content that he is mine and he will always be.

It has been three years of overcoming one obstacle after the other. Some days have been tougher than others. Some changes have changed me in the process.

It isn’t funny how the Universe works — I am preparing myself to move to his hometown and I haven’t told him yet.

I feel my life is re-aligning with his because we have unfinished business.

He has been calling lately and he does it when I pull him into the connection through my heart space.

Stay Blessed!

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Why is the love for your twin flame so strong? 

Strong is an understatement. I thought that I had loved it before but I guess I was wrong. Every relationship that I had before I met my Twin Flame was a lesson in itself to prepare me to embrace the divine connection.

There is nothing as sweet and potent as ate in Flame love. You feel all the broken parts within you come together as you heal. It washes all the emotional dirt within you that you carried for years.

The feeling of home; your safe place — you feel acknowledged and accepted even though you don’t say a word to each other. You have another dimension to your energetic bubble. You can both escape the room without leaving because you have a Spiritual connection. You talk without saying a word. I love it when this happens!

When you meet a Twin flame, you know right away that your search is over. You relax because you know that no one will ever love you as a Twin Flame does.

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How does a twin flame feel when they have a long-term partner?

The moment you meet your Twin Flame, you gain a paradigm shift: Automatically, you realize that there are many levels of loving someone.
My Twin Flame asked me one day during our deep conversations; he said, “Do you love your husband?” I responded, “Yes. But, there are many types of love.”

I know for sure how complicated it gets if you have a joint business with your life partner. The obstacles seem insurmountable if you have children involved. I understand why some Twin Flames choose a Karmic partner over their divine lover because you go through very excruciating situations to clear the path to a harmonious reunion.
I told my Twin Flame that I was going to separate from my husband because I was unhappy. I had been unhappy for a long time over 3 years. I could not recognize the man I married — he gave up on himself and his dreams — I realized that he didn’t have any dreams at all!

When my Twin Flame walked into my life, he shed light on all my problems. It is like I had gotten a new set of fresh eyes and I could see myself and my situation from a fresh perspective.
I realized that I was holding onto a marriage that did not exist anymore. I was living a facade life pretending to all my friends and family members that I was perfect. I was dying inside; I cried myself to sleep almost every night.
When my Twin Flame walked into my life, I knew right away that I had found a home but I also knew that it would take me a while to fix my issues if I wanted to have a chance with him.

I was not in any rush to be with him; I felt content that he is mine and he will always be.
It has been three years of overcoming one obstacle after the other. Some days have been tougher than others. Some changes have changed me in the process. It isn’t funny how the Universe works — I am preparing myself to move to his hometown and I haven’t told him yet.

I feel my life is re-aligning with his because we have unfinished business.
He has been calling lately and he does it when I pull him into the connection through my heart space.
Stay Blessed!

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What advice can be given to younger twin flames, such as teenagers spiritually awakening from their twin?

  • Meeting a Twin Flame is like a beautiful curse because you are always haunted by thoughts of them after the initial encounter and the connection that you feel to them does not dissipate or fade but rather it keeps growing within you every day.
  • If it is the first time meeting your Twin Flame, inner peace washes over you and you start to feel happy because it triggers a new positive vibration within you – you instantly feel like your Twin Flame has downloaded their conscience into yours and vice versa. You feel an uncanny familiarity and you keep wondering where you know that person from before — sometimes the familiarity feels like you lived a past life together yet it is your first time meeting your Twin Flame.
  • You will always miss your Twin Flame every minute of the day, and even though you are not consciously thinking of them, your soul is pulled towards them like a magnet because of the Soul intimacy that you share – you sometimes feel a physical heart-pulling when you are both thinking about of each other.
  • The void that you feel during the physical separation phase cannot be filled with anything but the Twin Flame love and the easiest way to manage to fill the emptiness is by growing self-love within you: Missing a Twin Flame is like missing a piece of yourself and embracing self-love fills you up with feelings of unconditional love and you feel like you are learning yourself in return.
  • Change is the only constant on the Twin Flame journey and it is important to accept all the changes that happen in your life. You will transform, evolve, and grow into the authentic version of yourself soon or later.
  • There is no shortcut to experiencing the Twin Flame journey; you will have to go through challenging situations, learn very difficult lessons of unconditional love and evolve into the authentic version of yourself.
  • You have no control over the matter when you meet your Twin Flame while they are married. Do not feel frustrated when you do not get what you want right away.
  • Also, there is no guarantee that you will end up together with your Twin Flame if you divorce your karmic partner but, you will have to go through all the changes that your Twin Flame triggers in your life.
  • Your Twin Flame will find it very uncomfortable when you say that you love them yet you seem to be committed to your marriage because of your marital obligations. You have no control over how they respond to your situation so do not feel frustrated. If they love you, they will wait for you.
  • Be ready to be judged and scorned when you make the needed changes in your life so that you can be with your Twin Flame because you will have to change so that you can have a chance to be with your Twin Flame. The Twin Flame experience will change your life so that you can be authentic in every aspect of it.
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Why do I keep seeing signs, names, and repeated numbers that remind me of my Twin Flame?

Of course, you are going to see these numbers and your Twin Flame’s name and everything that reminds you of them but it depends on what kind of emotions and feelings that you have when you attach meanings to these coincidences.

From my experience, don’t let the synchronicities tell you what to believe or what to feel, but instead, attach your meanings to them that relate to your Twin Flame experience — for example, if you see 11:11, you can attach a positive meaning to it relating to your Twin Flame and so that every time you see 11:11, you feel good and motivated to keep doing the great work on your journey.

For me when I see 11:11, I send love, and gratitude to my Twin Flame instead of spending all my energy trying to figure out what the Universe is saying to me through 11:11.

Lastly, I always remember the specific moments when my Twin Flame expressed his genuine love towards me; for example, my Twin Flame and I both acknowledge the intense feelings that we both feel when we look into each other’s eyes. Therefore, when I am feeling doubtful, I remember moments when he looked into my eyes and affirmed something to me like, when he was saying goodbye to me, we both locked our gazes until he disappeared into the distance. I never forgot this memory.

I remember his reactions to my presence every time I walked into the room where he was, I remember the first time we held hands and he did not want to let go yet I was married, I remember our first hug when he embraced me — and I remember his respect for me and how much he trusts me.

Soothe yourself with all these good memories with your Twin Flame, and wear them like an amour every time self-doubt kicks in.

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How do you cope with the pain of physical separation from your Twin Flame then?

Soothe yourself with all the beautiful memories that you remember about yourself and your Twin Flame. For me, I remember every moment that I shared with my Twin Flame when I feel lonely.

When you meet your Twin Flame for the first time during the bubble love phase, 

What helps with remembering these beautiful memories is when I remember the “bubble love” phase which was our initial encounter, the energy, the passion, the intensity of our bond, and the acts of kindness and empathy that we do for each other, I feel happy instantly no matter how depressing the current mood is.

Having said all that, it is not easy to stay immersed in these memories because self-doubt will creep in all the time, and this is why I gave you those two perspectives above for you to have an idea of what self-doubt does to me.

You will go back and forth between having hope, and having doubt until you learn to purge all the fears within yourself that keep you in a low-energy vibe. Sometimes you may think that you are healed but it is okay to be triggered into feeling fear and pain again because all that pain has to be healed.

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