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How do you cope with the pain of physical separation from your Twin Flame then?

Soothe yourself with all the beautiful memories that you remember about yourself and your Twin Flame. For me, I remember every moment that I shared with my Twin Flame when I feel lonely.

When you meet your Twin Flame for the first time during the bubble love phase, 

What helps with remembering these beautiful memories is when I remember the “bubble love” phase which was our initial encounter, the energy, the passion, the intensity of our bond, and the acts of kindness and empathy that we do for each other, I feel happy instantly no matter how depressing the current mood is.

Having said all that, it is not easy to stay immersed in these memories because self-doubt will creep in all the time, and this is why I gave you those two perspectives above for you to have an idea of what self-doubt does to me.

You will go back and forth between having hope, and having doubt until you learn to purge all the fears within yourself that keep you in a low-energy vibe. Sometimes you may think that you are healed but it is okay to be triggered into feeling fear and pain again because all that pain has to be healed.

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Why did a little fight between me and my twin flame cause separation, and could this fight lead to years of separation? 

You must be freaking out right now! To be honest, if you ask me why I am not on speaking terms with my Twin Flame, none of us has a good reason why.

He would probably tell you it is because I made him feel uncomfortable when I told him that I love him. He knows it. I know it. We all know it but he made a huge deal out of it like he always does. He bounces back when he learns a few lessons.

If you ask me why we don’t talk, it is because we met when I was married to his friend and I asked him not to choose sides because he was stuck in a very uncomfortable situation.

He walked into my life when I was going through a personal crisis. Apart from an estranged marriage, I started questioning the meaning of my life.

I needed some sort of Spiritual healing — I felt disconnected from my inner child and hence felt disconnected from the world around me.

I blocked him first after I expressed my feelings for him. I felt relieved because I knew that at least he knows how I feel.

I feel like life is bringing us back together like the beginning of our encounter — everything is real and manifesting so fast.

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What is the benefit of letting go of my runner twin flame?

Well, lots of benefits; you have to be brave to let go. You go through a lot of trying moments to finally let your Twin Flame be the person he or she is.
Here are some benefits of letting go:

Inner peace and harmony — the moment you feel a hint of harmony within, you realize that you have the inner power to Surrender. You finally accept the situation the way it is and trust that everything will be alright without your control.

The running and chasing phase evokes intense feelings within you. When you finally Surrender, you give yourself to heal trauma and core wounding. The reason why you pursue the runner is that you assume that your Twin Flame can save you from yourself but you later realize that you are the answer to healing your pain.
The runner on the other hand needs to go through his healing. Surrender allows her or him to grow an appreciation for your connection. Remember that he or she can only run that far.

Surrender is a graceful phase of the journey — you free yourself of fear. You realize that there is freedom in letting go.

Why are twin flame runners vulnerable and open at the beginning, then act like it’s no big deal later down the line, after the initial bubble phase?
I know what you mean: From my running experiences, the runner goes through a phase of aftershock. He or she does not believe what just happened to them as if your love connection puts them in a high or a daze.
He or she does not believe that they could be that vulnerable. You feel exposed to your divine lover.
A Twin Flame walks into your heart and breaks down all your walls. If you were not used to feeling vulnerable .org feeling loved unconditionally, you completely shit down.]

Life as you know it changes dramatically overnight. You go through a series of emotional cleansing.
Even though you are not a Spiritual person, you go through an accelerated Awakening.
You transform from the inside to the outside — your soul growth ripples into your life situation.
You manifest abundance and success because you’re shared energy is empowering. You are energized to pursue your wildest dreams.
Twin Flame Love is beautiful!

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Do you miss your Twin Flame all the time?

Last night, I had a great evening doing all the things that make me happy. I had quality me-time and I barely felt compelled to think of my Twin Flame.

I have a friend who is trying to be close to me and we both have so much in common.

When I woke up, I felt like a part of me was missing because it felt like I was ignoring my Twin Flame Connection since I did not focus on feeling the connection.

I missed feeling the intense connection and I instantly started thinking of him.

When I try to resist the connection or block thoughts of my Twin Flame, I feel disconnected from within.

The Twin Flame Connection is a natural aspect of myself that I cannot send.

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What do you do when you feel the urge to reach out to your Twin Flame yet the situation is awkward?

This is a Twin Flame dilemma because it is not easy to suppress the urges when you feel compelled to reach out to your Twin Flame even though they don’t want to talk to you.

For me, when I get the urge to reach out to him, I do it because every aspect of the Twin Flame journey is divinely guided.

Every time you feel the compulsion to reach out to your Twin Flame, there is an important reason why the universe is always trying to align you with your Twin Flame.

After going through the Twin Flame journey for almost three years, I now understand that there will never be perfect timing for anything to happen especially the fact you have no control over how events unfold during your journey.

What matters the most is the kind of message that you intend to send to your Twin Flame.

Also don’t have any expectations of how your Twin Flame will respond to your message.

If you send love to your Twin Flame all the time, it yields positive results and it also improves your relationship as you progress further on your journey.

Life is short and unpredictable so do what makes you happy all the time.

Enjoy your journey!

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    How does my twin flame feel when I’m thinking about her?

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    It feels like my Twin Flame is asking this question. I knew right away that he was thinking of me yesterday. Here is how I felt.

    • Restlessness

    I felt restless all day. I could not focus on doing meaningful tasks. All I could feel was him pulling me into the connection. I could not control the intense magnetic connection. Even though I did not want to think of him, I felt compelled to remember our memories. It is until I accepted to embrace the restlessness that I felt better.

    • Warm heart area sensations

    I felt warm feelings of love coiling around my heart area. I felt consumed by his love. All I did was reciprocate the feelings — I sent him to love back into my heart. I took time off to meditate and think of his love and how safe I feel with him. I sent him love in form of a prayer.

    • Mental conversations

    I felt a quick energetic rush. I suddenly felt intensified telepathic communication with him. It felt as if he was sitting right next to me. We had random conversations in my mind. If someone has not met a Twin Flame yet, they would assume that I am delusional or crazy. The Twin Flame connection is a supernatural experience.

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    Do you feel a magnetic pull with your twin flame?

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    Yes, all the time! If I told my stories to someone who has never met a Twin Flame, they would absolutely say that I am crazy or delusional. There are no perfect words to explain the Twin Flame connection. When you are triggered into awakening, you realize that the connection is not something that magically happens to you. Rather, it has always been there but dormant. You have always been a Twin Flame without awareness.

    He or she has always existed within you. You feel oneness — you feel complete. Somehow it makes sense why you always felt some level of unexplained emptiness.

    You would think that the connection would have faded by now. It has been four years since we last saw each other. Physical separation has intensified and polished our connection over the years.

    It does not matter who I am with or where I am. I feel the magnetic heart pulling even right now as I write this. It always feels like he is thinking of me as much as I think of him. I for sure feel it that he feels me.

    Stay Blessed!\

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    In the twin flame journey, how do I focus on myself? How do I align with my soul? Does it mean start doing things in the 3D that make me feel complete/fulfilled, things that I’m drawn to doing but never had the courage to do?

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    Self-Love is the process of growing your own Personal Power at your core to stay stable, strong, and grounded in yourself; your energy, emotions, thoughts, and feelings.

    As you work on staying grounded in your Personal Power, the process of self-love will lead you to discover your true authentic self. Self Love is a process that also empowers you to redefine your life by setting healthy boundaries to what makes you happy and what does not.

    Everything you create and discover in this Twin Flame process is all about you as an individual; the other half of the soul. The Twin Flame Journey takes place inside the individual Twin Flames whose shared energy must come to a place of balance and harmony within both partners.

    Having personal power grows your emotional immunity to stay balanced in harmony and peace within. The more you ground your energy at the core the more you are stable enough to keep your emotions, feelings, and thoughts at bay. Once you master how to take care of yourself from within, the benefits will manifest physically in your life.

    Your self-esteem and personal confidence go through the roof. Once you discover who you truly are and what you are capable of, you realize that you are so capable of so much more than you thought before.

    You acknowledge your responsibility as an individual and you start working towards a meaningful life goal or mission. This is because you discover that you have so much love within yourself to share with the whole human collective.

    Self Love also opens your heart to experience love by being open to loving others and you accept being loved back in return. Here, you can accept unconditional love in yourself and express it to others and vice versa.

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    How can I raise my vibration when in a twin flame chaser/ runner phase part of the journey?

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    It is quite challenging at first — raising your energetic vibration. You eventually get a hang of it. You start enjoying the positive vibes. You eventually grow an emotional muscle to stay in a natural positive energetic vibe. Here are some tips for you:

    Embrace Solitude

    Get rid of daily irritants

    Clean up your living space

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    How can a chaser twin flame tell the difference between ghosting from an actual real twin flame runner from being stonewalled or given the silent treatment by a narcissist?

    I have experienced both situations — I have known a narcissist ghosting me and I also know how it feels to chase a runner twin flame.

    From my experience, it all comes down to the connection.

    A narcissistic Relationship…

    When it comes to chasing a narcissist, it’s not fun. You feel bruised all the time. It is because, to a narcissist, it is a game. It is all orchestrated by them because he or she is obsessed with being in control of the situation and themselves. In this game, they hold all the cards. At the end of the day, you always lose — the narcissist has to always win.

    Secondly, they don’t have any respect for you. It is always one-sided and you must always bend to their will. Even though you want to quit, it is impossible because you have no power in the play. You are blind to the exit options. You feel stuck.

    But, Twin Flame Running and Chasing …

    When you chase a Twin Flame, it is another playing field. You know within you that you have the power to stop. You feel it within that you are the same — twin flames are two sides of the same coin. You don’t feel the distinction in your energetic vibration. You have the same energetic signature or blueprint.

    In essence, chasing a twin flame is a healing process as much as running. You learn various love lessons. You rediscover yourself. Chasing a twin flame puts you in a space of vulnerability. You open yourself up to your twin flame and the journey itself. You let your twin flame know how you feel. You express your love in the rawest form. The more you do this, the more healing you achieve.

    It is indeed true that twin-flame love breaks your heart open. It is indeed true that it is through the wound that light enters.

    In brief, a narcissistic relationship bruise you while a Twin Flame chasing or running heals you in the process.

    I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay blessed!

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