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How do you cope with the pain of physical separation from your Twin Flame then?

Soothe yourself with all the beautiful memories that you remember about yourself and your Twin Flame. For me, I remember every moment that I shared with my Twin Flame when I feel lonely.

When you meet your Twin Flame for the first time during the bubble love phase, 

What helps with remembering these beautiful memories is when I remember the “bubble love” phase which was our initial encounter, the energy, the passion, the intensity of our bond, and the acts of kindness and empathy that we do for each other, I feel happy instantly no matter how depressing the current mood is.

Having said all that, it is not easy to stay immersed in these memories because self-doubt will creep in all the time, and this is why I gave you those two perspectives above for you to have an idea of what self-doubt does to me.

You will go back and forth between having hope, and having doubt until you learn to purge all the fears within yourself that keep you in a low-energy vibe. Sometimes you may think that you are healed but it is okay to be triggered into feeling fear and pain again because all that pain has to be healed.

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Do you agree that a twin flame relationship is more than physical attraction and sex? If so, why do you believe this?

Yes, I do agree. The most distinct thing about my Twin Flame connection that I have never had with anyone else is the Soul Intimacy. The physical separation phase that we have been through has taught me that I will always feel him. I feel a closeness with my Twin Flame energetically, and emotionally. I feel energetic oneness. I feel like I share his conscience. His essence is always merging with mine.

At the beginning of the physical separation phase, I was very worried that I would never see him again. I was very naive about how the Twin Flame experience works. I was trying to understand the relationship from an ordinary relationship perspective. I had to first go through most of the experiences to understand that a Twin Flame separation is an illusion.

When your Twin Flame is struggling with healing, you feel their pain. You can feel him or her struggling to find the energetic balance within themselves. It is always best to focus on your healing because it helps to boost your Twin Flame’s healing. You balance each other.

It is impossible to describe to anyone who is not a Twin Flame how you can telepathically know how your Twin Flame is feeling or what he or she is thinking about.

When I was struggling with the energetic merging with my Twin Flame, I struggled with my experiences. I first ran from him; blocked him out of my life. I thought that it would make the chaotic emotions stop. Meeting him triggered both bliss and chaos in my life. I struggled to find the energetic balance within. I resisted feeling the emotional pain. I felt frustrated about meeting him. I was very confused about why I could read his thoughts. I could tell how he feels.

Even though we have has an estranged relationship my Twin Flame and, I have felt energetic growth over the past three years. I had to Awaken to the Twin Flame experiences. I had to accept the Spiritual nature of the Twin Flame process. And I had to accept the changes that the Twin Flame encounter triggered within me and my life situation.

All the challenging situations that I went through to get to this illumination stage taught me new lessons about love. I learned to grow my inner strength to face myself and the Twin Flame process.

I hope that my perspective helps you. Stay Blessed!

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I have this feeling I will see my twin flame soon. It’s been 4 years with no contact and he has not given me a reason to believe so. Has anyone felt this before their union?

I feel this occasionally too. Especially when I feel settled within. When I feel unhurried. I feel imminent knowing that he is going to come back because why would the universe manifest him to me just to take him away. My Twin Flame is the best gift I have ever received on this earth. It is indeed a blessing to know someone like him.

Today is one of those days — I woke up feeling happy. I wondered to myself, what is going on? After a while, my intuition pointed at my twin flame.

I know that he is coming back and the thought of his return scares me to death. But I feel ready to see him and correct all the wrongs.

I apologized to him over the years for running away. I will start from there.

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What is your twin flame story?

Like any other day during the summer of 2017, it was the usual chaos during my boring daily routines. I was stressed out about my working situation; My business was failing. I felt creatively blocked to find the needed solutions. I felt unmotivated to enjoy my job.

I wanted to change everything — I craved to live a life of authenticity and inner peace. I felt restless all the time. I could not focus on anything meaningful. Everyone around me assumed that I was happy with my life situation. It seemed as if I had it all figured out. If anybody around me had cared to look more closely, you could see unhappiness in my eyes. I felt lost.

I felt disconnected from within myself — I felt disconnected from the world around me.

My marriage was not going great either. No marriage is all roses and sunshine. You have your highs and lows. I was holding onto a relationship that had already dissolved. Nothing could rekindle it. We both tried but nothing seemed to work.

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I was afraid of letting go of my non-existent marriage. I was afraid of ending up alone. I was afraid of changing my mutual friends with my husband. I was worried about what others in my community would say if my marriage failed. I was uncertain of my future if I chose to divorce. I was also anxious about the comments that would come from my family — I did not want to be a disappointment.

I was at a point in my life where the light within me was slowly dwindling. I was in dogma. I was very indifferent about everything I did — Every decision that I made came from a place of fear, anxiety, or pain. I felt lethargic all the time.

My life was centered around chasing money daily — I had no deeper meaning in my life. I had no particular direction I was moving towards. I had no purpose. I was very unmotivated to find solutions to the obstacles that hindered the accumulation of happiness in my life.

I did not know how to move forward with my life because I had no clear focus on where I wanted to go. I did not know how to start creating meaningful change to improve my emotional well-being. Apart from inhibiting feelings of helplessness, I was always feeling hopeless on a daily. I could wake up every day and ask myself: ‘What is the meaning of my life?’

I felt stuck in everything that I did. I felt blocked emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. I knew deep down that for me to have happiness and inner peace, I had to change the different aspects of my life that were holding me back.

During the mess of dealing with my emotional and psychological crisis, we received a letter from a friend who was going through a difficult time in his life as well. He said that he needed to go somewhere for a temporary change. He said that needed a change in perspective. He said that he was going through an existential crisis.

I welcomed the idea of having a guest without any expectations — I knew that it would be a very good distraction from my boring routines. I also had a deep feeling of elation.

Before our guest got in touch with us, I had heard so many stories about him during the five years that I was married to his friend. Nonetheless, he was not the kind of person that stayed in my memory. I was very interested in knowing about him.

Whenever mutual friends told stories about him, he sounded like a snob. Everybody commented on his intense desire for a luxurious lifestyle. He was dating a supermodel then. He had a very high-paying job — He lived an exotic lifestyle.

When I thought about him staying in our humble home, I also retracted the idea of hosting. I felt nervous. I feared that I was not financially ready to host a high-maintenance person. It was going to be his first time in a third-world country. I hoped that he would have cold feet and cancel his trip. If he was going to show up, I wished that he would choose to stay in a hotel.

Our guests had declared that they would only stay for less than a week because they had no expectations of visiting a third-world country; I found it snobby and ignorant. Nevertheless, I started preparing my home for their arrival. The visit was an impulsive decision that our guest made. He said that he had no plans. He had no expectations at all. All he needed was to escape his life temporarily.

We expected him to arrive with his famous supermodel girlfriend — we reserved a six-star hotel and a personal driver for their 10-day visit. Visiting a third-world country would be a drastic change for both of them.

He was looking for a paradigm shift. He also mentioned that visiting a third-world country was in contrast to his life situation. Since my job was struggling, I had no money to refurbish the house. I panicked. Hosting our high-maintenance friends was going to be a challenge.

I took a day off work. Washed down the walls of the house. Cleaned every corner. I also prepared the guest room just in case our guests changed their minds and decided to stay with us instead of booking an expensive hotel.

I anticipated dreading the preparation process. On the contrary, I enjoyed preparing for our guests. Somehow I had joy, excitement, and at the same time anxiety. I felt butterflies in my stomach.

A week before the visit, our guest called us on the phone. We had a brief conversation as an introduction to each other since we had never met before. We both wanted to break the ice before we met in person. We both had no expectations of each other. The call did not last long, maybe an hour or so. We talked about his visa expectations and other travel details.

After the phone conversation, I learned that he was a stubborn character who likes to do things his way. He sounded nervous talking about the details of traveling to a third-world country.

The week went by so fast that the day quickly came to pick up our guests from the airport. Finding him was very easy. When I met him for the first time, he leaned in for a quick hug and peck on the cheek. It was a casual introduction. We were both surprised that we both looked different from how we looked in the photos.

There was nothing unusual about him except that he was alone. I expected him to arrive with his girlfriend. He did not mention why he arrived alone.

We drove to my favorite restaurant near the airport for lunch because the guest seemed hungry. Besides, I thought that it would be good for him to relax before we headed home. To my surprise, he seemed calm and quiet. I assumed that it would be the opposite; he sounded overwhelmed and anxious when we spoke on the phone a week before his arrival. He was very different from how I imagined him to be.

We were both relaxed in each other’s presence. He was not a stranger at all. I could not shake the uncanny familiarity and the way our energies merged. I felt like I had known him before I met him. It felt like we had lived a previous lifetime. I knew right away that there was something oddly strange about our guest because knowing him felt like I was getting to know myself. I secretly took a photo of him that day. I look back on it every time I miss him. I see how calm and relaxed he was to be around me. I felt the same way too.

Meeting the guest and talking to him before our lunch was the most interesting conversation that I ever had. His energetic vibes felt refreshing. I felt aligned with him instantly. I felt safe being around him. We openly shared both our fears and desires. We both realized there and then that we had so much in common even though we seemed the opposite from the physical perspective: He sounded like he was another version of me raised differently from another continent.

When lunch was served, we shared our food. For the first time in my life, I felt like I had finally found a home. This feeling was so natural that I forgot we had just met. From thereon, I understood that I had been looking for the other half of me without knowing that I was searching for him. I never expected to meet anybody like him.

The drive to our home was over 40 minutes from the airport. We still kept going in our conversations. With a few beers for the ride, we became more comfortable conversing. We talked for hours and we did not realize how much time had passed. We’re so engulfed in our energetic bubble. I kept looking at him and wondering how I knew him from before. As we laughed together all the way home, I realized that he was so much different from what I had expected. He was not a snob. He was more like me — like the other part of myself.

When we got to the house, he was happy to crash anywhere. He said that was also comfortable with crashing on the couch. Luckily enough, I had the guest bedroom ready just in case he wished to stay with us. The guest was pleased and humbled that we wanted him to stay in our house. He also said that living with us felt like home already.

As the night progressed, I started feeling closer and closer to him as if he and I are one person in two bodies. I could not understand how he completed sentences for me. Sometimes he could articulate things that I was instantly thinking of as if he was living in my mind. At some point during our conversations, he said to me: ‘You are my kind of girl!’ We felt like we were more than best friends.

When we were having dinner, the guest was sitting across from me at the dinner table. He started narrating a childhood story. Somehow, my eyes locked with his. Neither of us would look away. It was like I wanted to see more and more of him as I looked deeper into his eyes. For over three minutes, I could not look away — We both felt the intense magnetic connection. It was a cosmic feeling, to say the least. I saw so much more than just his blue eyes: Deeper as I looked into his eyes, I had this unexplainable feeling as if I was drowning in myself It was a soul-shocking experience and heart-opening!

He had this cheeky smile on his face as he continued to look into my eyes. We both acknowledged each other. I felt a mix of empathetic feelings for him. We got lost in each other. It was such a beautiful feeling locking eyes with him. I was overwhelmed by the fact that I was feeling something new for a stranger. I had never felt anything special for anybody else that I had ever dated before.

After I locked eyes with him, I went to bed at once because my heart was racing so fast — I was overwhelmed by the new feelings that the guest had evoked within me. Our eye contact triggered chaotic emotions within me. I was drunk and tired that it was easy for me to fall asleep after having such a surprisingly intense day. Everything happened so differently from how I imagined would go down.

The next morning, I felt the worst that I had ever felt with emotional chaos; his presence had triggered a wave of emotional chaos within me; my knees felt weak. I had heart palpitations. My energetic vibration increased in frequency. I could feel his energy more intensely than before. I could not fathom why my heart was beating so fast when I saw the guest over coffee the next morning. I was so frustrated by my new chaotic feelings — I had an intense double heartbeat. The pounding of my heart was so strong that I felt like my chest was breaking open.

I threw up pretty much all day. It was the only way to release the energetic pressure in my chest. I felt like he had downloaded both his energy and conscience into mine. I was going through an intense energetic merging phase, and I could feel an energetic union with him.

During breakfast, I could not look at him; I avoided looking into his eyes as much as I could. He had this persistent stare. I could tell that he wanted more eye contact. I knew that meeting him was going to change my life forever. It did. We both announced at the same time that we were not feeling great after being exhausted from the day before.

After the intense eye contact from the previous night, it was an awkward and uncomfortable situation. We both knew that we had unlocked feelings within each other. We both knew that we share a Sacred bond.

Our guest had to catch up with his sleep that day because of the time difference. I had to live my day as normally as I could. I could not stop thinking about the uncanny familiarity that I felt with him. My thoughts were obsessively racing toward him all day. My mind could not shut off! I could remember how good I felt when I locked eyes with him. I could not shake the feeling of the loving pull that I started to grow toward him.

After locking my eyes with my Twin Flame, I felt him energetically whether we were together in the same room or away from each other. I kept daydreaming about him. I also dreamed of him every night. The double heartbeats grew in intensity each day as if both our hearts were merging into oneness. After I found my Twin Flame, my perspective toward my life situation changed.

For someone who had planned to stay for a week in a third-world country, my Twin Flame did not want to leave. It became three weeks. We did not want to separate from each other. He promised that someday when the timing is right, we shall find a way back to each other. I believe him.

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How do I stop feeling powerless in my twin flame journey? I’ve tried everything in my power to let go, move on, shift the focus on myself, acceptance, But after a short time, my body will go into a complete panic (Heart and chest ache) until I check.

I know the energetic pull very well. It is more of a compulsion. I have been there many many times. Sometimes I would distract myself all day with all sorts of activities but then find myself pulled into thinking of him. Sometimes I would see something that reminded me of a memory of him.

I forced myself to surrender many times but always felt like I was running from myself. It felt as if I was blocking the connection.

Surrendering to self-love is not easy either. It is very challenging to grow the emotional muscle to focus on yourself when your Twin Flame is on your mind 24/7. Sometimes you live in a life situation where you don’t have enough time to focus on yourself. You could have children to take care of and support. You could be very busy at work all week.

I know this sounds like a cliché but no one will save you from feeling like this. Sometimes meeting a Twin Flame feels like an eternal curse. There is nothing you can do to change the nature of your bond. You are connected forever.

These simple tips helped me to stop feeling powerless:

  • Sit with your pain

Do not hide from it. Do not judge yourself for feeling it. Let it pass through Ulysses by accepting how you feel. Do not put up any resistance to it.

Suffering from your fears and insecurities is what allows you to build courage and perseverance.

Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempts to escape the negative, to avoid it or squash it or silence it, only backfire. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is struggle. The denial of failure is a failure. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame.

To achieve healing is to water down life’s most terrifying and complex challenges and take action.

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  • Have a Positive Focus

You have to learn how to focus and prioritize your thoughts effectively. Learn how to pick and choose what does and what does not matter to you by honoring your choices and preferences. You have finely honed personal values to achieve results.

It takes a lifetime of practice and decline to achieve the results. You will regularly fail. But it is perhaps the most worthy struggle one can undertake in one’s life.

When you are struggling, you will see every adversity as an injustice, every challenge as a failure, every inconvenience as a personal slight, and every disagreement as a betrayal. You will be confined to your own petty, skull-sized hell. Burning with entitlement and bluster. Running in circles in circles of your own feedback loop from hell. In constant motion yet arriving nowhere.

  • Be comfortable with being different

The journey always goes on. The you hide your emotional pain, you create a world of despair. You feel indifferent to the world and yourself. You hide in a gray, emotionless pit of your own making. You always feel self-pity perpetually distracting yourself from living life to the fullest.

Stay Blessed!

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How do I know the anxiety and dread that I felt when I went through the DNOS on the twin flame journey, is mine or her’s? It just comes out of nowhere at times, I go from a feeling of surrender to a DNOS state.

I think I know by what you mean by anxiety and dread. I have been on this Twin Flame journey for over four years. I still randomly feel unexplained anxiety that is not particularly mine. It never used to happen to me until I met him.

I feel like this is the part of the spiritual aspect of the twin flame experiences that is challenging to explain to a non-twin flame.

It is such an overwhelming feeling when you channel anxiety that is not yours. You cannot control the intensity of your emotions. You feel instantly rattled up without a direct cause.

For me, when it’s my anxiety— it is easy to calm myself down. I easily figure out a solution because I can easily tell the trigger. When it’s my Twin Flame, it is such a restless feeling. Sometimes it quickly passes and other times, it lingers on. If it persists I feel endless desolation. I feel like purgatory. Usually I just let all the alien feels pass through me.

I hope that my answer helps you.

Stay Blessed!

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Why are twin flame runners vulnerable and open at the beginning, then act like it’s no big deal later down the line, after the initial bubble phase? 

I know what you mean: From my running experiences, the runner goes through a phase of aftershock. He or she does not believe what just happened to them as if your love connection puts them in a high or a daze.

He or she does not believe that they could be that vulnerable. You feel exposed to your divine lover.

A Twin Flame walks into your heart and breaks down all your walls. If you were not used to feeling vulnerable .org feeling loved unconditionally, you completely shit down.

Life as you know it changes dramatically overnight. You go through a series of emotional cleansing.

Even though you are not a Spiritual person, you go through an accelerated Awakening.

You transform from the inside to the outside — your soul growth ripples into your life situation.

You manifest abundance and success because you’re shared energy is empowering. You are energized to pursue your wildest dreams.

Twin Flame Love is beautiful!

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Is it normal for a “chaser” twin to just stop trying after the runner has a long period of avoidance? 

It is very interesting when this happens — you feel exhausted from chasing because it feels like chasing the wind. You keep going in circles thinking you will get any response or positive results but chasing only amplifies the running behaviors.

You finally accept that chasing is not the answer; you Surrender.

Instead of investing your energy in chasing and obsessive behaviors, you pull it back gradually towards yourself — you take the most challenging journey of all, and you travel back within yourself to the core.

You embrace yourself—you hug your inner child.

The runner Twin Flame automatically feels the energetic shift since you operate as a single energetic unit.

If you want to test if your runner feels you as much as you feel him or her, do it — honestly stay grounded in your energy without running or expecting him or her to chase. Mind your own business and they will gradually try to reappear to give you a hint that they exist.

If you know in your Soul that a Twin Flame loves you, you have no worry or fears that their love for you will dissipate. You also feel the connection grow within you every day!

Surrender indeed frees your Soul — you gradually grow the inner strength to be yourself. To learn more about your desires and spiritual needs.

I do believe that after a while, the storm within you calms down. When you feel balanced and grounded in inner harmony, it manifests in your life situation.

You start to unlock your blessings and abundance.

A Twin Flame Connection is more than just romance and Orgasmic Intimacy, it brings joy and happiness.

A reunion with a Twin Flame is imminent if you believe it and desire it.

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How do you feel like a Twin Flame Chaser when the Runner attempts to return?

Calmness washes over you. Suddenly, you watch your wildest dreams come true. You realize that all that desperation that you had previously was not of any significance at all.

You feel fairness in life. You realize that you deserve happiness as much as everyone else.

You feel like you grow wings to fly – You suddenly know how angels feel when they have wings to fly.

You realize that all the frustration and pain of understanding True Love were worth it because a Twin Flame love is way beyond special. There are no particular words, to sum up, the experience.

After you meet your Twin Flame, you understand lessons of Forgiveness, True Love, Unconditional Love, Self-forgiveness, Self-love, and most of all, FREEDOM.

When the runner Twin Flame returns, your HEAVEN begins as a Chaser.

You trust the divine to keep them around – You want to be with them still but you know that you must have control of the LOVE that you feel because you do not want to scare them off.

All in all, you want your Twin Flame to stay FOREVER.

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When your Twin Flame is married to someone else, what do you do if you love them unconditionally?

When you meet your eternal lover, nothing can prevent you from feeling unconditional love for them.

Even though they are married to someone else, you crave to be together and it gets very complicated when their Karmic relationship is the obstacle standing in your way.

Well, you will not be able to move on from a Twin Flame no matter what you do but you can learn to feel happy as you trust that you will eventually be together. 

The best way to know that you will eventually reunite with your Twin Flame is by making sure that you have clear means of communication between you and your Twin Flame.

Make your plans clear to your Twin; If you wish to move on from the frustration of waiting for your Twin Flame, you must let your Twin Flame know. 

And, if you wish to wait for your Twin Flame to return and have a relationship with you, you must also be clear and tell your Twin Flame about your plans.

If you wish to wait for your Twin Flame to dissolve their Karmic ties, focus on improving yourself so that you can become the authentic version of yourself.

Also, focus on loving yourself, trusting that you will eventually meet again. Be faithful to your Twin Flame Connection and have hope that unconditional love always wins.

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