There is no end to the Twin Flame connection and nothing you can do can sever the connection no matter what you try to do.
Even though you have been married before you meet your Twin Flame, you learn various love lessons during your marriage that prepare you to understand your Twin Flame relation before.
If you allow yourself to accept your Twin Flame love connection, you allow yourself to grow in love and if you are already married, you have to make the most uncomfortable choices so that you can change and bloom.
It is a tough choice to let your Twin Flame live their life without you in and it feels impossible to let go but it is the best choice.
Your Twin Flame will eventually return when they are ready to confront the nature of your Twin Flame relationship if they are still married.
If you are in a marriage yourself, you will have to choose to dissolve your marriage to have a chance of a harmonious relationship.
Twin Flame’s initial meetings are always unplanned and you have to go through so many changes to have happiness with your Twin Flame eventually.
Women naturally are more tuned into our emotions and we freely talk about our feelings, unlike males. Even if a man is a chaser or runner, they rarely talk about it. That’s why you hear more from women than from men. This also applies to balancing the divine masculine energy with the divine feminine.
If you have been a runner before, you understand that each Twin Flame has both masculine and feminine energy within itself. For you to feel balanced within — to attain Inner Union — you have to feel balanced within. You must feel grounded in the shared energy within before you balance it with your Twin Flame through the energetic merging. From my experience, when I felt more divine masculine energy than feminine, my energy felt heavy and intense. I could relax — always restless.
When I was more into my divine feminine energy, I was always in tears. It still catches me off guard and I get all emotional. If you judge your Twin Flame for either running or chasing, you are judging yourself.
Well, lots of benefits; you have to be brave to let go. You go through a lot of trying moments to finally let your Twin Flame be the person he or she is. Here are some benefits of letting go:
Inner peace and harmony — the moment you feel a hint of harmony within, you realize that you have the inner power to Surrender. You finally accept the situation the way it is and you trust that everything will be alright without your control.
The running and chasing phase evokes intense feelings within you. When you finally Surrender, you give yourself to heal trauma and core wounding. The reason why you chase the runner is that you assume that your Twin Flame can save you from yourself but you later realize that you are the answer to healing your pain.
The runner on the other hand needs to go through his healing. Surrender allows her or him to grow an appreciation for your connection. Remember that he or she can only run that far. Surrender is a graceful phase of the journey — you free yourself of fear. You realize that there is freedom in letting go.
That is normal and perfectly okay; it sucks but you gotta let it sting. Your Twin can go to extreme lengths and find exotic ways to avoid you but the more effort he or she invests in blocking you, the more time they think of you because you are always in their mind 24/7. The runner experiences all sorts of fears — the fear of abandonment. The fear of facing themselves. You have no control over what the runner does; you can only experience the effects of his or her running behaviors. Everything will be alright eventually.
I know what you mean: From my running experiences, the runner goes through a phase of aftershock. He or she does not believe what just happened to them as if your love connection puts them in a high or a daze. He or she does not believe that they could be that vulnerable. You feel exposed to your divine lover.
A Twin Flame walks into your heart and breaks down all your walls. If you were not used to feeling vulnerable .org feeling loved unconditionally, you completely shit down.
Life as you know it changes dramatically overnight. You go through a series of emotional cleansing. Even though you are not a Spiritual person, you go through an accelerated Awakening. You transform from the inside to the outside — your soul growth ripples into your life situation. You manifest abundance and success because you’re shared energy is empowering. You are energized to pursue your wildest dreams.
You can never choose to meet a Twin Flame and the events that unfold after your initial encounter are all beyond your control.
You can meet a Twin Flame when you are both single but not ready to confront your feelings for each other which can cause a temporary separation.
One of the reasons why a Twin Flame would choose to marry someone else over you is because they could be afraid of feeling vulnerable when they are around you.
It is not your fault. A Twin Flame would deny themselves the blessings of a union with you because he or she does not feel worthy of pure love.
It could be that the overwhelming feelings they have for you trigger so much pain within themselves that they had buried within themselves.
Not every Twin Flame is ready to confront the chaotic Twin Flame emotions. Not everyone that has met a Twin Flame is willing to change their life situation to pursue a union.
The changes that we Twin Flames go through are accelerated, unexpected, and not in our power to control the nature of the process of change.
A Twin Flame would therefore choose to run into marriage with someone else because it feels easier and safe. Fearing the changes & uncertaintyWhen you meet a Twin Flame, it is not always roses and peaches.
You go through excruciating chaotic emotions. Your dreams change. Your emotional well-being is destabilized. You go through a series of energetic cleansing. You are forced to make a change to align yourself with the new Twin Flame shared energy.
When I was new to the Twin Flame experiences, I did not admit that I was a Twin Flame. I did not want to go through the scary experiences.
Societal pressureSome Twin Flames are forced to marry someone else because of the pressure from family and friends. In cases of arranged marriages, you cannot intervene if your Twin Flame’s family has the power to choose.
Wrong match for relationshipsEven though you share a bond with your Twin Flame, it is not a guarantee that you are a perfect match for a relationship.
When it comes to Twin Flames, there is a lot of hypersensitivity and explosive emotions. Small issues are always argumented. It feels like you are walking on eggshells when you try to talk about the uncomfortable conversations.
Twin Flame fights tend to arise because of the complicated nature of the encounter. The situation seems chaotic. The explosive emotions that you feel are challenging to fathom.
If you ask most Twin Flames who have had fights with their partner, he or she does not have a clear idea why they fought. The rifts between Twin Flames are caused by mainly the inner pain that each individual inhibits.
If a Twin Flame carries so much pain within themselves, it is exposed by the encounter. When a runner is in the process of diconnection, the pain is more exposed.
It is during the moments of running that you hurt a Twin Flame. I prematurely expressed my feelings to him. I did not know then that I was going through the Twin Flame experience. I thought that it was his fault that I felt the chaotic emotions. I thought that staying away from him to ease the pain that I was feeling.
I also told him that I love him. He was very confused why I said that I love him yet I wanted him out of my life. I was very confused why my heart loves him but I had so much fear within myself.
The situation was dire when I ran from my Twin Flame.I hurt him by my running behaviors.When I realised that I had hurt him, I apologised to him for causing so much pain. I also told him that I had inner issues to deal with. I had to grow and change my behaviors.
If you look closely, the situation usually asks for the running behavior — even though it angers and frustrates you, your Twin Flame’s love for you does not change.
I have learned that if I did not encounter the obstacles that I have overcome during my Twin Flame Journey, I would never have gone through the accelerated changes and growth.Keep in mind, I was the runner.
Your Twin Flame is a reflection of you in so many ways and no matter how much anger they bring to you, you know that deep down you have so much pain to overcome or else, you wouldn’t be triggered to feel stressed about their actions.
No matter what your Twin Flame is NOT doing, love should not hurt but heal you instead.You should not feel frustrated for loving someone; Twin Flame love must inspire you to find inner healing, happiness and self-rediscovery.
Every time I chased my Twin Flame, I was frustrated because I could not control the compulsive behavior and I craved to find inner balance to love love him yet leave him alone.
You have to know that your Twin Flame is not going anywhere and even though you are having an estranged relationship, you are both haunted by the intense feelings of unconditional love for each other.
The frustration that you feel is not because your Twin Flame is not treating you right but rather, it is because you have not yet developed an emotional muscle to accept that what you feel comes from within you and not by their actions.
Your Twin Flame can do whatever they please and you can also do you!Either way, they feel you as much as you feel them and they also have no justification of their behavior the same way you are confused by yours.
Focus on figuring out yourself and the rest will fall in place because you are the centerpiece of your Twin Flame experiences; you are the steering wheel.Your Twin Flame’s behavior says so much about you!
Every Twin Flame whether you are a chaser or runner, you have a dream to finally reunite with your Twin Flame eventually after the physical separation phase.
It is very antagonizing and heart-wrenching when the communication between you and your Twin Flame becomes estranged and this happens for various reasons.
Also when the physical separation phase prolongs, you begin to worry that your Twin Flame would never return which increases your doubts about your Twin Flame experiences because sometimes you wonder if you are being delusional having faith in the connection that you feel within.
Here are some facts that you have to face at any stage of your Twin Flame journey:
You do not know when the separation will end. When you initially separate from a Twin Flame, you believe that you would see your Twin Flame soon but it never turns out to be that way because you realize that the changes happening in your life are divinely guided and for your good.
You also realize that your connection to your Twin Flame is sacred because you feel connected to them nonetheless and the Spiritual awakening that you go through brings enlightenment into your life.
It is okay for your Twin Flame to temporarily disconnect from you. When they return, they will tell you about their experiences. You will realize that you both went through almost the same experiences during the separation.
One lesson that I learned as a runner is that runners assume there is plenty of time to contemplate the situation. It’s not a fact. Your Twin Flame Chaser has the freedom to move on as fast as they want.
When you meet a Twin Flame, the connection triggers alchemical changes within yourself. Your encounter is a catalyst to the transformations. When you start changing within, you also change your physical life situation, relationships, friends, and acquittances.
Your energetic vibration aligns with your life situation.There is always an inner resistance to change. It is normal to feel afraid of the new. The uncertainty of the future brings feelings of restlessness and anxiety.
Change is the only constant during the Twin Flame journey. You also fear breaking down the barriers within you. You are afraid of facing your inner pain — You know that it has to go.
You know that you have to find inner peace. You want to feel free of fear. To overcome the inner resistance that you feel, you must find inner strength to face your fears. You realise that you have so much pain lodged within.
You must break your heart open to your truth. You have to accept yourself; the good, the bad and the ugly.To win the Twin Flame inner battle, you must allow yourself to heal. Healing begins with self-forgiveness. You let go of guilt, worry, fear, self-doubt, and all the negative feelings.
You have to train your inner voice to be your friend instead of a critic. You have to change your self-talk from negativity to positivity. You accept to create a meaningful life by letting go of bad habits.
You create a life that vibrates with your energetic vibration.Hugging your inner child is a journey that you take within yourself. For you to accept yourself, you have to know your inner child. Due to the mental noise and the fast paced world, it is easier to ignore your inner child. You get caught up in the motions.
You exist instead of living life. You sometimes feel like you are floating through life. You feel like you have no centre; everything that you do feels like you are chasing the wind. Your life is meaningless. You cannot ignore your inner child. You cannot ignore yourself. You are stuck with yourself. You are a limited edition.The most challenging part is accepting that your inner child is hurting.
When you have abandonment issues, unexplainable fears and inner pain, it is your inner child suffering. Some of the pain that you inhibit could have been inflicted on you during infancy. We go through series of societal conditioning. Parts of ourselves are partly shaped by those we encounter and the experiences that we go through.
Some inner pain is caused by you repressing anger, hurt, and emotional pain. If you do not face your pain, you bury it within. Unfortunately the Twin Flame encounter exposes your greatest desires and deepest fears. When you hug your inner child, you feel instantly healed. You feel free to be yourself. You feel released from inner fear.
It is also very uncomfortable to feel connected to a Twin Flame if you have walls built against love. If you are not used to feeling loved unconditionally, you are forced to run from a Twin Flame.
Self-love is the foundation of unconditional love. It is the starting point to understanding love. The foundation of Twin Flame love is self-love. You must know love to appreciate love.