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When it comes to Twin Flames, there is a lot of hypersensitivity and explosive emotions. Small issues are always argumented. It feels like you are walking on eggshells when you try to talk about the uncomfortable conversations.

Twin Flame fights tend to arise because of the complicated nature of the encounter. The situation seems chaotic. The explosive emotions that you feel are challenging to fathom.

If you ask most Twin Flames who have had fights with their partner, he or she does not have a clear idea why they fought. The rifts between Twin Flames are caused by mainly the inner pain that each individual inhibits.

If a Twin Flame carries so much pain within themselves, it is exposed by the encounter. When a runner is in the process of diconnection, the pain is more exposed.

It is during the moments of running that you hurt a Twin Flame. I prematurely expressed my feelings to him. I did not know then that I was going through the Twin Flame experience. I thought that it was his fault that I felt the chaotic emotions. I thought that staying away from him to ease the pain that I was feeling.

I also told him that I love him. He was very confused why I said that I love him yet I wanted him out of my life. I was very confused why my heart loves him but I had so much fear within myself.

The situation was dire when I ran from my Twin Flame.I hurt him by my running behaviors.When I realised that I had hurt him, I apologised to him for causing so much pain. I also told him that I had inner issues to deal with. I had to grow and change my behaviors.

If you look closely, the situation usually asks for the running behavior — even though it angers and frustrates you, your Twin Flame’s love for you does not change.

I have learned that if I did not encounter the obstacles that I have overcome during my Twin Flame Journey, I would never have gone through the accelerated changes and growth.Keep in mind, I was the runner.

Your Twin Flame is a reflection of you in so many ways and no matter how much anger they bring to you, you know that deep down you have so much pain to overcome or else, you wouldn’t be triggered to feel stressed about their actions.

No matter what your Twin Flame is NOT doing, love should not hurt but heal you instead.You should not feel frustrated for loving someone; Twin Flame love must inspire you to find inner healing, happiness and self-rediscovery.

Every time I chased my Twin Flame, I was frustrated because I could not control the compulsive behavior and I craved to find inner balance to love love him yet leave him alone.

You have to know that your Twin Flame is not going anywhere and even though you are having an estranged relationship, you are both haunted by the intense feelings of unconditional love for each other.

The frustration that you feel is not because your Twin Flame is not treating you right but rather, it is because you have not yet developed an emotional muscle to accept that what you feel comes from within you and not by their actions.

Your Twin Flame can do whatever they please and you can also do you!Either way, they feel you as much as you feel them and they also have no justification of their behavior the same way you are confused by yours.

Focus on figuring out yourself and the rest will fall in place because you are the centerpiece of your Twin Flame experiences; you are the steering wheel.Your Twin Flame’s behavior says so much about you!