Surround yourself with people who uplift you — When you share your stories with people who have never been on the twin flame journey. Or those who don’t understand you, you feel like you are going crazy and being obsessive. It is easy to doubt have you think. You feel so much emotional desolation, you feel restless and hopeless. You must be around people who support you emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. Avoid hanging out with energetic vampires; people who will drain you of all positivity.
Create and lament on your positive affirmations — I struggled with training my inner voice. I used to torture myself with negative thinking. I had a critical inner voice that constantly reminded me of how undeserving I was. It took me a while to turn my inner critical voice into my motivator and best friend. After I mastered that, I created simple daily positive affirmations that would boost my positive vibes whenever I felt low. I would say to myself; “I deserve my blessings.” “I am special to be a twin flame.” I am Enough.” “I deserve unconditional love.” I always lament positive affirmations to raise my energetic vibration.
Take social media out of the picture — Most of the frustration we experience as twin flames is because we rely on social media as a source of information to know about our twin flame’s welfare. Unfortunately, social media is very misleading since not everything you see happens in real time. Also, social media increases your fears and insecurities. Sometimes you feel unworthy of your twin flame if you compare yourself to their karmic partner. You also envy any person in your twin flame’s photos or videos. You can avoid all these negative emotions by getting rid of your social media altogether until you are stable enough to feel grounded and not to be triggered in a negative way.
Trust your inner knowing and intuition — respect them as your accurate natural compass or guide to keep moving forward on your journey. When you do not trust your inner knowing, comparing yourself with other twin flames’ journey is easier. You will start to envy those who seem to be doing better. You will always come across many twin flames going through their different journeys. You will run into many twin flame theories and ideologies. It is easy to get confused and lost when you don’t trust your intuition.
